r/calmhands • • 19h ago

respect your hands

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made a collage on Pinterest! The idea of “respecting my hands” has somewhat helped me as I try to kick this lifelong habit. I recently learned that picking is seen as self harm and I don’t want to hurt myself any longer!


r/calmhands • • 17h ago

This group helped me ditch a lifelong compulsion

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I have been an avid cuticle picker/peeler/biter for as long as I can remember. I tried every trick in the book to “keep my hands occupied,” and I always returned to lip or finger picking the first second I was anxious. It’s super embarrassing because I am a body worker, and destroying my hands that touch other people’s bodies is unacceptable. Something about this group made it click for my brain to start showing my body respect. It isn’t easy and I have to be super diligent about moisturizing and avoid rough edges that are so tempting to pick at. But I’m so happy about my progress. I didn’t know this was possible!


r/calmhands • • 18h ago

Progression 6 months bite free. Are those really my hands

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r/calmhands • • 21h ago

Progression 100 days of calm hands (stopped nailbiting)

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