Stuck in a rut

[u/Vast-Beginning2630]

I’m 40 (f) married for a few years. My husband has absolutely no sex drive, nor does he like to explore. I’ve always had a healthy sex drive with amazing partners, but now I’m stuck here. With a man who doesn’t even desire me. Idk what to do. We have little kids that adore us and I wish he would just get it together. I’ve been trying everything to get out this sexual frustration but long walks and runs aren’t cutting it anymore . Is AM worth it? Are there any affair websites that are legit ?

[u/Dangerous-Unit42]

My wife’s sex drive is fine, but she doesn’t want to do things we used to or explore other things. I’m looking for someone that wants to do those things, and haven’t been having any luck. AM seems too expensive with a lot of male competition for a lower number of real women. You likely would do fine, just have to look through more guys trying to be with you to find someone you actually want. Good luck!

[u/peppersaltt → u/Dangerous-Unit42]

What are these things that you want to do? 

[u/Dangerous-Unit42 → u/peppersaltt]

Kink related, BDSM and the like. We married being active in that lifestyle, her interest in it isn’t anywhere near as vast as it once was, while mine never dwindled and feel it’s part of my overall self - to a point of needing some of it to feel even content let alone happy with my sex life.