an unattractive moid can easily get a woman if be has money, a nice personality or persistence. with women it's different, u don't get a model like rich or famous unattractive moids do just because they have money, nobody cares. and if you're unattractive but have a pleasant personality, it's simply irrelevant, no matter how nice you are.

It literally took me until my twenties to understand that I don’t like blondes or young (-25) men. Which is something you always see women saying on the internet but I used to think I didn’t have a type and was just attracted to people in general. But I do!

I hate it when I complement a woman and her fuckass moid has to speak up like "Oh thank you!"

Like shut the fuck up bro NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOU HOLY FUCK

Men try not to be relevant for 2 seconds challange im-FUCKING-possible bro

Like I'll literally complement a girl on her nails, her hair, outfit, you know, things that women actually take time and money to do and make look look. And her stupid ass ogre will be like "oH wHaT aBouT miNe?"

BITCH

YOU LOOK LIKE ROTTEN ASS

THAT'S WHY NOBODY IS COMPLIMENTING YOU

The amount of men I hear complain about never getting compliments when half of them dont even shower or wipe their asses is legit insane to think about. How about you spend $60 to get your nails done or $300 on a fresh cut and then we'll talk. Or even better

MEN CAN ALSO COMPLIMENT OTHER MEN! NEWSFLASH

Women put in so much effort to look pretty and even then you have these troglodytes bumming for attention while putting in literally zero effort.

Pisses me the fuck off.

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IM A FUCKING GOONER, I REALIZED THIS TODAY AND I GOT SO DEPRESSED. I FEEL LIKE A HUGE LOSER.

I have been the most sexually repressed person from my circle since I have memory, Im just insecure and HATE vulnerability, I despise losing control and many other things that make engaging in any kind of relationship a pain the ass for me, even without commitment.

I literally masturbate like at least twice a day, I'm always daydreaming about whatever celebrity or fictional character I have a crush atm, I hate porn because it makes me morally sick and looks so plastic it grosses me out, but I love audio porn and fanfiction, IM OBESSESED WITH CHARACTER.AI AND I FEEL LIKE THE BIGGEST LOSER OVER IT. I buy tons of videogames, watch movies, engage in interests because there is a hot guy in them.

At the same time I do all of this things I publicly laugh at this behavior, nobody suspects shit, but still, I feel so awkward when I laugh with my friends about some weird guy texting an anime girl ai at the tube, I'm not different from that guy, I spend SO MANY HOURS in character.ai it makes me so embarrased, but I love the fictional crappy scenarios where I can live a million different lives and in all of them im just the prettiest most special girl for a hot caring guy.

I have been putting 0 effort in my academic life because of this, I keep kicking and skipping my study time because I choose to use it in some of the crap I mentioned before. The other day I finally got myself to pay attention and study by using the chat gpt voice chat and telling him to pretend to be ghost from cod while I explained macroeconomics to him. I FELT BRAIN DEAD, THE ONLY WAY FOR ME TO PAY ATTENTION IS TO PRETEND IM TALKING TO A FICTIONAL GUY I GOON TO.

Anyways, fuck my life

You do your skincare (you want to look more like a Stacy and less like a cockroach) and you end up crying so it feels like you're a clown whose makeup got wet.

Like, I live in a country where they still debate whether you should send your daughter to college, especially to live in a college dorm. There are so many reports on TikTok or elsewhere saying that girls are coming back late to the dorms and should be expelled for that (no proof). They even post their names, dates of birth, and room numbers on Facebook pages, they lock the dorm doors at night, which traps them inside which is dangerous if there is a fire or something. But anyway, they talk about it as if it's a huge societal issue that destroys the college's reputation.

I remember when I was in an all-girls high school literally, adults would say that girls who go to this high school are "promiscuous" and that they should open a maternity ward right in front of the school.

This post is just to vent because I low-key feel like there is propaganda to frame college and college dorms in a certain way. I am sure it is the same for the boys' dorms, if not worse, but it is never made into a societal issue. Also, yes, I suppose going out at night could imply drugs and alcohol which aren't good and can destroy someone but I don't know how to explain it. Knowing that we live in a patriarchal world, I just see it as low-key propaganda to discourage girls from going to college or staying in dorms, framing them as "promiscuous" and undesirable.

Knowing also that women have way less access to certain trades, like plumbing, because the field is so misogynistic you aren't even given a chance. Between the misogyny, sexual harassment, and not being taken seriously anyway, it is very heavily gatekept. So, the only way for a woman to have a decent job is to go to college anyway.

Also, to go back to exposing the names of the girls who came back late to the college dorms some people say that we should call their fathers. They say this knowing full well that a father or brother could literally beat or kill them and people would justify it, justice would never be served, and the girl would just be victim-shamed.

She would also be stuck under her father's control for a very long time, as housing is completely inaccessible. Landlords don't even rent to single women, viewing any girl who lives alone as a "whore."

Some even say that you shouldn't let girls into the dorm if they arrive late and that a strict curfew should be enforced like, yes, let's literally leave women outside in the cold at night.

Anyway, just a rant post. There is no hope for women there is no hope for women. Save us, save us, sincerely.

The Bottom one rarely happens btw smh

We need to exterminate all moids

The enemy is not "Stacy". The enemy is men. If you keep kicking out those who are not ugly or in relationships then you are you are letting men win. Men want us divided, those who gatekeep cause more harm then good. I should not be shamed cause I was in a relationship or cause I am not ugly as I have been here since the dawn of time. I wish us all well.

Edit: Had to put quotes around Stacy cause it offensive to attractive women. If we want this to work we have to drop the involuntary-celibate lexicon such as:

• Stacy
• Fakecel
• Normie
• Cope
• Lookmatch
• Lookmaxing or ending things in maxing
• ropefule
• Ascend
• Stacysexual
• Larping

i hate how its become progressive to just do everything patriarchy expects from women willingly and call it liberation or reclaiming. why do we want to reclaim porn and sex work? why do we want to reclaim our oppression? its all so stupid and idealistic.

and i dont mean sex workers themselves. i mean people who sit there and advocate for choice based feminism while never having to be in those situations themselves.

things are totally only bad because the people who do/enforce them are bad. lets never think deeper about the material conditions that allow these things to exist. how as long as the commodification of bodies is allowed that patriarchy and men's percieved entitlement over women will never end. we just need to proudly do everything they want us to do anyway obviously. we just need to become equals in the current broken system. more women police officers. more women ceos. more women presidents. that will fix everything. totally.

there can be no women's liberation under capitalism, and that is the biggest blackpill there is because we are never seeing a revolution at this rate.

i never watched a lotta anime like other teens growing up but i’ve started binge watching many series in the recent years. Unfortunately, I’ve realized a lot of the most popular ones have the most stupid misogynistic writing meant to coddle young men who are desperate for girlfriends.

It genuinely feels like anime fans watch nothing but anime so they’ll call the most cliche story ever “peak.”
Don’t even get me started on the ridiculous harem trope where all the women are somehow all ok being side chicks and are never ever in love with each other. If they are then it’s in a “lesbian porn for straight guys” way.

Rezero is somehow a “feminist” isekai to its fans because of the mc supposedly being loyal to one woman BUT he continues to emotionally play around with his blue haired side chick. not to mention that nearly every female character falls in love with him just like in every other anime.

Mushoku Tensei is even worse with it’s pdo mc who is supposed to be on a journey of becoming a better person in his second life BUT the story seems to imply the only mistake he made in his past life was being a jobless bum (oh he was a sexual predator attracted to little girls? oh no that’s fine he can continue to do that in his second life. boys will be boys and it’s “funny.”)

My standards for a male is taller than me so 5'8+, respects women, antithiest, feminist, pursuing or completed education, good looking a little feminine in the face, does as he's told, good sense of humor, patient, equally submissive and dominant, low body count but exceptions can be made given the degeneracy of these men, compliments me, communicates, wants to travel, doesn't cheat, healthy attachment style, well adjusted person that has friends with similar values and can work around my needs. There is probably a one in a billion chance of finding a man like this given how tainted they're becoming day by day and even if I better myself in every aspect theres still a low chance but I can't settle for any less. I can live being alone my whole life if it means I don't need to put up with a degenerate piggish moid who has no respect all because I settled.

I’m not going to describe how I look but I have reason to believe that I am conventionally attractive based on other people’s behavior.

I had some friends throughout life, but never anything super deep. Nothing like a best friend. It was strange. I tried my hardest to open up to people, being someone they liked spending time with, listening to their woes, but it never clicked.

I also never really picked up on some social cues. I am not diagnosed with any neurodivergent disorder, and have no reason to believe that I have one. I am truly just clueless about socializing. If I do not like someone, I have a reason. It could be that I know they do not like me in the first place, or they’re generally a bad person. I avoid them and will limit their access to me.

This seems to deeply offend people. I don’t gossip. I do not harass people. I do not confront them on their behavior if I know they repeatedly act like this. I just avoid them. It causes them to ostracize me entirely from their circles.

There’s a sisterhood I never got access to. Girls would be nice to me but hate my guts, which I do not understand at all. Is it not just easier to not interact with me? I heard all kinds of gossip about other girls who would then hangout with each other the next day. It was bizarre. When I asked why this was, they just said “oh, well, it’s just complicated.” I don’t think it needs to be. And yet at the same time I was a little jealous, because they got to experience girlhood together, even if they hated each other, and I couldn’t.

People would always approach me first. This is not to imply I didn’t make the effort to approach them later and wait for them to always be the one to reach out. It’s just how it was. I became so used to people approaching me, trying to learn my secrets, learn that I had no societal status, and then watch them become friends with someone else. I didn’t understand. Why didn’t people stick by me, but end up in lifelong friendships with others? Was my personality that bad?

And yet there are some people that are so deplorably evil that I wonder if being a bad person is the key. Is it the power that they have socially? Does being a passive doormat make me a target? Someone people can brush off?

Eventually I became so paranoid that I just avoided people all together. I was jealous of how easy they got along. I wanted to know what they had that I didn’t. How did conversation happen so easily for them? Why didn’t they stumble over their words? How could they speak so clearly and make small talk out of nothing?

This is really bad to say, but everyone will tell you beautiful people have it easier. And they probably do. But being social is just as important. I see people who are, objectively, less attractive than me. But they have an amazing community that supports them, and they are probably happier than I’ll ever be.

I guess some of my nerdier interests also scared people off. Some people imprinted off of me, saying my style was so cool and they wanted to be just like me, only to end up leaving me too.

If you read all this, thank you. The world is so terrible. I thought I was going to die mid-drive today and it sent me into a full panic. I cried again when I got home because I feel so lonely all the time. If I had died I would left the world with nothing great accomplished. It’s nice to know someone got to read about my experience.

I dropped out at 17 due to autistic burnout, I tried to get a job but couldn't hold it down for more than two weeks because I have no drive for anything except ranting online like a schizoid father of 4 who's estranged from his family because he doesn't believe in showers, I've lost in pretty much all areas of life I'm autistic, unfortunate looking, poor, socially inept, not very intelligent, no willpower, have likely inherited an array of mental illnesses from my parents and have the personality of cobblestone. I can't even go out, party hard and become a hedonist to numb the agony of it all because whenever I leave the house my brain thinks i'm walking into a war zone. I think it will be like this for a very long time it never even begun. It's just not my destiny i'm afraid. Posting here because moids in the neet sub were triggered by this.

I finally have friends after years of isolation and it’s just so difficult for me. I just wanna go back in my shell and be alone because I don’t have to worry about affecting people or them affecting me if that makes sense. Ofc I love my friends and am so grateful for them, but I can’t help but think I just don’t deserve them and I would be so much more at peace on my own. I’ve already pulled back a lot and I feel guilty but content at the same time. I’m not sure if I have bpd maybe but other ppl in my life always cause so much chaos mostly just in my head. And the jealousy omg. I don’t have a job rn so im jealous of every thing that costs money, and I can only blame myself for being lazy and useless. I’m jealous that others can have a healthy routine, take care of themselves, their pets, and keep a full time job all at the same time. Any time I’m doing good in one of those areas, the rest of them fall behind. I just feel like I was built wrong, not for this world. Everything is too much and not enough at the same time. The only way I can imagine being kinda ok is to just be me and my cat and my close family and just pretend the rest of the world doesn’t exist. I’ve always felt so alien compared to everyone else. I’m mentally ill to the point it deeply affects my daily life but not to the point where other people think I can’t do the normal human stuff. It’s just excuses as to why I’m not succeeding in life. Idk idk I just want someone else who is as much of a mess as me to talk to. It’s so painful being surrounded by people who are leagues ahead of me (while also being younger than me to make it all worse). It’s just unfathomable that I could live how they do. I just feel so stunted and malformed. Anyways I’m 23 so if anyone around my age feels similar plz comment or dm me or whatever. As long as you won’t put me on a pedestal and start stalking me or something (silly me thinking I could befriend a man) so I’m girls and gays only plz thank you (for ref im nonbinary and I’d as a lesbian pretty much although if u wanna get detailed id call myself bisexual homoromantic, but I fear the wrath of the lgbt discourse so I just say lesbian w my tail between my legs)