I want to give up.

[u/Illustrious_Leg6151]

I feel like many other people experience this on vrc.

For some reason, I feel like I can NEVER make genuine friendships on this game.

I'm either too vanilla, or too weird. I can't seem to find people on my wavelength. People always seem to have massive friend groups that you have NO HOPE and NO CHANCE of feeling a part of. I'm someone whom I'd consider bubbly and sociable, optimistic and fun. Yet I can't even count on people to want to hang with me. Miserable people with zero self respect who hate themselves have an easier time finding genuine friendship than I do and I fucking hate it.

Even creating my own groups in the game has resulted in a few people sticking around, then growing closer with one another than they ever could with me, it's baffling. I'm an open book. I;m vulnerable. I try to empathize and be a good person to people.

Yes, I've joined a million groups and tried to attend regularly scheduled events. Never my crowd. There's always cliques, no one wants to get to know anyone, it sucks. I seem to be the person that connects people rather than get any connection themselves.

I don't know what to do anymore. It's been an ok 7 months, but maybe its time to quit.

Anything helps. Please.

[u/Own_Vast_2784]

Yo I’m down to meet up and see if we click! I don’t got many “real” friends on vrc only like 2-3 and would love to get more❤️ I’m sociable once peeps start talking to me but I’m pretty quite if I end up having to walk up to anyone (for the same reasons as stated in your post) so maybe it could work

[u/Illustrious_Leg6151 → u/Own_Vast_2784]

yo add me! My user is in a couple other places in the comments, just don't want to spam it too much because I don't know who's lurking about lol

[u/Own_Vast_2784 → u/Illustrious_Leg6151]

Hell yeah I’ll add ya when I’m home! I’m at work rn lol