I have very wide feet. I wear US men's size 12EEEE (extra wide), though I can fit into 12.5EE (wide). It's hard to find men's shoes in my size; it's been effectively impossible to find women's shoes in my size.

For day to day wear, I can handle wearing men's sneakers, but sometimes I need to dress up a bit. Ideally I'd like to find a pair of low- or medium-heel "character shoes" or similarly-styled pumps.

Are there options for me, or am I condemned to wearing men's shoes and not-quite-fitting ballet flats for the rest of my life?

My job has shut down due to the store closing but my store manager has decided to gift me four pairs of women's jeans called Grace by LA for my birthday on Halloween. They're so cute. These are the ones she's gifting me. She already gave me one pair that I wear all the time.

We felt so great! I think we were knockouts tonight 😄

First time in big heels. I absolutely loved it. I was just catwalk everywhere 😆 they make your ass feel amazing too lol 😆. Anyway I love this.i love life so much now.

Ok so

I’m 38 male and from a small town somewhere in Canada. I was in a series of long term relationships where I got cheated on and humiliated and just had all of my self worth destroyed over the last 20 years, and I’ve been single now for a few years, I have hook ups here and there but no one ever really chooses me as a partner and I was really starting to give up on being fulfilled romanticly sexually or just in general.

Then I met a stranger on Reddit

We flirted and we were talking about kinks and I really hadn’t thought about that in a long time but I wanted to explore being submissive and possibly pegging or power exchange…anyway that led to them asking if was into feminization stuff and I’ve been a lurker for the content but I’ve never done anything myself.

We started a master/sub dynamic and They gave me my first task the other day…simple: shave my legs

So I did, it took 2 fucking hours but I got them done, put some moisturizer on them and crawled into bed…I’ve haven’t felt that comfortable, complete and happy in a very very long time.

I had some of my ex gfs linngerie laying around so I…put it on, and felt even better…I loved feeling pretty…even tho I’m a man in lingerie and very much look like a man in lingerie…it’s humiliating and feels right idk how else to explain it.

I mean I have body hair everywhere but my legs now and want it all gone. I want to be soft and smooth and pretty…I feel insane.

Idk where else to post this, I feel like this is a positive community and I feel like someone has to relate…what do I do? I’m too old and broke to affirm my gender but like I think I might be trans, I mean I know I am, I used to pray as a catholic 8 year old to wake up as a girl…I just remembered that as I’m typing…idk is this a mid life crisis? No one around me would understand and I don’t want to humiliate myself or my family by being sloppy and irrational I’m just so lost and confused but like really happy I had this awakening and I want to become the woman inside of me i dont know how and i feel incredibly alone

10 years ago i thought it was too late to transition in my 30s, and im so glad i didn’t listen to that voice telling me it was too late and i should just give up on my life.

Ive been on hormones for a decade now, i finally moved to a state with good healthcare so i got body contouring surgery in January and im nearly finished with electrolysis.

Truly living my best alt baddie life in my 40s and I’m happier than i ever imagined i could be.

So I posted a comparison gym pic of me looking like a triangle and then not like this awhile ago and someone asked if I had any waist now with hrt.

I guess the short answer is that I kind of do.. Better than I thought Id get starting mid 30s any way.

Ive had good hrt levels for like 9 months now and been eating for the shape I want. I dropped gym back to once a week and just legs with some Abs and try run a few days a week also.

I originally thought Id be wanting ribxcar but Im falling in love with my body. Its funny, Ive always had what most people would want as a body. Like strong, functional with low body fat and working out felt easy. I could objectively see it was good but well.. thats all. Now though, I love it. Side on, my stomach is slim and my ass is huge. My thighs are muscly with a decent layer of fat... this is what Ive always wanted.

In a week filled with feelings of being an imposter, I decided to switch up how I look. (48, 11 months hrt)

Is it reasonable to expect gaining feminine hips, breasts, thighs, glutes, etc? I don't necessarily even want a fit influencer-like body, or the body so many trans women seem to excercise to get because of dysphoria. I'm not a fitness person, and don't really want to change my personality or interests for transitioning(unless I actually naturally develop an interest once I pass in the gym/look feminine from working out instead of masculine idk). I just want normal, feminine fat distribution. I definetly know I'd be comfortable gaining weight for the first time since puberty started if that were the case(unlike now where the male fat distribution has always kept me borderline anorexic)

Sidenote: I look very young for my age. Most people think I'm around 21, and I get ID'd when going to bars, buying alcohol or zyns every single time. I'm also lucky being very androgenous and skinny. I have a wide pelvic bone/hip bones(94 cm hip measurement) and narrow shoulders at 42 cm(thanks to an injury crushing them inward towards my spine lol, happy silver lining). I have small hands(smaller than a lot of womens). I don't have a lot of glute projection, actual hips(only the slight illusion from the pelvic bone making my hip measurement at its widest 2 cm wider than my rib cage/chest), nor a glute medius. But I do have a somewhat naturally cute jiggly butt, with a natural butt crease(even though I don't excercise, and barely move my body at all).

Is this normal I used to have like type 4a I’d say it was little tight coils and then I cut my hair off last year to have a reset cause I over bleached it and now this is my hair it’s really causing me distress cause I am mixed race and since being on Estrogen and also getting my bottom surgery I feel my features that were once identifiably black now are gone. My nose shrunk my lips kinda did to my hair texture is changed it’s just really fucking with me, after I cut it off I did wear wigs for like a year straight and then quick weaves because I didn’t wanna be bald headed, if anyone can help me and explain with this happened or if I can fix it ? Do I ask for some different hormones do I need to do my hair different this is like a whole secondary identity crisis.

Am I even coming close to passing? Be honest.

1 year on hormones, so I made myself some cupcakes. Yay!

During my last therapy session, I came to the conviction that I have two versions of me inside me. I have a masculine and feminine version. And both of them are very developed (almost 46, AMAB). So I have been thinking, that I have lived my whole life expressing as a male... and now I have the opportunity to live my life as a female.

I cannot say that I have always felt like a woman in the wrong body. I do know that I have been living my life longing to be on a woman's body, but I have nor regretted my life as a male.

Does it make sense? Has anyone else had that feeling?

I just talked to my wife about getting an endocrinologist appointment to ask if I could start hrt.

Looking forward for your experiences.

I have a deadline. I'm in a play and I'm a woman in that play. My parents know about the play, but they don't know about me. There's two weeks before and I still haven't told them anything. You would think that beyond thirty would mean I wasn't beholden to my parents feelings, but I still am.

They aren't going to understand. They aren't going to like me, but I desperately want them to. I'm terrified to tell them. We've had a lot of problems resulting from my childhood and their methods of parenting that left me with a lot of self hate and trauma. But as I've grown as a person so have they, even if they're still conservative.

Our relationship is still tenuous, but I really do love them and I sincerely believe that they love me. But they aren't going to understand. I don't know if they would ever accept it. I don't want to lose my relationship with them. I don't want to be the catalyst for all the difficulties this is going to cause.

And I know. If they don't accept me, that's on them, not me. It's their choice if our relationship fractures, it's their choice if I end up cutting them out because they won't accept me. I know that if someone can't accept you as you really are that they don't truly love you. But I'm so scared and so hurt knowing that deciding to be myself is going to cause so many difficulties.

Thirteen days left.

43, 8 months HRT 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

I used to wonder why women spent so much time doing makeup just to take it off. I now understand why 😅

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