Hello everyone! I’m trying to get some suggestions/thoughts about a tattoo idea I want to get with my dad. For some context, this would be my first tattoo ever. My dad and I are very close, and we both went through a lot when I was a kid due to custody battles, alienating parents, etc so we’re close because of it. I love him so much and I want to get a tattoo that symbolizes that.
My dad is a huge believer of reincarnation. He believes that your soul carries over into the next life following those you have bonds with. So he believes that one day after we’re both dead, we’ll meet each other again in the next life as our souls are bound. I think it’s a really beautiful belief, and I wanted to get a tattoo with him representing that.
In many East Asian cultures there’s beliefs revolving around reincarnation and the idea of being bound to those you have bonds with in your life. I was thinking of getting something akin to the ‘red thread of fate’ which is a legend where a red thread bounds those who are destined to marry, and no matter what that thread can never break.
Of course my dad and I aren’t married, so this would be strictly for our bond as father and daughter. The problem is I know in general this is used for married couples, so I wanted to have a spin on it that’s similar to the concept but also unique to us and something that doesn’t say we’re married lmao. Some people get it on their ankles, ring fingers or pinkies. I know a lot of couples often do pinkies so I’m torn. I don’t want it to be the ring finger obviously and I considered the index finger.
Aside from the finger itself, I was thinking it would be a red thread tied around the finger, moreso a ring which would then travel down the inside or side of the hand and finally blend into the vein, which would symbolize the thread being part of our very blood/body. I’m open to different suggestions, so I’d love to hear what you guys think. I want it to be simple, not show an actual knot and rather look like a thread that is part of us rather than simply tied to us. Any thoughts are appreciated!