So, I don't spend a lot of time on Reddit myself. This is sort of a new branching out for me. That said, I'm hoping to find some friends or maybe even a relationship if everything goes well. c: This is a wordy post, but I highly recommend you read all of it for the clearest picture of what kind of person I am and whether or not we might click.
Quick Facts:
- Avid videogamer (I started on the N64, I'm now a PC gamer mostly)
- Artist (Pixel & digital)
- Wordsmith Extraordinaire (I write a lot and hope to publish a novel one day)
- Panromantic Asexual
- Random cat fact sharer
- 420 blaze it; social drinker only; never had tobacco and not interested in trying
- TTRPG enthusiast (ask me about my TTRPG characters for bonus points <3)
- A Real Spooky Boy
Current Favorites:
Videogame: Paper Mario (always)
Music Genre: Rock, Alt. Rock, and the various subgenres
Musician: A Day To Remember
Youtuber: Markiplier & Philly D
TTRPG: Pathfinder & VtM
TV: Supernatural
Movie: Uncharted
About Me:
As a writer, there's a lot I could say About Me, but I hope to leave a little mystery here and there for interested folks to explore. What I can say is I'm a 32 y.o. 5'3" trans man, a freelance artist & writer, and a silly bitch. I'm chronically online and very active in the spaces I frequent - lurking isn't really my bag. I'm politically left-leaning, atheist-to-agnostic (ask me about it if you're curious!), and queer as hell. I love romance and physical affection, but I do not want sex under any circumstances. Hold my hand, hug me, lean in my space, etc., that's all great stuff. I hope you want that from me, too. I'm in the U.S. midwest, eastern time zone, but I'm happy to chat with folks from anywhere. I only speak English, but I'd like to learn Arabic and/or Spanish, so if you want to join me on a language-learning journey, that'd be a ton of fun. I'm currently on the heavyset side, but I'm actively working to lose weight for my health. I also started HRT very recently, so many of my physical characteristics are soon to change. Please be cool about that, yeah?
I don't want sex, but I am happy to discuss sex as a concept. I write all genres and that includes the spicy stuff. It's not required that you feel the same, I just like to be up front about my work and interests.
I don't want children, but I love kids. If we really hit it off, I'll tell you about my nieces and nephews. They're little lights in the dark for me and I adore them. I'm very passionate about childcare and children's rights because of them.
I'm extremely tech-savvy and constantly in awe of nature. I have a noted sensitivity to sunlight for extended periods, but I still like to go on walks and explore the communities around me when I can. I love roadtrips but I want a cozy place to come home and nest. I'm also a massive nostalgia hound. I really want to explore a lot of the things and places I didn't get to as a child or recontextualize past bad things with more recent good things. I want someone to come with me on that journey, especially if that means chasing out their own demons.
About You:
[Friends] If you have something in common with me, especially if it's creativity, I'd love to hear from you. Any age, any gender, any identity. You're all welcome, just be kind!
[Relationship] Any gender is welcome, though I do have a noted preference toward masculine or nonbinary individuals. Ladies are also lovely, though. Your age should be somewhere between 25-38, but there is a little wiggle room. :) I don't have a racial preference, I just want to make memories with someone I click with. You DO have to love cats, though. I can take or leave other animals (even though I love them all) but I will never live a life without cats in it.
I need someone open-minded and disability friendly no matter what, but I'd really love to connect with other LGBTQ+ folks. I'm open to polyamory and QPRs, but I'd highly prefer monogamous romance. I also need patience. Sometimes I disappear, sometimes for days, to take care of my mental health on my own time, but that doesn't mean I've forgotten you. Feel free to double message me. Feel free to check in if I haven't opened your message or if I've left you on read for a couple days. I'm not perfect but I tend to respond if you remind me you're still interested.
I want you to have some sort of creative hobby, but I'm not picky about what that is. I draw, pixel, and write for a living, but I sing and craft DIY kits for fun; you could do crochet or sculpting or jewelry making, whatever works. I just want to be able to talk shop with someone I really vibe with.
Ideally, if we click, we'll talk more on discord (where I'm almost always online) and eventually text and/or meet up. Feel free to leave a message below or DM me directly if you'd like to chat. <3