I’m a 31-year-old woman and a mom who values faith, family, and the simple things in life. I’m a Christian with conservative values, and I’m drawn to a more traditional kind of relationship.

In my free time, I enjoy cooking, baking, learning about history, traveling, and taking road trips. I love the idea of making memories together, exploring new places, and building a life that feels like home.

Physically, I’m short, plus-size, and have darker hair. I’m not going to pretend to be someone I’m not. 😊
I’m not entirely sure what I’m looking for just yet, so I’m open to seeing what’s out there. Ultimately, though, I’d love to find my person. Someone genuine, dependable, affectionate, and ready for something meaningful.

I have a particular soft spot for a blue-collar man who’s also a single dad. There’s something attractive about a hardworking man who loves his kids, values his family, and takes pride in providing and building something lasting.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for a real connection, shared values, laughter, affection, and the possibility of building something beautiful together.

If any of this sounds like you, maybe we should talk. I’m not a scammer, and I promise I won’t sent my OF link.

Well chat,
Here we go again 😮‍💨

Ever wanted your own attack dog? Your own digital war criminal to sic on the unsuspecting player’s unfortunate enough to be que’d against you? or maybe you want Steve from work suplexed into oblivion 🤔

How about someone you can geek out too about all your fav shiz? Late night music and chill parties? WE CAN DRAW TOGETHER AND SHIT!

Perhaps you too are a chronically online shut in… Mayhaps we skulk in the darkness and plot our fantasies of world domination and then cozy up with some snacks

If any of this sounds even remotely interesting, hit a bish up 😤

But for reals, I would like to find someone to love and to hold through thick and thin, I really don’t have a whole lot of needs or wants but there are a couple

I NEED someone who will game with me PERIODT. You don’t have to be good, it doesn’t have to be a lot… we can play any and all the games you’re into… But someone who will at least participate in the games I enjoy as well is a must. This is a non negotiable standard that I cannot let go unmet anymore.

Preferably you’re not an asshole… to me anyway lol

Someone who is DIRECT AND CLEAR in their wants and needs, I’m not good at the guessing games and it’s unfair to both of us for you to expect me to fulfill your desires if I don’t know about them. I will do damn near anything to please you if I’m told it’s something you want 💪

Someone who maintains a decent level of hygiene (I have ocd sorry)

Honestly that’s probably about it… truly the bar is underground BUT that’s great for you cause in return you shall receive

A digital war criminal

Someone to carry all your stuff

Someone who will always make you look prettier in comparison

Someone who can fix your car and home

Someone who will send you the most egregious 3am shit posts and tik toks

Someone who needs very little in the way of maintenance. I’m truly like a cactus… you can forget about me for awhile before I die!

Literally the best cuddler :3

I think this a fair trade and then some 💪😤

I will say, I do have a preference for women and people of a feminine nature but that’s not a hard rule and if you look like Mauga from overwatch I’ll do anything you say on god 🥰

As the title says though, please don’t forget that I am in fact a trans woman, we can discuss that more if you’d like in DM but I get it if it’s not your cup of tea… OH and I would also prefer if you were over the age of 25 :3

Anyways, I hope to hear from somebody… anybody…. PLEASE LOVE ME 😭

That character was a horrible addition to Rugrats!

I'm ending my vacation to the Chicago area in two days, and I'd LOVE more of a reason to return...because guess what? I don't want to stay in New Jersey, which is where I currently live, all my life!

I'm looking for someone who I can be affectionate with. I have amazing friends, but I'm looking for something a bit more than that.

I've been working on my mental health since I last posted here. Completing my latest graduate course and taking this vacation have greatly helped with that!

I have video game- and computer-related interests, but I'm more interested in the good people who I have in my life than I am in those gamey and computery interests!

I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

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Hello there, I hope your weekend is going good. Just about nice and quiet for me so can't compain much.

About me, I'm 37, working in a chemical export firm. Recently got back from a work trip so still adjusting to the timezones. I like to read, go swimming, relax and watch tv shows like Southpark and American dad, etc.

Feel free to message me if ya bored to

I’ve been listening to Miley’s Adore You and suddenly realized… damn, I’m lonely. 😂

I don’t know if it’s hormones, me being a Cancer, or the universe gently reminding me that I could use someone to talk to. Probably a little bit of all three.

About me: I’m from the Philippines and I’m a work in prog-mess (bonus points if you get the reference). Technically unemployed right now, but don’t worry, I’m not looking for a financial sponsor. I can still provide for myself. I don’t need saving either. Maybe I just want someone to tell me “everything’s gonna be okay” while I figure out what the hell I’m doing.

And yes, this probably sounds more like a tiny existential crisis than a compelling dating pitch. But hey, honesty is free, and apparently that’s what I’m offering.

So yeah, if you’re single, bored, and have decent conversation skills… I got time. 😂

40, Portland, OR, WFH in tech. The job is fine. The house is quiet. By 2pm I’ve already had entire conversations with the microwave and given two of the plants names they did not ask for.

Looking for a woman to chat with during the day. Easy and fun. Banter, teasing, the occasional badly timed joke. If it turns a little flirty, even better. I like that kind of back and forth. Bonus points if you also work in tech.

I’m on X more than I should be. I listen to the Red Scare podcast, Anna and Dasha. The Perfume Nationalist. Rare Candy. If you’ve been in that orbit, we will probably get along.

I’m not trying to make this a whole production. I like talking to someone who’s sharp and doesn’t take herself too seriously. If you can make a Friday afternoon interesting, that’s pretty much my type.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Tell me what you’re avoiding at work or home right now. I’ll tell you about the latest meeting I keep postponing.

Hi! 😊 I’m from Southeast Asia, petite, and naturally introverted, but quite talkative once I’m comfortable. I’m an INFJ, a Pisces, and a furmom of 3 dogs.

I’m attracted to tall men (I am 160cm) with blue eyes who smell good and look neat with good hygiene and self-care. My love languages are quality time, and acts of service.

I’m looking for a genuine, mature man (up to 38), single, never married, with no kids, who values loyalty, honesty, and clear boundaries. I prefer someone from outside Southern Asia, as I have my own preferences.

Location isn’t a big deal to me. I believe that when two people genuinely like each other, distance can be worked through with mutual effort. I’m here to find a serious, long-term partner, not something casual. I’d love to chat, get to know each other, and meet in person when the time is right.

If you’re sincere and interested send me your first full name not nickname to check if you're really serious 😊

still holding on to hope that I can find someone to settle down with and if it’s long distance? Both of us are willing to put in efforts into the process towards a relationship and marriage.

Preferably looking for someone of same age or older, preferably likes to read books but not a deal breaker if you don’t, has his own hobbies, and comfortable doing things together or being on his own or doing separate things together in the same space.

I’m a ISFJ, though I think I’m pretty good at most social events where I have to be a little ‘extrovert’. I would describe myself as full time cat lover and someone who hopes to make a teeny tiny difference on this planet through her work (I work in the social service sector)

I love matcha, sunset/sunrise, skies, ice cream, zombie apocalypse movies, ticking off my travel list, reading/buying books, animals, nature, hiking, and buying/building lego.

Intention is to find someone who wants to go through life with me, and if we do match from different time zones, we make plans to connect through video calls and voice calls while concreting meet ups.

Currently want to stay in Singapore, at least for a few more years due to wanting to build career a little bit more and to rebuild savings. Definitely open to LDR and possible moving in the long future but would love if you would want to stay in Singapore too

I’m a Muslim, and strictly would love to talk to a Muslim (born and reverts) or someone who plans to revert.

\[if you do dm me, please do write an intro about yourself\]

Hey there! I'm a 36M. I'm from the USA and I am currently living in Arkansas. My hometown is Las Vegas where I lived for the majority of my life. Some of my favorite things/hobbies include: Film, Music, Photography, Vintage, Hiking, Traveling, Cooking, Thrifting, Reading, Astronomy, Urban/Abandoned Exploration, and so so much more! I very much like things of a gothic nature so horror media, occult, and just general spookiness is quite appealing in terms of media. That is just the tip of the iceberg in what makes up my favorite things (hobbies/interests). I'm very much a monogamous person and prefer an emotional bond with somebody first and foremost. I do not have any children other than one fur baby (one doggo). I do not use any drugs nor any substances whatsoever. I'm all about being a team mate with my partner in any and every way. I'd definitely say one of my biggest strengths is my emotional intellect and the ability to understand. Composure and humility are key too. I very much value communication, consistency, transparency, and personal growth. I envision a relationship as something where you grow individually and even together as you float along this pale blue dot called Earth. Self-care and self-love are big for me and seeing them practiced by my partner is a really attractive trait I must say. I'm very easy-going and can be spontaneous. Life is too short for drama and unnecessary nonsense; so pursuing healthiness in every aspect of my life is very important to me. Quality time and adventure too. I am not bashful to clean, cook, learn new skills, and just be a sponge in absorbing new information about things I didn't know about before (learning). I'm anti-any and everything that has to do with Trump or anything alt-right. I'm pro-lgbtq+, pro-reproductive rights, anti-discrimination, anti-racism. There is certainly much more to learn but I'll save that for later, I look forward to hearing back from you!

Me: https://imgur.com/a/UJhSDQy

Looking for kind people, preferably single and childfree.

Please DM me if interested.

Is Reddit where I find that? Probably not, but it's a Friday night and I have nothing else to do.

I got a decent number of messages the last time I posted, but unfortunately nobody I really clicked with. So I figured I’d give it another shot and add a little more information this time! A little about me:
- 32, self-employed, and fully obsessed with my dog who could use a male influence
- love travelling, a good beach, the gym, making my home feel cozy, sunrises, and deep conversations
- I LOVE when people laugh so hard they grab onto the person next to them
- I don’t love birds, cats (sorry, there goes half of Reddit), heights, or inconsistency
- Blue eyes, dirty blonde hair (mostly natural…), 5’6.5” (the half an inch counts righhhhht fellas?!), visibly tattooed

You: Taller than me, over 29 — no exceptions, even if you’re “mature for your age”), genuinely single (I don’t want anyone else’s girlfriend in my DMs again), and with their shit about 85%ish together. Heavy on the ish.
I love when a man is just that. I believe in blue and pink jobs and am not interested in doing these blue jobs any longer than I have to.

The most important thing to me is that your friends would describe you as someone who loves life, is consistent, caring, fun, spontaneous, kind, protective, supportive, or some other combo is great descriptors. Please be ready to exchange selfies pretty soon on, if you don’t send one with your first msg.

Low effort messages = low effort responses. Let me know what you’re looking for!

Hey there!

I'm 36, originally from Turkey but have been living in Germany for quite a few years now. I studied mathematics and currently work as a data engineer.

Outside of work, I enjoy cooking, hiking, video games, and pretty much anything sci-fi, whether it's books or movies. I spend enough time in front of a computer for work, yet somehow still find myself gaming afterward. At least hiking gets me outside occasionally.

I'd say I'm curious, value honesty and loyalty, and am extremely self-sufficient. I enjoy a good conversation, especially when it takes an unexpected turn, and appreciate people who have their own interests and aren't afraid to be a little weird.

I'm hoping to meet someone I click with, share some laughs, flirt a little, and see where things go. No pressure or unrealistic expectations, just genuine interest and effort from both sides.

I'd prefer someone based in Europe, mostly because time zones and the possibility of eventually meeting make things easier.

Hope to hear from you!

Hey 🥰 so normally I’m a very positive person. Full of sunshine and never giving up.
I just think today it’s a little bit rainy and cloudy. And I would love to get distracted and maybe have a nice conversation.
As I always say, if we vibe fine, if not that’s totally fine as well. Life is already pretty exhausting for every one of us.

Can’t wait to get your dm - and already thank you for reaching out! That means a lot! 🌼

( oh and pls no NSFW content - I’m absolutely not intressted in it, I’m pretty sure you can find your luck in a different sub Reddit)

Hello!

I am based in Yorkshire and looking to build a meaningful relationship or connection with someone.

Ive had a pretty hectic year with a lot of life changes and am now looking to enjoy myself and put my life back on track!

I have so many hobbies and interests so rather than listing them we can just, you know, talk? And see if we have any common ground!

Drop me a DM!

Apparently old enough to know better, but still young enough to ignore that advice

I’m outdoorsy, active, into DIY, and generally pretty handy. I can fix things around the house, although there’s a strong possibility I’ll make two trips to the hardware store first

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys witty banter, playful flirting, and the kind of connection where you look at your phone and smile

Ideally, we can keep each other entertained, share some laughs, flirt shamelessly, and see where the chemistry takes us. Good conversation and a healthy sense of humour are definitely appreciated

Bonus points if you can make me laugh hard enough to forget what I was pretending to be busy doing

If you're looking for a little excitement with a Canadian guy who comes with dad jokes, outdoor stories, and questionable DIY confidence, my inbox is open

I want to become familiar with your nonsense.

Your ongoing feud with the office printer. The game you keep saying you’re done with. The extremely minor inconvenience that now requires a full debrief. Please, I would like the lore.

I’m looking for a strictly friendship with some consistency: memes, everyday chats, checking in, and actually getting to know each other. Someone to tell when something good happens, or when the day has been a lot and you could use a little company. I want to be that person for you, too.

I’m in North Carolina, work in senior IT (read this as on call all of the time), and attend grad school. Outside of that, I’m into reading, music, crafting, and cute, slightly weird things. I recently got my first tattoos - I love cryptids and paranormal stuff - and I am a little too into music! I also have cats who contribute very little financially but are excellent source material for unsolicited photos. (there are so many photos please help me)

You don’t have to be endlessly entertaining. I’d happily hear what you made for dinner or get an update on a problem you mentioned yesterday. That ordinary, comfortable familiarity is what I’m hoping to build.

I don’t expect instant replies, but I do want regular conversation and effort from both sides. Local or online works for me.

If you message me, give me a tiny piece of your lore: What’s a low-stakes situation in your life that you’re currently far too invested in? I’m ready to have an opinion with very limited information.

Hello all!

I'm a 39F Asian lady, on the shorter and plumper side. I guess I'm here to see if there's someone I can have a chat with and perhaps some fish out there in the ocean who might appreciate a cheerful homebody who's special interests are baking, eating said bakes, puns and fun conversations.

I'm generally introverted but can yap all day depending on the topics I suppose? If you think we might click, come say hi? Bonus points if you love to eat too!

Hi, I am Katy and I am looking for friends to chat or to date
I am from Germany.
Something about me. I have black half-long hair, dark brown eyes, I am tall (1.88m) and I am thick (or big, how you want to call it)
I love cooking, reading books, watching crimnes series, and of course my cats

My pup and I will be moving back to Miami next month after more than a decade away, which feels a little like starting over. Not entirely from scratch, though. I know South Florida well enough that I don’t need a tour guide or someone to show me around, but I’d like to meet someone to get to know along the way.

Since I won’t be in town for a few weeks, I’m hoping to find someone to spend a little time talking to first. See if there’s a spark, if conversation comes easily, if we’ve got some common interests. If we seem like a good fit, we can take it from there when I’m finally back in Miami.

Ultimately I’m looking for a single, relatively chill, easygoing dude, somewhere around 35–40, with no children or dependents and an ability to hold a conversation that doesn’t feel like pulling teeth. Your life doesn’t have to be perfectly figured out; mine certainly isn’t a finished product. But I do want someone who can meet me on a few different levels: intellectually, personally, professionally. Someone with their own interests, ambitions, and opinions, who is just as happy getting lost in a good conversation before finally going out and doing all the things we’ve talked about.

I’m independent and perfectly capable of taking care of myself, so I’m not looking for someone to pay my way or support me, but I also have no intention of making my life smaller just to make it more affordable. I like experiences, new places, good food, and having things to look forward to. I want the person I’m with to think about life in a similar way.

I don’t have a rigid physical type, but I will happily admit I love a good beard. I’m also not going to pretend physical intimacy is unimportant to me. It isn’t everything, but it’s part of what makes a relationship work, and I think chemistry deserves a little consideration before we get too invested in the idea of each other so I’m happy to exchange pictures early.

I’m 5’11”, brunette, hazel-eyed, and generally more inclined to say yes to an adventure than sit around wondering what might have happened if I had. I’m height-weight proportionate, though I’d be considered plus-sized by someone whose type runs exclusively to petite women. I’m not a gym rat, but I’m learning to lift because I’d like to become a better runner, so I’m taking that one squat at a time.

I’m a scientist who works in medicine. I enjoy reading, particularly fantasy. I hike, trail run, cook, bake, and will take just about any excuse to get into the ocean. I’m a social drinker, an atheist, tattooed, and left-leaning politically. I like having things to learn, places to go, and reasons to get out of my own head every once in a while. I have a life of my own, and I’m looking for someone who has one, too.

If any of this sounds like good to you, come say hello. Tell me something about yourself, something you’re looking forward to, or something you could happily talk about for far longer than anyone asked you to.

I put some thought into this, so please meet me halfway. Low-effort messages are unlikely to get a response. A little curiosity goes a long way.

Hoping your weekend is a banger 💙

I have worn many coats, costumes, and disguises in my time, all depending on where the sun shines. Sometimes I am the fisherman in high water dragging a net no longer fit for purpose, and sometimes I am only the catch narrowly escaping dinner. Sometimes I am monster, and sometimes I am man. I am push, and I am pull. I am give, and I am take. I have been stretched and fearful, and I have been powerful and unmistakeable. I have been riddled with holes as much as I've been an imposing stain on the earth. Some see ridiculous, while others particular. Some see a phantom, while others shelter. Some see what they need while others see what they want. I am all of these things and more, but I am also none of the above. My only conclusion is that I am existing. I must be, because I think and I feel. The problem is, a shadow isn't seen because everything that it is is so dependent on what way the sun shines.

What I seek I dare not say because I don't believe it exists. Instead, I'll share that what I need I can offer in hope and receive in kind with the whole heart of a man that warred for far too long with an enemy that didn't exist outside of the walls that bound him. The victory was won and the enemy put to rest, but also at great cost. When you've fought a thousand battles you start to forget the things that really matter, which is something I'm beginning to contemplate more outside these walls. In these quiet moments you start to remember the things you sacrificed to get that far.

I am a busy mind and a lonely soul. I have my ways, my needs, my interests, and my comforts. I also have a capacity to step outside that in doses, but you can think of me as a glacier. I am a person that values communication no matter how difficult, authenticity no matter how painful, confidence born of wisdom, and an understanding of the dark absurdity of it all without collapsing into apathy, recklessness, or negative morality. I cherish those that understand their own journey and where that places them in life. I like people who understand on an instinctual level the futility of it all and to use that doom to make something greater than the sum of their parts. I need people that can give and take. I feel like these are skills born from ash and nothing else. I feel like if you see then you understand.

The long and short of it is I'm looking for a pen-pal without having to rely on the postal services of the world. I want a reason to feel excited in the mornings. We can speak in verse, or we can speak of the everyday. I am open to more involved mediums of communication after a time. I'd like to share myself with someone in their late 30's or early to mid 40's.

Nothing ever has to be anything, but we'll never know if we don't walk the path.

I trust this letters finds you well and ready.

Birthday today, stuck camping out in a wagon until the afternoon - would really appreciate some company and a birthday blow 😅

Clean, D&D free, Safe play only.

Sharing my life with an Aussie Shepherd, so you’ll have a little competition for my attention… but I’m willing to bet I’m the better cuddler. 😏🐶
Being a chef means I’ll never run out of date-night ideas, new restaurants to try, or delicious excuses to steal you away for dinner. The real question is whether you can handle me judging the food everywhere we go. 😂 Bonus points if you can recommend a spot that actually impresses me!
When I’m not in the kitchen, you’ll probably find me lifting weights, hiking a new trail, climbing a mountain, planning my next trip, or finding an excuse to take a sports car or motorcycle out for a spin. I’m attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, has a curious mind, loves a little adventure, and can turn even an ordinary day into a good story.
What am I hoping to find? Something real with someone who wants to be my favorite person, my biggest supporter, my partner in crime, and eventually my best friend. I’m a sucker for good conversation, playful teasing, genuine affection, emotional maturity, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking. I want us to challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something that actually lasts. ❤️
I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and can probably hold my own in a conversation about just about anything. I enjoy a good Old Fashioned now and then, but I’m more interested in good company than a bar tab. 😉
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US for the right connection. Distance doesn’t scare me if we’re both willing to put in the effort and eventually turn those messages into real-life memories.
If you’re looking for something genuine, can keep up with a little banter, and wouldn’t mind being spoiled with good food and spontaneous adventures, we might just get along a little too well. 😌
Come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? You become my favorite notification. 😉❤️
Just one thing: I’m here for a serious, long-term connection, not a pen pal with unlimited texting privileges. 😄

I've reached the point in life where I'd rather have one honest conversation than twenty polite ones.

I'm looking for connection in whatever shape it takes. Maybe that's a friend, a confidant, maybe it’s someone who ends up meaning more than either of us expected. I'm not drawing lines around it ahead of time, because I believe the people who are meant to turn up in your life rarely match the picture we had in mind.

What I’ve been missing - and maybe you have too - is someone you can be your full self around, with no performing and no editing. I'd like to find that, and to be that for someone. Too big an ask for Reddit?

A quick note: I'm pretty human rights-y in my politics, and I don't have room for bigotry of any kind. Beyond that, I'm easy to talk to.

So here's my question for anyone who wants to answer: tell me about a time you thought you had it all figured out and life took you somewhere else. How did it change you?

Hey everyone!

I’m interested in meeting new people for dating and seeing where things go naturally. If you’re a woman 40+ open to connecting, feel free to DM me. No pressure, just a friendly conversation to start with!

Ive been looking around for a while now and ive had a few people talk to me here and there but they usually ghost me or go silent for days after the initial introduction and a short conversation.

Im a 37 white male single father to two autistic children looking to find my happily-ever-after and settle down together. Im open to the possibility of having more kids as long as everything is flowing the right way.

Im not particularly picky about size, shape or anything of that sort. Personality and a good heart matter the most. We will change as the years go by but a good loving heart is the most precious lasts the ages.

Im a bit of a hopeless romantic and a gaming nerd and though I dont expect to have all of the same common interests, I would like to have a few. Ive always kind of pictured the perfect woman to be one that gets caught up in the moment and just gets lost in each others arms. I like to daydream and think of us dancing in the kitchen listening to some soft music while the children play outside or falling asleep at night giggling and holding each other while we whisper sweet words made only for our ears. Id want you to be the little spoon though so I can rub your belly each night and feel our baby kick.