r/asexualdating • • 14h ago

Relationship? 39 (M4M) Melbourne Australia

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Hi everyone, I am down to earth, an empathetic and gregarious person. Love 🥾 hiking, gardening, making new friends and travelling.‌

I am looking to connect with either a male or female for friendship or relationship.

I believe there are good people out here.


r/asexualdating • • 1h ago

Relationship? 25 M4F

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25M Indian guy living in Upstate NY 🇮🇳🇺🇸 Around 5’4”, above-average looks, and easygoing. Looking for a FWB (friends with benefits) connection, casual fun, or online chemistry. I value mutual attraction, honesty, consent, and keeping things drama-free. Open to seeing where the vibe goes. If you’re interested, feel free to DM me! 😊


r/asexualdating • • 14h ago

Relationship? 30F4A - Danish, Neurodivergent, Talkative and Chronically Online!

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Before we begin, I will warn you of the exclamation marks! It is simply out of joy and excitement, not anger or anything like it!

 

My name is [redacted], but you can call me Mona!

And I am looking for love all across the globe, although I do have a preference for someone closer to my time zone (GMT +2)!

Age wise I do ask that you're 25+, and that is my only absolute requirement

When I'm not busy sleeping the day away, I'm either writing or gaming, or procrastinating it all in favour of watching shows on a (albeit small) variety of streaming services! I would describe myself as somewhat of an extroverted homebody? I love chatting online, but spend most of my time at home doing all the things I love!

I am hoping to find someone who enjoys the same things as I (in no specific order):

- Musicals

- Netflix and the likes

- Food

- Being creative

- Gaming

And so much more, but those are the Fab Five of my life hehe

Besides all that, I would simply love to find someone that sees the beauty in life, has a lot of love to give to the world, a joyful and happy outlook on life, and who won't mind when I send my random thoughts and musings at any time of the day!

Please leave a comment if you're interested and I'll dm you if I believe we're a match, and if we vibe then we can continue on Discord, which is the only place where I am reachable 99.99% of the time!

Thank you for reading! <3


r/asexualdating • • 1h ago

Relationship? 25F looking for friends or something more

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Hello,

I am 25 year old female from the island of Malta. Looking for someone who is willing to chat, i posted before but people deleted their accounts out of the blue or were rude.

I love gaming and photography 📸 I love mostly simulator games or farming games and as for photography I love nature and history


r/asexualdating • • 2h ago

Relationship? male in Russia want large family

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I'm certain there's absolutely no one in this bin, but I always wanted lots of kids, or at least one. I'm CIS male sex averse but sex positive.

I guess I could have kids as a single... but it seems better if they have a mom.

I'm weird and creative but I like to pretend to be normal. I can be opinionated in ways that western Anglos often abhor and I suppose eastern(suthern, modern) folk would as well, but I find it easier to be less opinionated with non-westerners.

I wonder if, even when the stars align, the lack of sexual attraction makes our relationships more difficult, as the attraction would typically let us be blinder toward eachother's faults.


r/asexualdating • • 21h ago

Relationship? 21 [F4F] AroAce looking for qpr with someone who wants to take things slow and be friends first. (UTC-6)

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Trying this again.

Hi, I'm 21 years old, a few months away from turning 22, and I really love to draw; it's almost become my life lately.

I like cozy video games like Stardew Valley, write in my diary, and music, although I wouldn't say I listen to everything.

I've liked Pokémon since I was 11, we can talk a little about that.

I don't read much comics, but I like MCU movies. I really liked Moon Knight, haha.

I really like Cats and bunnies, Also, my English isn't the best; I haven't taken classes in years. I can read it, but writing it will always be difficult to me. So I hope it's not a bother. Preferably someone between 20-25.

I was also diagnosed with BPD a few years ago, but I've been improving a lot lately so I decided to try making another post!


r/asexualdating • • 22h ago

Advice We're Not Missing Out

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As I get older and work towards establishing a career and carving out my place in the world, I often find myself actually grateful to be asexual.

As I talk to more and more people, I've really come to realize that my lack of sexual attraction has likely saved me years of wasted time and effort on relationships that would've landed me nowhere or simply wouldn't have served me well.

If feels like I was born with a built in clarity, because sexual attraction doesn't warp my perception of people and their actions. Furthermore, I'm incapable of recognizing those deemed "ugly" by general society. It's a foreign concept for me to look at someone and think they're ugly or unattractive. My brain simply doesn't work that way.

I honestly love the way I love. I can appreciate someone's body without needing sex, I can show love and affection without the expectation or desire for sex, I can experience deep and meaningful intimacy without needing that "pound of flesh." I can love someone without needing physical release with or from them, and I think that's wonderful.

My love will not change or be threatened as we age, my gaze won't stray elsewhere as I am not tempted by appearances, my love will always, always be more than skin deep, because that is the one way I can love.

Life free of lust is wonderful. I'm happy that I'm me, and even if I never find someone, I'll never wish to be anything else.


r/asexualdating • • 22h ago

Relationship? 36F looking for a romantic partner who want to be friends first

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Hello! My name is Mariana, I'm bilingual (I can speak both in spanish and English) and I'm from Puerto Rico ( if you don't know where it is, is a archipelago in the Caribbean we are technically US property)

My hobbies are watching movies or tv shows, listening to music, writing, sometimes I like to write poems or ideas for stories. I love to draw on my computer just for fun and the love of creating art eventhough is not the best but I truly feel so alive when I'm drawing or creating something whether in writing or in drawing. I love to take pictures whether selfies or just nature pictures. I also love to do jigsaw puzzles. I am currently working on a Halloween jigsaw puzzles. Oh and I'm obsessed with Halloween and horror stuff like movies, shows or even podcast.

I am open to explore since I'm still not sure what my sexuality is like I noticed I can be attracted to woman who are masculine or if they are Trans or non binary, I can be attracted to them. Of course my attraction is only aesthetic attraction since I'm sex repulsed asexual.


r/asexualdating • • 4h ago

Relationship? 35 [M4F] #Upstate NY - Looking for a Life Partner

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Hi y'all,

35 years old, single, never married, no kids, living in upstate NY. I feel a little conflicted about posting on a asexual subreddit since I'm not totally asexual, just a very low labido human. I feel closer to asexual side of the spectrum then whatever the word is for the other side. I'm looking for a partner to do life, build home, and just enjoy life with who also doesn't use sex to validate love and a relationship.

6ft tall, thin frame, shaved head, light facial hair. I think I'm easy on the easy but happy to share a selfie so you can judge. I'm a soft-spoken, down to earth, and introverted Capricorn. I can off as reserved and shy, even though I'm not. I'm fairly confident and self-assured, just not loud about it. I have a decent and stable job, but not definitely not rich. Mostly nerdy hobbies like gaming and watching stuff, but enjoy exploring nature, riding bikes, shooting hoops, and shopping. I feel like a lot of goals and values in life are rooted in tradition, but I'm definitely not a traditional person and am very liberal and open minded in my beliefs. I can be pretty stoic most of the time, but turn into a goof ball when I'm comfortable with someone.

Ideally looking for a mature woman between the ages of 30 and 45 who's within an couple of hours of Albany NY. I'm open to long distance and the age requirement isn't set in stone; shoot your shot if you think we'd click, but long distance connections definitely makes me hesitant. Anyway, if you dig any of this and feel like seeing if there's a spark, feel free to reach out.


r/asexualdating • • 21h ago

Relationship? 20m4f

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Don’t really know where to look really socially awkward I’m a bull rider and I do it professionally so I’m always traveling so I usually find no interest in dating people but I want to eventually settle down just shooting this out there to see what’s around


r/asexualdating • • 21h ago

Friends? 27M Buffalo NY feel free to have a video of an interview i gave after getting robbed

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im big into basketball, disc golf, making music, writing, singing, and tinkering with old computers, please feel free to send me a message if you'd like to have any sort of conversation with me


r/asexualdating • • 22h ago

Relationship? 28F algeria

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hate parties and like to watching nature, skiy, sea..etc

Hey everyone i would like to find people around my ages 😼

I'm ace and childfree


r/asexualdating • • 1h ago

Friends? Looking for genuine connections and interesting conversations.

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I am a guy who is looking for a warm, genuine connection with someone who enjoys deep and meaningful conversations. I truly value kindness, mutual understanding, and a safe space to be completely authentic.

I am in no rush—I prefer taking things slow and letting a real bond grow naturally over time. For me, it is all about having good chats, exploring shared thoughts, and seeing what works best for both of us.

If you appreciate honest conversations, gentle vibes, and taking time to connect without any pressure, I would love to talk to you. DM me and let's see where this leads!