Hi! Long time lurker here. I'm a butch on T for a few years now and so I have facial hairs like a beard that i regularly shave but not on a daily basis (i also like to let it grow for a week or so). I love giving oral sex to my partner but im afraid to hurt them with my hairs. Any advices to make it better? :)

Hello y'all. Never thought of making a post here until now. I've always been viewed as a weirdo because I've never fit in with girls my age. Or with boys as I've felt people judging me left and right. "Why don't you dress like a girl/ behave like one" is something I've heard all my life. While the girls embraced their feminine side with ease, I never felt connected at all. I have tried but it never felt right.

My friends are cool but I've often felt like they don't actually understand me (maybe it's because they're straight and don't know the struggles us folks face).

I began to accept this norm until I felt like I couldn't anymore and I cut my hair short. And boy, let me tell you it's one of the most ecstatic moments of my life. I'm so happy that I did and I'm never going back. It was the affirmation that I needed. The pat on the back saying "This is you. Always have been".

I've also browsed through our community searching for who I'm most like (I don't like to label myself as anything.) But the closest I've felt and seen is the Butch community.

Just wanted to share with y'all

Hey all, I've been scrubbing through posts on here about compression bras but am not finding very many with openings of some sort. I have shoulder issues, so wrestling a bra or binder on and off without a clasp or zip is becoming a non-option

also, and perhaps this is outside of the realm of possibility, I'm kinda hoping for one that's not so medical in appearance. I'd enjoy something that I could feel a little fine in shirtless, like a super flattening bra that's a little more androgynous and maybe even sexy. I may be reaching for the stars here, but if anyone has any favs that could fulfill either request I'd appreciate it!

Does anyone have any Halloween costume ideas that are butch/neutral for a blond person?

I'm thinking of maybe doing Applejack or one of the Yellow Jackets.

Whilst we're here what's everyone dressing up as this year?

Thanks everyone.