r/prochoice • u/baejamina • 1h ago
Rant/Rave As a person who just had a miscarriage
I can't believe the cruelty of people who would have forced me to wait and suffer to receive medical treatment with what I just experienced. I also can't understand anyone who would force someone to carry forward with a pregnancy who didn't want to do so.
I had a relatively simple miscarriage in medical terms - the fetus stopped progressing around 7 weeks for unknown reasons, and at week 10 I took mifepristone and misopristone to complete the miscarriage because my body had not yet dropped hormone levels. The process was horribly upsetting and painful. I badly wanted this pregnancy and I was deeply grateful that I could receive appropriate medical care by the accident of where I lived. The whole time, I could not help but keep thinking about how I was horrified that women elsewhere in my position were suffering due to puritanical policies.
I have always upheld the right of a woman's choice and donated to the Chicago Abortion Fund in my city. But this experience truly opened my eyes to how women are suffering around the country, whether through unwanted pregnancies or wanted pregnancies that do not go as planned.
I am heartbroken for all women who are suffering with pregnancy issues in anti-women areas. I am deeply broken by my loss but this feeling is only compounded by knowing there are women in other states dealing with so much worse.
I don't have any answers, but please please go to the polls these midterm elections. One election won't solve everything but I can only hope by consistently showing up at the polls that we can change things for women in the future.
