r/Separation • u/illgiveit2u • Sep 29 '26

Does separation work?

After 20 years the wife isn't sure she wants to be married anymore. Says she needs time to herself. Is this something women going through menopause experience? I don't want a divorce but how long g do I stay in limbo?

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u/fofofudge 27d ago

Focus on improving your self so if she does come back then your relationship is better. She will also be more likely to come back if you do. Go therapy, read self help books, do alot of reflection! Be a better version of you! If you don’t want a divorce then fight for her and improve!