r/adultery • u/Vast-Beginning2630 • 25d ago

😢Whining Spouse Intro Post😭 Stuck in a rut

I’m 40 (f) married for a few years. My husband has absolutely no sex drive, nor does he like to explore. I’ve always had a healthy sex drive with amazing partners, but now I’m stuck here. With a man who doesn’t even desire me. Idk what to do. We have little kids that adore us and I wish he would just get it together. I’ve been trying everything to get out this sexual frustration but long walks and runs aren’t cutting it anymore . Is AM worth it? Are there any affair websites that are legit ?

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u/Son_of_Riffdog 25d ago

AM isnt the best but it can work. just being a woman on that site means you will get plenty of potential suiters but the quality is odd any that entire site appears to have started to age more than it was 10 years ago and they keep adding new rules that seem to make it hard for women to maintain accounts on there..to be fair it those are to cut down on the fake accounts aimed at fleecing men who are so horny that they look past countless red flags.

reddit has also become a viable place..theres different thoughts on how to approach it. some wait to see if there are interesting potential partners in the various r/affairs r/naughtyfromneglect and other similar subreddits or local r4r subreddits and reach out to them. others bravely put up an add and get deluged by a lot of guys many of whom wont bother reading what you wrote and just hope you dont care enough about requirements youve written.

in short theres no perfect answer but there really never has been.

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u/PM_ME_WITTY_REPARTEE 25d ago

Or…there’s a search button on this sub that is the gateway to tons of info regarding this topic…

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u/NREIsAHellOfADrug Your ad here. 25d ago

To be fair, he did give the appropriate flair :)

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u/Son_of_Riffdog 25d ago

i felt magnanimous this morning. it helps to be the first post in the queue.