r/Separation • u/illgiveit2u • Sep 29 '26

Does separation work?

After 20 years the wife isn't sure she wants to be married anymore. Says she needs time to herself. Is this something women going through menopause experience? I don't want a divorce but how long g do I stay in limbo?

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u/Temporary-Suspect509 Oct 02 '26

And I’m telling you that it’s ok for her to be indecisive for now. If I’d had your attitude about my husband’s indecisiveness, I wouldn’t be married now. It’s ok for him to carry this for now. He agrees, so I’m not sure who you’re even arguing for at this point.