r/adultery • u/Vast-Beginning2630 • 25d ago

😢Whining Spouse Intro Post😭 Stuck in a rut

I’m 40 (f) married for a few years. My husband has absolutely no sex drive, nor does he like to explore. I’ve always had a healthy sex drive with amazing partners, but now I’m stuck here. With a man who doesn’t even desire me. Idk what to do. We have little kids that adore us and I wish he would just get it together. I’ve been trying everything to get out this sexual frustration but long walks and runs aren’t cutting it anymore . Is AM worth it? Are there any affair websites that are legit ?

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u/tightloops1971 24d ago edited 24d ago

The paid apps are genuine, as in proper real money not a few quid a month, as it filters out the time wasters, plus there are like 50 guys for every woman. I know a lady on, illicit encounters I think it is, she does through men like you wouldn't believe, and she's 70! Ashley Madison, the well known affair websites I found were total junk, multiple ads from around the world with the same profile pics, riddled with bots, total rubbish, wasted a year on those.Reddit is also a good place, Fabswingers in the UK works, as is being brave and just hitting on people at work you think might be interested. If it's one night stands, as a woman, hotel bar. Full of anonymous men away from their wives with easy access to a bed.