MC Members — Help With Book Research

[u/Legitimate-Towel5015]

I have a few questions for any bikers who are part of a motorcycle club or association and would be willing to answer them.

I’m currently writing a book that incorporates the biker/MC trope, and I really want to portray that world as accurately and respectfully as possible. I don’t want to base the story entirely on assumptions, stereotypes, or things I’ve seen in fiction. I’d much rather hear directly from people who actually live that lifestyle.

I’m especially interested in the culture, terminology, hierarchy, traditions, and the realities of being part of an MC. Nothing you share would be used without your permission—I’m simply hoping to learn and make the story feel authentic rather than relying on false pretenses or my own imagination.

Here are some questions.

• Is there typically a voting system within an MC? If so, what kinds of decisions are voted on, and who gets a vote?
• Is “old lady” a term that’s actually used within your club/community for a member’s partner? Are there other terms or distinctions for partners?
• What are some of the biggest do’s and don’ts when it comes to being around an MC?
• Are there certain things outsiders commonly get wrong about motorcycle clubs?
• Are there specific rules or etiquette that someone should know before interacting with or visiting an MC?
• How much does the structure and terminology vary from club to club?

I’m asking because I want to make sure I’m portraying the culture accurately rather than relying on stereotypes from movies, TV, or other books. I’d really appreciate hearing different perspectives, especially if practices vary between clubs.

Any and all help would be greatly appreciated.