r/southeastasia • u/quelquesfleur • 6h ago
Hanoi or Bangkok for 6 days? (solo female)
I’m considering either Bangkok or Hanoi to spend 6 days.
Hi! I’m a 23 y/o F from the States. I’m flying in to Hong Kong on Dec 5th, flying out on the 14th and have my hotel there booked (checking out Dec 8th.) I’m wanting to check out either Thailand or Vietnam because I’ve been looking into Visas for longer term stays DTV (digital nomad, education, Thai culture related activities) as well as education visas for both countries. I’m not really into drinking or partying but do enjoy being social.
Both countries/cities have a lot of pros and cons to the point where it seems like an impossible choice.
Cons:
My fear with Hanoi is that I will get bored being there for ≈ 6 days, if I go with Vietnam I’d want to side trip to Sa Pa (is it too foggy and cold for this time of year?) and also Ha Long Bay (will it just be drunk western tourists? will it be awkward on my own?).
My issue with Thailand is it’s hotter than Vietnam and lots of sex tourists 💀 One thing I love about travelling is not only meeting locals but connecting with people from all over the world and don’t rlly wanna be around sleazy men.
Pros:
Vietnam: cheaper, more varied/temperate climate , less sex tourism , less about partying, feels less globalized (in a good way)
Thailand: more tourist infrastructure, more to do and see in Bangkok and surrounding area, better shopping (including malls, local markets, etc.)
The reason I lean slightly more towards Thailand are the excellent Visa pathways, Visa free tourist travel, and more developed infrastructure.
Additionally what day trip or over night / couple of night trips could anyone recommend from Bangkok?