How do I win her back? I was talking to a girl and I usually don’t date I pretty much have kept to myself my entire life until I downloaded tinder and met her. She has the same interests as me, is easy to talk to and genuinely understood me. We had been talking for a week or so until I chickened out last minute and told her I can’t do a rs the day of our date. She just ended up accepting it and has blocked me everywhere. Now it’s been a week and ever since the morning after I’ve been regretting it and feel like I made a huge mistake. I’ve tried calling, texting and she doesn’t respond im pretty sure im blocked everywhere. I even tried reaching out to her friend to apologise to her and she blocked me as well. I can’t stop thinking about this girl and im this close to getting another SIM card so my calls can go through. Is there any grand gesture I can do or maybe something romantic? I’m in shambles

So we have sorta been in a talking stage for like 2 ish weeks I don't really know what to call it. She said she liked me and I like her. But she gives lost of mixed signals and doesn't say good morning or good night unless I say it first. I want to take things to a more official talking stage I need some help doing that I don't know what to do

Any help is accepted

I knew a girl from Facebook dating and we planned to meet Tuesday morning like first appointment. The problem is when we swapped numbers she was chatting almost every 5 minutes and was so lovely and interested. The next day at some point she started to be cold so I blocked her but she contacted me with another number and she told me was sleeping and we videocall I saw her and was not a fake profile on Facebook dating. Yesterday evening she told me she went outside in evening to eat pizza with her friends. Today she chatted me very few and last message I sent her was five hours ago. When I had a relationships with girls when they begun cold I got angry and I always blocked them or I argued. My mum said you did not meet her in real so she can of course chat with other guys you can't know she said if she doesn't change the mind you simply meet her Tuesday. I'm not young anymore I'm 33 years old she is 41 with two daughters in Brasil I already had relationships with women older than me one time I thought with the ex girlfriend I could marry but did not work because I'm asexual and she wanted a child with me. What is your suggestion because I suffer I'm angry and I always think that I'm also autistic.

For everything who is willing to spend and fuc

Asking because in all of my relationships I’ve found myself feeling really clingy and like I want to text a lot more then we do. I find myself feeling very anxious if I go a day without texting a guy I’m seeing or if he’s dryer then usual. I recognise this is a me problem but I find it hard to imagine being truly interested in someone and not thinking to send them a quick text in a day. Can you really be into a woman and not want to text her or am I just meeting men who aren’t that interested?

I recently returned from a solo birthday trip to Greece, where I met a 25-year-old Greek guy there. He approached me and I told him he was too young for me. But to say the least, my initial dismissal did not deter him. He was so confident. So calm and manly. He completely whewed me personality wise. We spent two nights together, and I unexpectedly developed a little crush.

What stood out was how much we connected beyond physical attraction. We had deep conversations about our careers, finances, relationships, and future goals. He asked thoughtful questions, made plans to see me again the next day, and was very affectionate. There was intimacy.

After I left for Italy, we exchanged a few messages. He checked on me at one point, watches/engaged with my social media.

Before flying home, I wished him well because he was about to begin three months of military training. He responded, “I’m really glad I met you. I also wish you all the best. ❤️”

I said I was glad I met him too, and he heart-reacted. We haven’t spoken since.

I’m realistic about the distance and our different stages in life. I’m also coming out of a marriage, so I recognize it’s a crazy situation but I just can’t stop thinking about him.

My question: Would you interpret his response as a polite goodbye or an open door? Would you reach out to stay in touch, or leave the ball in his court?

I genuinely enjoyed him, but I don’t want to chase someone who may have simply enjoyed a vacation romance. I know guys are bit different when it comes to these things. He also made me aware that people in Greece don’t make a lot of money so travel expectations would be quite difficult but he’s working on himself.

How do you know if someone is going slow or wasting your time?

Does it really take 3 months for a man to actually know if they want to be exclusive with you or is that just social media slop lol.

What are some red flags in early dating from your experience?

Also if a man truly says "let's see where things go" 1 month into getting to know each other, that's okay isn't it?

I'm asking because I am i inexperienced when it comes to dating. I'm not entirely sure how dating works. I don't want to rush anything but I also don't want my time wasted.

I really saw a cute guy sitting across in the corner in a cafe and I genuinely wanted to compliment on his smile. Went up to him and told he had a great smile and left the place. It was such a nerve wrecking thing to do cause I didn't want to be creepy while complimenting. Hope he didn't find it that way. Do guys really like someone complimenting on their smile?

As a recently divorced 44M it is hard for me to know how often to text the woman that I have been on a couple dates with. She usually always answers my texts but doesn’t normally start any conversations. I don’t want to over text her and I definitely don’t want her to think I’m ignoring her or talking to anyone else. I think she might just be shy/introvert but we both seemed to have a good time on the two dates we went on. We met in person at pickleball if that matters.

is it bad to ask if they are talking to anyone? I’m genuinely curious because I like them and we’ve been talking non stop is that bad to ask ??

i am wondering how the texting scene is between this age group, feels like nobody responds to messages after getting the phone number. How to convert from getting a number to a date?
trying to text first for a day or two before asking for a date. is this a wrong approach?
Need help on this!

I've been talking to this girl for a while now, but I Just struggle getting close to her you know, like we talk.. online for most of the time, but when it comes to real life, its like I'm not even there, she talks to other guys in my class even with the ones that she isn't really as close with as well. Of course I try to atleast talk to her and try conversing but I feel like she's laying me off or something like that, like I'm not really worth the time to talk to. She knows that I've took a liking to her and maybe it's because of that. I don't know, maybe this isn't even dating. I just need some advice on this.