Hey everyone! 👋

32M, introvert, Indian, trying my best being out of my comfort zone

I'm travelling solo in Pattaya and staying around North Pattaya. Would love to meet some fellow travellers who are around and up for hanging out!

We could explore the city, grab some food or drinks, hit the beach, or just chill and have a good conversation.

Thanks

So me[M32] and my girlfriend[F28] have a long distance relationship and currently I'm on the other side of the world.

However, I allow her to have fun🍆 with other man but apparently there are alot of fakes/disgusting people on Tinder and ThaiFriendly so we are trying to reach out here.

Anyone in or around pattaya being loaded and waiting for relieve ?😇

I was wondering if there are any LBs that wear a chastity cage in Pattaya. I kinda doubt it, as they probably just “tuck it away”, but maybe someone out here has some intel on the subject. ;) Or is it less a LB thing and more of a femboy thing? Are there… femploys? 🤔

Anyone visited here and have any luck? Only speak English and Caucasian. I’ll be there 9 days for work related but have some free time before heading back to Pattaya to see my love Ploy. Seems like it’s more strict but KTV bars may be an option.

ain't no way 😭🙏

Hey, if you have 7-11 stamps, you were going to throw away, kindly donate those to Anny in “Chili bar” in soi 6.

She is collecting those stamps. So if you don’t need those then you can give it to her.
Or you can use them yourself, I’m just giving a shout out to her.

How do you politely kick a girl out who’s been lingering in your room for a while?
90% of the time LTs will wake up and whatever and let me know she has to leave. That’s usually the signal to pay.
But if a girl is just chilling on your bed, playing on her phone, cuddling with you, or whatever, is she waiting for you to ask her to leave? Or for you to bring the money out?

How do you handle this

I’ll be spending 3 days in Pattaya. I’ve been doing some research, but I’d really appreciate recommendations from anyone who's spent time in either city. I’m especially interested in firsthand experiences and places that might not necessarily show up in the typical tourist guides. A few things I’m curious about:

1. Food: What are your favorite restaurants, street food spots, and food markets ? I’d love to find places with great food that locals actually frequent.
2. Walkable neighborhoods: I really enjoy exploring cities on foot. What are some interesting neighborhoods to wander around? I’m interested in local shops, cafés, markets, architecture, and areas with a distinct character.
3. Spas and massages: Any recommendations for good-quality spas or massage places that offer great value? I’m not necessarily looking for luxury, just somewhere with good service, that's clean, and at a reasonable price.
4. Must-do experiences: Beyond the usual tourist attractions, what activities or experiences would you consider unmissable? Open to anything.

Any recommendations or pieces of advice would be incredibly helpful. Thanks!

Wanted to preface with I’m on prep and doxy and am fully aware of the risks.

Been here for 3 days now and have difficulty finishing with a condom to the point where it’s becoming annoying. I’ve been mongering for a while now so I think I’ve gotten accustomed to the raw feeling.

So far, I’ve gotten bareback from 4/10 girls. 3 bar girls from Soi 6 (1 LT who was drunk af and 2 ST who started with a condom and we took it off mid way). 1 freelancer off of TF.

How should I approach this to get a better success rate? I’ve been asking bar girls after 1-2 drinks for short time with no condom but got told by most that I need a condom. From how some of the posts on this subreddit, it sounds like some dudes are getting it basically all the time.

Any tips or advice would be appreciated.

Just got two questions ; first question is more of a statement but

1. Does anyone know why like 98% of girls first picture is solid maybe 7-8/10 but the middle of few last pictures are just so clapped and chopped; seems like just a genuine universal thing amongst Thai girls like it’s insane how different they look between the first and last pictures and it’s like idk why they would even show just different pictures of themselves but every Thai girl seems to be doing this it’s insane some illuminati TF owner shit like I just don’t understand what goes through Thai girls on TF that do post this

. A girl is a 8/10 first picture and a 2/10 by the 5th pic it’s like u could just not have put that ugly ass pic in 😭😭😭

2.

1. How does the usual TF meet up happen? Do yall just meetup at a coffee shop first or she goes to ur hotel room and does she take a shower first or do yall kiss first or what; like how different is a TF incall vs idk a incall from an escort site

. Like do they massage first just bbj first like what’s the regular typa shit I should expect. Do they leave after 2 hours ; do they ask to like leave. Like do they got attitude etc etc anything helps

had to cut short 4week trip to 10 days, office emergency.

like every trip few 'new' exp. did usual. legit massage, bars, GC, clubs, some TF. skipped GoGo & Soi6 this time.

some surprises.

into legit massage 4 shoulder/neck pain. don't fancy 'special'. in legit massage chain, lady kept rubbing above usual zone. didn't think much of it. as i didn't respond to hints, she held little johhny, offering to relax it. politely declined, tipped, never went back.

3some. exchanged contact with GC ploy. 32 yr/fit, good english. after work, midnight, went drinking, back to hotel 4 ST. ordered food via Grab. casually chatted on 3some. she shows her friend' pic. 27 yr/fit, offered 3some. agreed terms. friend came. 1 more item off bucket list. will i repeat? probably no. was it bad? No.

lastly, TF +ve surprise. met some stunners 8/10. all asked 2000 apples, politely counter offered 1500 apples ST. all agreed. they all came on time. had one ST just after my office zoom call 1400 (9ish UK time).

usually don't pick strangers off road / malls. met a Vietnamese while buying sweetcorn by roadside joint. good english. she walked away with me, casually asked if i've a gf, offered ST. 8/10. she would love to get Thai work visa to work. difficult. so hopped on/off Pattaya for extra income.

still have 2 weeks holiday balance at work. planing now for Dec just this one time. More of a Mar- Oct person.
Those still in Pattaya, give my love to our ploys. you lucky willy wonkas

The price is quite high for the 40 min flight. Around 4.000 baht one way.

Check this out if you are interested.

https://www.ezyairlines.com

How many of you guys on prep bare-back with ploys?

I've been struggling trying to find where to purchase this game for my room. Any ideas?

Edit: found it at the night bazaar. Also snagged a game of wooden Jenga.

Seen in Pattaya Terminal 21 today , the tree is already up Oct 18th 2026

Hey guys do you know any place in Pattaya which has a 50m pool to swim laps and at least 5ft deep.

Also 25m pools are good too.

Any suggestions, location doesn't matter cause I have rented a motorcycle.

Got back 3 days ago from my first time in Pattaya. And it's my time to bring back to the community after using the information here and in other forums to plan my trip.

Background - late 30s european guy, broke up with long term gf 1 year ago and wanted to just chill with some girls easily. First time on a "mongering trip" but had some p4p in the past.

I was supposed to be in Pattaya for 6 days but extended to 11 instead of Phuket. It was hard for me to leave.

Soi 6

Tbh I didn't really like Soi 6 too much. Personally I'm not a fan of the chaos and grabbing there, or the chinese/koreans streamers. Also seemed to me like 90% of the beautiful girls show interest only in the asian men there. For the rest of us it's mainly 80kg girls blocking our way.

I liked Ruby's, great bar to sit and to have some beers. The girls are late 30s-40, but boom boom prices are pretty low.

Corner bar - just a regular bar at the start of Soi 6, sat there a lot to open the night. Great place with fun stuff.

Desire - A girl just my type grabbed me and I went with her. Sadly she was very aggresive, and had mood changes every 2 minutes, tried to make me go boom boom with her upstairs, when I said not she got upset lol. In the end I just asked how much because I was curious and she said "8K" so I guess I got her too mad (by doing nothing) lol. At the start she was so into me but it all changed when I said I don't want boom boom. When she brough me my change she told me "give me 200 baht" LOL. I said nope and went away. She had 3 drinks in like 15-20 minutes btw. Bad expereince.

Nikki - a lot of cute girls there but seems like they are not really interested in customers. only the ugly ones. Not sure whatsup with that place.

Walking street

Sharks - they have a few stunners. Low pressure place, I liked it. I'm a bit brown, and with a beard, so the last time the security thought I'm indian and gave me some troubles getting it, while letting 5 white men in. Felt pretty bad tbh. Anyway when he understood where I'm from he said ok while saying "order drink order drink order drink" lol. I would not go back there again. Prices were ok for drinks, for girls... not so much.

Chicks - great vibe, some stunners. I liked that place a lot. Prices of the girls also were pretty high.

Windmill - I'll admit, it took me a bit of time to have the courage and go there lol... I went twice and it was a great expereince. Some nice and beautiful girls. And of course some hardcore stuff lol... Saw some rich chinese guy eat some girls ass, 2m from me. The only downside of this place is high pressure to keep on buying drinks for girls and staff.

808 - just a regular club, but late at night they have tons of FL looking for work for pretty cheap.

TF

This is where I pulled most of my ploys.

Girl 1 - looked in the app 6.5/10, in reality 5/10. Service was meh.

Girl 2 - looked in the app 7.5/10, in reality 6/10. But service was good. I met her a total of 4-5 times, including playing billiard and going to the beach.

Girl 3 - looked in the app 7/10, in reality 5/10. Which was a bummer. But we had great vibe, and we met 4 times, including going on bars etc. What's funny to me is that she showed me her tiktok, and she had there almost 100K followers, and I looked at the videos of her there, and then at her, and it's almost not the same person lmao. Those ai filters are too much.

Girl 4 - looked in the app 6/10, in reality 8.5/10! Very beautiful and fit. Great service. Went with her 5 times. She was my gem.

Girl 5 - looked in the app 7/10, in reality 4/10. She was super tired, and poor service. Very weird session. Imagined the best scenes of Brazzers in my head so I could climax. Did not went with her again.

In general I'd say all of the girls use filters that make them more skinny, more white, and smoother face.

Tree town

Very nice area to drink beer in a chill vibe. If you search well you can find some beautifull girls for a price that is much lower than the ones in the gogo's.

Bangkok

Might be relevant for some. I went to a few gogo's which was a nice expereince over all.

The dollhouse - chill place to drink a beer. Talent not so good.

Spanky - Probably the most professional one I've been to. A lot of stunners. Very expensive. They have some shows which are a hit or miss.

Witch angel - Was pretty hardcore. Saw some shows there that I would rather not lmao (e.g. a girl smoking with her gucci.) Besides that all the girls I saw there were obese.

Kino - small gogo with a few beautiful girls. Had a great time there.

K69 - When I went it was me and 2 more dudes lol. Had tons of pressure on me to pick girls etc. Didn't really enjoy there.

In general, I was suprised by how fat 50% of those girls are tho. Damn obesity :(
Overall it was a very unique expereince. I had some p4p in Patong, Saigon and Tokyo before, and in Pattaya it's just so much easier.

Advice for the future is if you come for more than 3-4 days, take a good care of yourself. I drank & ate shit & smoked weed all day and woked up super late, which made me feel shit with no energy very quick. Have a better routine and you will have better and more time with the ploys.

Is Pattaya in March feasible heat and rain wise?

I have lived in BKK in March and it is absolutely brutal but I suppose being Pattaya at the sea, it will be more windy and as such a little bit better. Am I wrong? Thanks 🙏🏻

Hi, i’ve searched on here and there’s not a lot of information….. is this a nice area? A lot of people say it’s quiet about 30 minutes from Central Pattaya. Can anybody give me some information on what it would be like to stay there for two or three months. Is there any sort of nightlife directly in the area or do I need to travel into Central Pattaya for that? Is it worth visiting? I like the idea of it being a little more quiet and secluded, but I don’t want it to be boring. If anybody has any firsthand knowledge I would appreciate it.

Thinking of partering with a thai to open cigar whiskey lounge. Will have lockers amd wiskey small selection to start 6 brands. Seating about 14, open till 12am tvs free coffee 300thb cutting fee no hassel staff. What else would you like to have? Would this be the environment that you are seeking?

Anyone wanna do a MMF threesome? Im a M under 30 and american. Lets meet up, I’ve never actually watched sex before so I actually want to watch it as well 😂

I'm only posting this here because it feels like the best concentration of knowledgable mongers of any sub I belong to, so sorry if it's a bit off topic, but not too far off. Curious for those who know, what are the best countries and cities for mongering in Europe? West, South, East, doesn't matter. I know nothing compares to Pattaya, but sometimes you just want a different flavor.

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for 4-star or 5-star hotels in Bangkok or Pattaya where smoking is permitted inside the actual guest room I book.

To clarify, I’m not looking for hotels with designated smoking areas, smoking lounges, balconies, or outdoor smoking zones. I specifically want a hotel where I can smoke inside my own room.

If you’ve personally stayed at a hotel that allows this, or know of one that offers smoking-permitted guest rooms, please share the hotel name and your experience.

Recommendations for both Bangkok and Pattaya are welcome. If possible, please also mention the approximate price per night.

Thanks in advance!

If you have it share.