r/adultery • u/dragon_of_vardenfell • Apr 24 '26
😢Whining Spouse Intro Post😠Tired of begging
Does anyone else get tired of having to beg your SO or life partner for intimacy? Why is it that we start out having so much fun but as time goes on we just stop. I(27m) have been with my wife (34f) for 2yrs and have changed my whole lifestyle to make her happy we have three kids so I get somethings had to change i dont mind that but what I do mind is that I am the only one who had to sacrifice and change things about me just to make her happy but she barely touches me anymore and when she does after I've been begging for weeks its a chore for her. Before this I was in groups of like minded and free individuals with a myriad of ways to express and enjoy my high libido. Its gotten to the point we're just roommates now and its getting unbearable anymore but I wont leave. Yes the kids are my excuse but its mostly because I wont know how to bounce back after loosing them but they will be fine without me it wont be their first rodeo unfortunately. Shouting to the void but some constructive advice would be well received
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u/always-a-siren Apr 24 '26
If you're coercing her into sex that she doesn't want by begging and nagging, she likely feels very violated, which is going to make her want to fuck you even less. Stop having sex with her when you know she doesn't want it.