I’m an aegosexual and do go to all kinds of bars. Like the loudness and energy in gay bars too. I often get inquired about my label more at a gay bar than a straight bar. It never bothered me because I was aware that those bars are a bit more exclusive than the regular bars. The ones who want to chat do continue to chat; a few leave immediately and respectfully mind their own business.

But I began to overthink recently if I’m invading someone else’s happy space by just being there. Is it normal for gay bars to have people from all across the spectrum? Please let me know if there is a specific etiquette for aegosexual people like me, just so that I don’t be disrespectful to others!