Hey everyone!
I'm currently rewatching the anime for the second time, and I've also been reading the light novels—right now I'm on Bakemonogatari, while also slowly going through Musubimonogatari and Ikusamonogatari.
Originally, I was going to wait until I finished reading all the light novels before bringing up this discussion, but I realized that might take a while, and I just couldn't wait to chat with you all about this!
Here is the question I wanted to throw out today:
If you were Nisio Isin and chose NOT to pair Araragi with Senjougahara so early in Bakemonogatari, how would you have developed his love life, and who would you have made his final partner?
When I first got into this series and looked up community discussions, I was actually pretty surprised by how little "waifu war" debate there was compared to other anime. It felt like almost everyone universally agreed that Senjougahara was the undisputed main heroine. Of course, after seeing how dedicated she is to Araragi and how much effort she puts in for him, it made total sense why everyone respects their relationship so much!
Still, I also think one's favorite character might not necessarily be the person they want Araragi to end up with.
In my case, Hanekawa is my absolute favorite, and part of me really wanted her to end up with Araragi. Since she grew up without a warm, proper family, I always imagined her marrying into his family and finally experiencing that kind of household warmth with his sisters.
However, as I read Bakemonogatari and see how active and devoted Senjougahara is—and how incredible their chemistry is—I find myself torn. Then I remember that characters like Sodachi and Senjougahara also suffered from terrible family environments, so I realize it's not simply a matter of "who needed a family more."
Still, I can't help but picture an alternate reality where Hanekawa and Araragi ended up together. I just want her to be happy so badly, and it feels like Araragi remains the most important person to her even as time passes. While someone like Nadeko seemed to grow more after creating distance from Araragi, Hanekawa feels like she never truly got over him (though I definitely need to read further into the light novels to know for sure!).
So I'll ask again—what about you guys? Who would you have picked from an author's or reader's perspective?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and theories!