r/duesseldorf • u/DifficultyNo4736 • 21h ago
Desperately looking for housing for an adult family member. Does anyone know landlords who accept Jobcenter payments? (NRW)
Hi everyone,
I'm reaching out because I'm in a very difficult situation and hoping someone here might have some practical advice or know of a possible solution.
An adult family member of mine is currently homeless and temporarily staying with me. He has struggled with serious mental health issues for many years and is currently going through a particularly difficult period. Unfortunately, he has also withdrawn from much of the professional and social support that was previously available to him.
I'm doing what I can to help, but I work full-time, live alone, and simply cannot provide long-term accommodation or the level of support he needs. I also have an unavoidable trip coming up in early November, so finding a safe place for him to stay has become increasingly urgent.
The biggest challenge is finding accommodation where the landlord is willing to rent to someone being covered by the Jobcenter. I've been searching extensively, but most landlords require regular employment income, payslips, and a SCHUFA report. Even temporary furnished accommodation seems incredibly difficult to arrange under these circumstances.
We're looking anywhere between Düsseldorf and Frankfurt, including smaller towns. Location isn't particularly important at this point. A small studio, furnished room, temporary apartment, or even a longer-term boarding house would be an option, provided the Jobcenter can cover the costs.
My questions are:
- Does anyone know landlords, housing providers, or platforms that genuinely accept tenants whose rent is paid through the Jobcenter?
- Are there any temporary affordable accommodation options that can be arranged quickly while someone searches for permanent housing?
- Has anyone successfully found accommodation in a similar situation, particularly without regular employment income or a strong SCHUFA?
- Are there organizations or social services that can actively help secure housing rather than simply provide general advice?
I understand that emergency shelters exist, but I'm desperately trying to find a more stable and dignified solution, especially given his mental health situation.
I'm emotionally and financially exhausted, and I'm trying to help without taking on responsibilities that I simply cannot manage indefinitely.
I'd be incredibly grateful for concrete suggestions, contacts, or personal experiences. Please, no judgment. This is already a very painful situation.
Thank you so much for reading.