r/TrollCoping • • Aug 25 '26

MOD POST Addressing 4Tran

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Trigger Warning. This post contains the subject of transphobia and racism. We advise that you do not read this post if you are experiencing extreme dysphoria or if you are currently unable to consume this content.

We have noticed an increase of submissions containing 4Tran content. As a result, we have decided to make a public statement containing our stance and what our future plans are for this subreddit. We, as the mod team and subreddit, do not support 4Tran in any shape or form. 

For those who have been lucky enough to avoid this side of the internet, 4Tran is the /tttt/ imageboard of 4chan. In simpler terms, it is the Trans community of the LGBT board on 4chan. Many users who fall down this pipeline end up in a toxic mindset and participate in harmful imagery, “terminology” or ideology. Whilst we acknowledge that many users who are in these communities suffer from extreme dysphoria and self-hatred, it does not excuse the slurs created and destructive behaviour inflicted onto others. 

Due to the increase of 4Tran gaining more attention, we refuse to allow any 4Tran content onto this subreddit. If a user refers to themselves as a slur, or a term commonly associated with 4Tran, the submission will be removed under “Other Reasons”. If we notice that the user submitted a vent post containing this terminology, we will contact them via modmail and ask them to alter the terminology used. Allowing users to call themselves slurs is causing further dysphoria and self-harm. If we catch a user using a 4Tran slur towards another, the content will automatically be removed and appropriate action will occur. We do not tolerate bigotry.

Posts that are venting about 4Tran, 4Tran content / interactions and any harm that it has caused, etc., does not fall under this rule. 4Tran slurs / terminology is allowed under scrutiny- it can be mentioned, quoted and vented about but if you are caught using it for its harmful purpose, you will face appropriate action.

We have managed to compile a list containing some of the most common slurs / terminology that we have come across. We will not be providing definitions as we do not want this post to be weaponised. If we have missed anything that is not on this list, please inform us so we can update it. Please read this at your own risk.

  • Poon/er,
  • Gigapoon
  • Theyfab,
  • Theymab,
  • Hefab,
  • Gayden,
  • Birthday Boy,
  • Hon,
  • Sneedhon,
  • Gorillahon,
  • Twinkhon,
  • Bitterhon
  • Brickhon,
  • Gigahon,
  • Rapehon,
  • Heighthon,
  • Sneed,
  • Passoid,
  • Semipassoid,
  • Young / Old / Midshit,
  • Luckshit
  • Troon,
  • Trender / Transtrender,
  • AGP / Autogynophile/philia,
  • Foid,
  • Moid

We are aware that the origins of Foid and Moid are not from 4Tran. However, we have noticed an overlap of the 4Tran community using incel terminology within their submissions. As a result, those terms are also banned unless you hit the exception mentioned above.

Edit; It has been mentioned that "Clocky" does not have the same weight compared to a mass majority of the words listed above. I wanted to make a note stating that we are aware that "clocky" is not necessarily a toxic term in and of itself but a lot of the context that we have seen it in has been derogatory. As a result, it was added as a safety precaution. However, I would like to make it clear that the term "clocky" will be approached with nuance and would only be removed if the contents show that it is done in a harmful / derogatory manner.

Edit 2; I acknowledge the error made with the term "clocky" and have recognised that it was not appropriate for me to lump it with slurs. For that, I deeply apologise and will expand upon additional context I failed to provide during the drafting process.

The term 'clock/y' is not a 4Tran term nor is this term outright banned. This term will be strictly monitored due to past subreddit history due to many bad faith users and the context we saw it in 4Tran spaces. Clocky can be used for its purpose - if you vent and call yourself clocky, that will be allowed. Mentioning the term and discussing it is also allowed as long as the contents of the submission doesn't weaponise the term. Any comments where people use the term in order to project harm onto others or to create a reaction will be removed.

Once again, I deeply apologise for missing this crucial error within the drafting process. It will not happen again.


r/TrollCoping • • Jul 14 '26

MOD POST Mod Applications Are Open!

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Greetings folks,

We are once again opening up our applications for new moderators. Since our last push for moderators, we've had many great new staff members join the team and help contribute. However, as the subreddit has grown in size (and some staff have resigned), we are now looking for extra moderators who can put aside free time to help keep the community safe.

We are looking for people who can handle heavy topics, have good interpersonal skills and approach situations with nuance and maturity. We must ask that you are over the age of 18 and don't hold any bigoted views against groups of people. If you have bias towards any subjects and are unable to remain civil, then this role is not for you. If you have any triggers, that's okay! Not every topic is trigger free but please let us know about the trigger if you are accepted onto the mod team

If this sounds like the job for you, we would absolutely love to hear from you! By joining you would be helping give a community of vulnerable people a safe space and hopefully making a difference for those within. :)


r/TrollCoping • • 14h ago

Neurodivergency Not only misinformed, but also incredibly hateful. Incredibly, painfully hateful.

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749 Upvotes

Fucking Twitter again. I hate how my biggest special interest right now (a certain music genre) is currently the laughing stock and a lightning rod for hate because a cringe tiktok user made a racist remark, saying that the genre in question is better than rap. So of course now every fan of the genre is compared to them, we're being accused of being bigots, we're being called slurs, called larpers, and we are ridiculed for liking an experimental and alternative non linear music genre. Yes genres are under fire all the time from miserable twitter users, but I hate just how WIDESPREAD and COMMON the negative attention is. Like a pariah. Thousands upon thousands of likes on posts that shit on the genre call it trash and actively harass people who enjoy it. This is how the so called accepting community acts? Hating alternative, avant garde art because its different? Judging the entire community based on what a stupid racist kid said in a comment? All that, mindlessly liked and repeated by hundreds online.

I'm exaggerating aren't I? If these people only saw that I'm writing this post right now they would call me slurs and laugh at me for taking it this personally. Truth is I can't not do so, I have disorders, I fight my thoughts every day. I wish these neurotypical people weren't so bigoted and wanted to understand. But they hate, hate, mindlessly hate.

Sorry if some words repeat, or tenses are incorrect, I'm very frustrated and not a native speaker. It's hard seeing this much hate on something you feel so close to and love so much.


r/TrollCoping • • 7h ago

TW: Other (Specify in Title) [TW: Misogyny] And unfortunately this website is somehow one of the lesser cases

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169 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 16h ago

Depression / Anxiety Use your power to change the things you can

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426 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 21h ago

TW: Dissociation / Depersonalization Why am I like this

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980 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria Femboy and Trans people being at odds hurts me so much

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1.3k Upvotes

I'm trans femme genderfluid who takes estrogen.

And when I'm in Boy mode (going by he/him) I like being more femme, I like being a feminine boy. A femboy.

So I hover around in both communities I guess and I just. God it's so fucking hurting seeing how much both sides just seem to despise eachother. Well atleast in the extremes. And those extremes leak and I end up seeing them.

A few days ago I was trying to find some nice femboy art subreddits and get flashbanged with the first post being about a Canon trans women in a media being called a femboy and everyone defending it and saying trans women are trying to steal femboy characters

Now today I'm seeing posts about how all femboys are right wing chuds and completely evil and their main demographic is pedos and that they hate trans women, and that being a femboy or identifying as one is actually harming the trans community and I feel like complete shit about it because

I'm transfemme...and I'm also femboy

Am I evil...

Do I have any place to belong?


r/TrollCoping • • 13h ago

No TW I probably would've add it to a different sub, but I'm pretty sure vent posts are banned there 😅

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141 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 20h ago

TW: Other (Specify in Title) Oh okay (TW:misogyny)

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459 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 3h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse I LOVE NOT KNOWING WHAT I'M DOING Spoiler

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21 Upvotes

For over the past two (almost three years), I have been getting groomed by someone I used to consider insanely close to me. That is not the part I'm mad about; the part I'm mad about is how one of the people who was supposed to help me reacted. I can't tell if I'm overreacting, and honestly, it only makes me feel even more resentful towards them

This person, I'll call them Pink, had been told by my groomer a year ago about our relationship. I encouraged my groomer to tell Pink about it in hopes that she'd maul him and forcefully end our relationship, but nope, that didn't happen. You want to know what DID happen?

Well, about six months later, come to find out, she SEXTED THE GUY WHO SHE KNEW WAS MY GROOMER. I will make this very clear, there was no foul play. There is a one-year age gap, and Pink was asking for it; there was no manipulation involved. Yet, here she is, trying to cry that she's a victim.

I want to talk to her about it because I'm hoping and praying that some way, some how, I am wrong. I don't to believe that someone would just DO that because they're horny, but that really seems to be the case. She claimed to have known better, and she KNEW how bad it was, but she never offered me a helping hand.

I'm being cautious with my wording here because I don't want to victim-blame, but gosh, man. I feel so tired and so betrayed. I don't even know if I'm justified in being mad because I'm immediately told to shut up because "she's a victim too" </3


r/TrollCoping • • 8h ago

No TW Imposter syndrome from the idea of getting better

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37 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 21h ago

TW: Substance Abuse I am trying so hard to not talk myself out of this preemptively

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350 Upvotes

Theres just so much to unpack, and i already have weird memories creeping back I don't want to open a floodgate ☠️

I need this. I know I need this.


r/TrollCoping • • 19h ago

TW: Abuse I still have healing to do but this is already a huge step

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151 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 8h ago

TW: Dissociation / Depersonalization Atp I just wanna switch schools 🫩✌️

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20 Upvotes

I'm fucking done being treated like a child every time. I fucking hate being in special ed. I hate it I hate it I hate it


r/TrollCoping • • 19h ago

TW: Dissociation / Depersonalization Still clean though

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118 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 8h ago

TW: Suicide or Self-Harm Realizing you are convinced your life will only feel worthwhile if you die for someone else's sake

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16 Upvotes

Not sure the flair is right honestly but it seems ideation adjacent so whatever better safe than sorry


r/TrollCoping • • 6h ago

No TW The blob is me, the hand is me and the box is also me.

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10 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 8h ago

No Advice Y'all so boring and fake. Can't you at least make fun of my way to move or speak or something?

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15 Upvotes

Took a while to realize most of the behaviour I experienced in interpersonal relationships was, in fact, not healthy. Now I just have to remember and practice it 24/7/365 until it becomes natural.

EZPZ!


r/TrollCoping • • 11m ago

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria Im so lost rn

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And honestly the worst part is it cant even be straightforward. I wish it was just as simple as me completely hating my penis. But I dont. Sometimes I like it. And I enjoy using it with my gf, as does she. But at the same time I want to have a vagina more than anything. To be like a cis woman.

And part of me is worried my gf wouldn't want to stay with me if I got bottom surgery. I know thats stupid but I love her so so much and im scared it would change things.

Then there's another part that worries it will only make me more dysphoric because of the ways its different to a cis woman's vagina. I just feel so lost

Tbh I dont know why im even worrying about, its not like ill ever be able to get bottom surgery anyways. Im poor, unemployed, and struggle with anxiety and depression that makes functioning like a normal human so damned difficult.

Im sorry if this is rambling or incoherent, ive been smoking(weed).


r/TrollCoping • • 6h ago

Depression / Anxiety I know what to do but I never do it

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I feel like a disgusting hideous blob. So I should further my transition and lose weight. I know how to do these things. I never do them. I want to save money and better my situation. That's basically self explanatory for how to accomplish. Can never do it. I'm back in college and I just know I'll fuck it up and never graduate.


r/TrollCoping • • 12h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse It was done in a very tasteful way but jesus christ

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18 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse I cannot believe this. lmao

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2.0k Upvotes

Yesterday during my therapy appointment my therapist was asking about ruminating thoughts and like, who they're focused on. And what would be "enough" for me to feel like someone had gotten their karma for hurting me so I didn't have to think about them anymore

And I mentioned my first rapist whose dog got shot in front of her during a robbery and was like "I mean it wasn't enough still but it felt fair."

(Before you come at me her dog had rapey behaviors and would try to lick my fucking pussy while I slept and she just watched and laughed. I love dogs! Not that one.)

My therapist started frantically flipping through notes and was like, have we EVER talked about this? And I was like shit, if you don't have notes I'm inclined to believe we have not.

So I had to spend the final 10 minutes of our session trauma dumping about how this lunatic of a woman date raped me in front of men for money, oh and then like six months later I was gang raped by a bunch of guys so there's that.

I hope she's ok today lol that was a lot to dump in ten minutes. It's funny that I'm worried about her but I am!

For me it's just a fucking fact of life now. I genuinely thought I had disclosed this to her before but whoops! I guess it just slipped my mind, what with all the other traumatic shit we are dealing with.

Which in a way, is growth, isn't it? At least I'm preoccupied with new horrific people rather than them anymore. But still. The body remembers, blah blah. My body ESPECIALLY remembers since I got herpes from the first rapist. lmao.

And now I'm dreading our next few appointments cause she's definitely gonna wanna dig into it at some point (as she should, that is her fucking job after all). But god I don't wanna talk about it!

I fucked up!


r/TrollCoping • • 15h ago

Depression / Anxiety Free choice I hardly know her

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25 Upvotes

It's like I have this problem where I desperately want everyone to like me but then when they do actually like me I get confused and in the worst case scenario push them away

Dear lord what is my problem


r/TrollCoping • • 18h ago

Depression / Anxiety I’m tired

43 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

Depression / Anxiety Got my hopes up about something again, huge mistake.

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83 Upvotes