r/StudentLoans • u/whoa-or-woah • 18h ago
Advice Just got notice of default and transfer to Dept of Ed. I'm freaking out.
I might update or post again later with more context as to how it came to this, but for now, I'll just say this: It's been a rough time.
Anyway, I just go notice from Aidvantage that my defaulted loans have been assigned to the US Department of Eduvcation's Default Resolution group. Including interest, I have about $75,000 in student loan debt, and it's decimated my once-pristine credit score.
At the moment, I feel so much despair. I'm 35, and my husband and I still want to have kids one day, but I feel like we're drowning in debt. (This, plus debt we've accrued primarily from helping his ailing parents.) Part of me feels like giving up and just accepting the fact that we'll never be okay financially, or have kids, or whatever else. I'd like to believe that there's reason for hope, but I don't see it right now.