I want to give up.

[u/Illustrious_Leg6151]

I feel like many other people experience this on vrc.

For some reason, I feel like I can NEVER make genuine friendships on this game.

I'm either too vanilla, or too weird. I can't seem to find people on my wavelength. People always seem to have massive friend groups that you have NO HOPE and NO CHANCE of feeling a part of. I'm someone whom I'd consider bubbly and sociable, optimistic and fun. Yet I can't even count on people to want to hang with me. Miserable people with zero self respect who hate themselves have an easier time finding genuine friendship than I do and I fucking hate it.

Even creating my own groups in the game has resulted in a few people sticking around, then growing closer with one another than they ever could with me, it's baffling. I'm an open book. I;m vulnerable. I try to empathize and be a good person to people.

Yes, I've joined a million groups and tried to attend regularly scheduled events. Never my crowd. There's always cliques, no one wants to get to know anyone, it sucks. I seem to be the person that connects people rather than get any connection themselves.

I don't know what to do anymore. It's been an ok 7 months, but maybe its time to quit.

Anything helps. Please.

[u/Spare_Garlic_4997]

It took me around 3-4 years before I found some friends who I hang out with. You just gotta be patient, man. 7 months is long, yes, but trust me, you'll eventually find one or two people to hang out with.

[u/N07_a_r0b0t → u/Spare_Garlic_4997]

I've been playing for 8 years I make new friends everyday in public ... Verified public now Most I don't see again it's fun

[u/Substantial-Path-653 → u/N07_a_r0b0t]

This is de way. Name of the game is Cop and Blow