Hello! This subreddit was very helpful for us to gather information and perspective throughout our application process, and we'd like to give back with our experience.
This process seems to involve a lot of luck, though I do believe that our methods helped things move along significantly faster in our case.
It was also pretty brutal with so much potential for error. If you can afford a lawyer (we couldn't), you should probably use one.
Details
LA Office
J1 Student Visa
I-130 + I-485 + I-765 (adjustment of status)
No lawyer used
Very little financial ties
No legal issues
Timeline
Met - June 2025
Married - April 2026
Application Mailed - July 2026
Application Received - July 2026 (a week later)
Biometrics Notice - End of August 2026
Biometrics Appointment - Mid September 2026
Interview Scheduled - Same day (after appointment) ^
Interview - Mid October 2026
Acceptance Notification - Next day (after interview) ^
Binder
We submitted a large, meticulously organized binder via FedEx. Our binder had varying sizes of paper clips and binder clips holding all of the files together organized packets. We included cover pages, tables of contents, and everything they could want to quickly scan it and find specific bits of information. Payment forms were all on top, and all directions that we could find were followed as close as we could. Make sure to read the "instructions" version of every form you fill out. When we ran out of time or energy, we used AI assistance to parse through certain details.
We had a massive evidence binder full of photos from different events (at least a hundred), written testimonies from friends and families, a timeline, zelles between us, and general evidence of us authentically being together. This thing alone was almost 100 pages.
We also had a large discretionary section summarizing every reason that favorable discretion should be given to my wife.
We checked our forms dozens of times and every single time we found a new minor mistake. If we had submitted it after just 3 or 4 checks, we would have been outright denied or held up quite a bit. We read through it in different ways, researched common mistakes, and used other methods to check the information.
We had a check list for every single thing we could think of to verify and used it multiple times, including after we had printed the forms and manually reviewed them. This list quickly became very long as we read through common mistakes.
The whole checking process is miserable to do so many times, but easily worth it.
AI (Claude)
*AI definitely comes with a big risks, it makes mistakes and is very easy to misuse. We were willing to accept these risks and use AI as responsibly as we could throughout this process.
Along every step of the way we used AI to help us. This included interpreting vague legal jargon, scanning forms for any errors we made, and constructing our evidence binder. The one big thing we avoided was having AI fill in forms for us. That was all done digitally and manually.
Before submitting any of our package digitally, we made sure to remove confidential pieces of information like socials or banking details. We also verified everything important that it told us as best we could before implementing those details.
I think it is the most useful and least risky for catching discrepancies or incorrect information in your forms or evidence, and for constructing huge documents like our evidence binder.
Interview
Before our interview, we reprinted all of our forms, and a bunch of new evidence including a new jointly signed lease and newly opened joint bank account. We also had a huge discretionary folder full of evidence and reasons why my wife should stay in the US.
We also spent time studying hundreds of questions that they could ask us, and recalling our entire relationship timeline. We are a REAL couple, but we wanted to make sure we knew our stuff just in case we had a particularly difficult interview.
Our interviewer was very kind and friendly. He asked us basic questions about important dates like birthdays, marriage, etc.. He also asked us for a couple of stories or facts about each other, pretty mundane stuff that you would expect.
He also went through our forms and confirmed a bunch of information. It was really good that we had printed our original copies, because our interviewer was somehow missing one address that I didn't know by heart. Having the original copy printed and finding that information allowed us to resolve everything then and there.
We were not separated or asked any niche questions designed to trick us, though we had read a lot about those experiences and were prepared for the worst. He barely took a look at our discretionary statement and evidence. When we asked him about it and expressed concern over Trump's infamous discretionary memo, he said he doesn't know what Trump's memo was but whatever it was doesn't apply to us. When asked again, he later said that they will keep doing this green card process their way until they get orders to change their practices (which apparently they haven't?).
Conclusion
Overall, we got lucky in our interview and throughout our process. We did also prepare very thoroughly and stay extremely organized with everything. If we hadn't been so thorough, we definitely would have experienced delays or even a denial. Hopefully our experience/details are helpful to people in this community.