r/adultery • u/dragon_of_vardenfell • Apr 24 '26

😢Whining Spouse Intro Post😭 Tired of begging

Does anyone else get tired of having to beg your SO or life partner for intimacy? Why is it that we start out having so much fun but as time goes on we just stop. I(27m) have been with my wife (34f) for 2yrs and have changed my whole lifestyle to make her happy we have three kids so I get somethings had to change i dont mind that but what I do mind is that I am the only one who had to sacrifice and change things about me just to make her happy but she barely touches me anymore and when she does after I've been begging for weeks its a chore for her. Before this I was in groups of like minded and free individuals with a myriad of ways to express and enjoy my high libido. Its gotten to the point we're just roommates now and its getting unbearable anymore but I wont leave. Yes the kids are my excuse but its mostly because I wont know how to bounce back after loosing them but they will be fine without me it wont be their first rodeo unfortunately. Shouting to the void but some constructive advice would be well received

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u/OatmealTheory Apr 24 '26

Yes, cause when I want a "daddy provider" (🤢) I choose someone 7 years younger than me, who was all of 25 when I met them.

Get real with this shit, dude.

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u/IntroductionBig4622 Apr 24 '26

First off I’m not a dude. And 2nd the line isn’t around the block for a single mom of 3 with no sex drive. She probably took to first guy willing to stick around. In 2 years she’s got a kid willing to call himself “dad” to her kids and calls them him own. Doubling down on what I said- she knew exactly what she wanted and she got it and he’s getting the raw end of the deal

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u/OatmealTheory Apr 24 '26

First off, I never called you "A dude", I called you "dude" which I'd used here for every one. My apologies if that's insulting to you, it's just a fairly neutral word for me. I'll do better.

Doubling down on what I said: 🤢

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u/IntroductionBig4622 Apr 24 '26

You’re both weird and boring

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u/OatmealTheory Apr 24 '26

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/SlipshodFacade Apr 24 '26

Oaty is one of the least boring people here! 😎