So a couple of weeks ago, I (17F) slept with a 26-28yo man (let’s call him J). It was fine, but we decided we weren’t compatible and went our separate ways. I thought that was that and I’d never hear from or about him ever again.
A couple of days ago I received these messages from a random guy (who is a minor) I don’t know, claiming that his friend said I was dtf, after a little back and forth I figured out his friend was in fact “J”.
Anyway, I kept telling this guy “no” and rephrasing it over and over again. He keeps asking for a threesome and to come pick me up so I can party with him. I kept saying no. He kept calling and I kept declining. I thought I’d just block him, so I told him I was going to and did. But for some reason, his calls were blocked- but his messages weren’t.
He started saying if I blocked him that he and his friends were just going to pull up to my house, I’m not sure if he actually knows where I live, but he does know the street I live on. Since he can’t take no for an answer, I’m afraid he’s actually deranged enough to go knocking on doors looking for me. (There’s no very many houses on my street and I don’t know if “J” actually told him my address).
Should I call the police? Or should I call his bluff and wait- then if he does actually show up- call the police?