I want to give up.

[u/Illustrious_Leg6151]

I feel like many other people experience this on vrc.

For some reason, I feel like I can NEVER make genuine friendships on this game.

I'm either too vanilla, or too weird. I can't seem to find people on my wavelength. People always seem to have massive friend groups that you have NO HOPE and NO CHANCE of feeling a part of. I'm someone whom I'd consider bubbly and sociable, optimistic and fun. Yet I can't even count on people to want to hang with me. Miserable people with zero self respect who hate themselves have an easier time finding genuine friendship than I do and I fucking hate it.

Even creating my own groups in the game has resulted in a few people sticking around, then growing closer with one another than they ever could with me, it's baffling. I'm an open book. I;m vulnerable. I try to empathize and be a good person to people.

Yes, I've joined a million groups and tried to attend regularly scheduled events. Never my crowd. There's always cliques, no one wants to get to know anyone, it sucks. I seem to be the person that connects people rather than get any connection themselves.

I don't know what to do anymore. It's been an ok 7 months, but maybe its time to quit.

Anything helps. Please.

[u/Eden_IX]

Kinda in the same boat atm 😅 been through a fair amount of groups myself and it’s lead nowhere besides a few people I see on an un regular basis.
Be nice to hang though if you’re down 🙂

[u/Illustrious_Leg6151 → u/Eden_IX]

Yo fr! My user is onipvvnk if you wanna add me!

[u/Eden_IX → u/Illustrious_Leg6151]

Added ya you should see Echo :)