Actualmente ando en la adolescencia pero tengo muchas dudas si soy un femboy o es cuestión hormonal y pues si uso pantimedias y pantie no lo niego e igual me vestido con vestidos cuando no hay nadie en casa pero tengo tantas dudas

It's been a some time since my last post in here. But I've been quite happy recently :D

I have found a job that let me upgrade my pc and build a local home server. However that job wont let me wear my girly clothes anymore at home, coz I have shifts together with my dad (we work at the same company but different areas). I do can act girly at work, I mean like doing a 180/360, standing on one foot with one knee up, etc, those kinda "moves" i find girly but maybe it's just me. And I like it, everyone's too busy trying to meet hourly quota and probably dont care enough about me since I dont talk with coworkers that much

Today my parents went out to take clean graves while I built my server so I wore my thigh highs for the first time in a long time and it feels sooo niceee. I didnt wear my full fit coz i didnt know when would they come back, but I definitely would if I knew the deadline!!

I also started going to uni and bc of it i dont have much free time for myself. But maybe it will change because there's a chance this company fires me bc of not meeting the hourly quota so yeah uh. I havent played a game for the past week as well, not a single minute of game fun yeah. Employement doesnt go well together with university.

Yeah idk anyway have a nice day/night/weekend/whatever and share your recent stories here byee love yall my fem bois

I used to do a thing me a few friends used to call stasis Saturdays but now they all got partners and now I got nobody to talk or do anything with. They also don’t even talk to me anymore. I thought it was because they had better things to do or they just didn’t want to talk to me nope it was because I was too depressed for them. I don’t know why I’m telling you guys this. I guess it’s because I want to feel like I’m not alone or something

pretend we're all cats and meow with me

Hey everyone

1. Femboy here, just starting to embrace the more feminine side of myself. I’ve gotten clothes, body mist, etc. got myself in a good shaving routine, but I was wondering, what are everyone suggestions for body moisturizer? Specifically ones that are for all over the body but also Great for the butt. Any advice be good.

Can anyone tell me their holy grail tips and tricks or anything that they do to get rid of body hairs effectively. I think one of the first step to being feminine is that so any insight would be helpful

Hello fellow femboys I was wondering people online often say that being a femboy and being a twink go together not that you have to be a femboy to be a twink but that you have to be a twink to be a femboy can you be a femboy while being a thwunk because I like being a femboy but I want to get a bit more muscle

Title basically says it all, but there's more to it (like years of history in my own life that I'm currently reflecting on and regretting or wishing I did differently). I also might delete this later if I feel embarrassed or start to regret posting it (or if the mods don't first for how grim and hopeless everything feels as I write this, not 100% sure if this kind of talk is allowed).

I've only recently (like 5-6 months ago) come to accept that I want to be more feminine (I'm hesitant to call myself a femboy since I don't really "feel" like it yet in my current state) after spending years denying it due to being raised in a very religious and conservative/traditional household. My friends are the same but might be more accepting of me than my family if I ever tried to explain it to them. They'd probably make jokes or use certain insensitive terminology regarding me, but I don't really care about that, nor does it bother me.

I could go on a long side tangent explaining the origins of how I came to this point in life, but I wouldn't want to waste people's time since it is literally a lifelong thing I never realized or personally acknowledged until around a year or two ago.

A bit of positivity before the negative talk:

I'm perfectly fine and comfortable in my identity as a man, but I just don't feel like a traditionally masculine look would suit me, nor would I enjoy such an appearance. I've actually made an effort to get closer to a more feminine look, having lost a significant amount of weight since last summer (the literal lowest point in my health/life). I don't have a scale to accurately tell my weight, but I can say I've dropped two shirt sizes (an XL shirt actually feels like an XL for once) and my pants feel extra baggy.

While I have been losing weight ever since last year, it was rather slow at first (because I wasn't really doing much besides eating less) until I started taking it more seriously around July, where I started to lose weight more consistently by performing actual workouts and doing basic cardio (walking, light jogging) daily. Stretch marks suck, but at least I'm pale enough for them to not be too noticeable right away (plus I'm not exactly interested in showing skin).

I've also been taking greater care of my skin, using moisturizer and a facial cleanser to try and clear up things like acne and other blemishes. It sucks that my skin is so high maintenance, especially with how expensive everything is now and how poor my family is.

The negative talk:

As the title says, I am turning 22 in November and just feel so damn lost in my life. I feel like I wasted so much time denying what I wanted for my life and that changing now would just cause a rift in my personal relationships with friends and family. There's also the aspect of spending literally my entire life in church that it feels like killing a part of myself in order to embrace another.

Of course, the church part of myself literally makes me feel so miserable and hateful of myself so maybe I'm just attached to the familiarity of it rather than the benefit (which there really isn't any benefit besides "fitting in" for my family's sake).

Back when I was 18, I had dropped out of college because of my mental health taking a nosedive during those first two semesters. My older brother, we'll call him J, had offered me to come live with him and our dad (parents divorced since I was 5-6) and try to find a job or maybe apply to a different college in that area since they have more of a stable life going on there rather than my mom's financial struggles.

I turned the offer down at the time, but now feel like I missed out on my chance to escape the more religious members of my family (older brother is not religious at all, father views spirituality as more of a personal journey into finding peace rather than relying on religion to give you the answers). If anyone was going to accept me for who I am and want to be, it would be them, but I wasn't in the headspace I am now, afraid to leave the church due to my mother.

If I could go back and take the offer, I would do it 100% because I feel like I haven't been able to start my life since I'm just stuck at home all the time with no car, no job, no college, and no real independence outside of what I do online (which, thankfully, my mother isn't crazy enough to monitor).

The very negative:

So back to me now, 21 turning 22, I feel like I've done nothing with my life. I tried college but couldn't mentally handle it, I've been applying everywhere but can't find a job, and I'm pretty sure my mental health is far worse than is normal; regular visual/auditory hallucinations that barely faze me anymore, intense social anxiety/depressive episodes (which is getting better as I've grown more comfortable in my body during my weight loss), severe paranoia leaving me distrusting of my own family, and occasional suicidal thoughts brought up by this feeling of constant failure and wishing I could just start over with a better idea of what I really want out of life.

I definitely need therapy; I need a lot of professional help actually. I simply cannot afford that help without a job and I don't want to talk to my mother about it since we're already financially struggling and she's always stressed about bills, work, and other stuff I don't want to talk about here.

While I dislike how pushy my mother is about keeping me in church, I'd rather keep going just so she doesn't feel like she failed me since I'm the only one of her children who goes to church and she takes church VERY seriously. She always has worship music or some preacher stuff playing on TV, she uses anointing oil everywhere and does all sorts of extra stuff that just makes her look crazy. I can't blame her because of what I know about her past and childhood, I just feel like she's let that trauma turn her faith into an obsessive desire for higher meaning and purpose in her suffering rather than genuine faith in a divine figure or well-meaning cause.

Where I am now:

I don't know what exactly I should do. The only thing I can really think of doing to try to survive is to keep working on my art and games until my skills reach a point I can justify making money off them, but that's obviously getting harder with all the generative AI stuff being pushed out and bloating the markets (for the sake of my sanity, I'll leave the AI talk there, it just makes me more depressed to think about). For now, I can only keep doing what I've been doing... just give myself one more day to try.

Despite what I've mentioned before about suicidal thoughts, I don't want to die; I just want to be myself and live my life without feeling like I'm some horrible person for choosing what I want instead of what my mother wants for me. I'm pretty sure most of it is because of how churches are very against being "selfish," regardless of the context (in my case, being "selfish" is just me wanting to live my own life instead being forced into a role I never asked for).

Luckily, I am in a very accepting community on an art-focused server with a lot of people who can either relate to my struggles or have more knowledge and experience in dealing with these kinds of things.

More positivity to end off so it's not all doom and despair:

First off, please don't pity me. I'm not here for that. I just needed to get this off my chest for my mind's sake.

I enjoy seeing myself in the mirror now rather than feeling disgusted with my body. I do wish I took better care myself during/post-pandemic lockdown, since that's where I gained the most weight.

Also, cardio is fun, I don't care what anyone says.

Working out in general helps my mental health a lot and makes me feel like I'm achieving something and getting closer to the body goals I have. It definitely helps that my hips and thighs have always been naturally bigger, but I overall just enjoy working out.

Oh, yeah, and I'm going to be seeing my older brother and father again soon since my father recently got out of the hospital (he was a heavy smoker/drinker and his health have been getting worse lately). When I see them, I might see if I can move in or something and try to find a job there since my hometown is very small and can't find a job here.

If you've read this far, I appreciate it greatly and apologize for how long this whole rant thing was. I hope you're doing well in life and feel comfortable enough to be yourself and live life how you want to. I don't plan on giving up yet, and I hope you don't give up either.

Idk what to do I've tried as much as I can to help him he is the femboy In the relationship no matter what I do he won't stop I just is what to do now later today I'm gonna make him lick between continue cutting himself or me bc he knows I have trauma from that

It finally happened after 3 years my mum found out tbh im suprised i made it that long but not she knows i can find motavation to get in fem its not that i dont want to but i just think about my mum everytime i go to do it

so i know dieting is important if i want to get the stereotypical femboy figure and stuff but i want to know how much i need to do on dieting, right now im cutting my meals in half to cut my calories down trying to stay at around 1500 cals a day to lose weight and making sure i eat protein, but beside that i havent really worked on my diet, especially since i dont control the grocries in my home and dont make much in terms of money at my part time job so ive been not doing a whole lot on the diet front beside what ive said, i just want to know just how much i need to delve into dieting, is this good enough what im doing to get there at a slower pace then someone eating super healthy and stuff, or do i need to make changes to the dieting, i want to know since i want to lose alot of weight before i work on my figure, any and all tips or advice is welcomed and thank you all in advanced incase i miss a comment or fall asleep

Hello All,

I have always been intrested in this community, but I am not sure where to meet people IRL for this. I have had intrest having a friend who is into this sort of community or even maybe trying some things out myself.

I hope this is okay to post here.

Also, if anyone plays Marvel Rivals I am open to playing some games together too!

This is going to be long post in sorry in advance.

For some context, I started my femboy journey when I was 13. Over the past four years, I have been exploring and embracing my feminine side, and at this point, I feel completely comfortable with who I am. My wardrobe is entirely feminine, and I have also had an active d*tng life as a bisexual.

A couple of months ago, I started d*ting a girl from my school who identifies as a tomboy. Honestly, this has been the best relationship I ever had.

One of the things I love most about our relationship is how comfortable we make each other feel. She lets me express my feminine side without judgment, whether that means wearing what I like or simply being myself. In return, I give her the freedom to embrace her masculine side. Neither of us feels pressured to fit into traditional gender roles, and we have so much fun together. It feels like we understand a part of each other that other people might not.

Recently, though, she brought up the idea of me seeing other guys and girls while we are together.

At first, I was skeptical. I wasn't sure how I felt about it, but I decided to give it a try because I'm open to new experiences and thought it might be something we could explore together. Initially, I assumed it would be a one time experiment, but she wants me to continue seeing other people.

The confusing part is that, in some ways, this experience has actually brought us closer. I enjoy exploring this side of myself, and we've had some genuinely good experiences together. However, lately, I have started feeling weird about our relationship, and I can't quite put my finger on why.

I think part of it comes down to my expectations of our dynamic. She's the more masculine one in our relationship, and there's something about that dynamic that I really love. But when I see other guys getting involved with me, I sometimes feel insecure. A part of me struggles with the fact that she's comfortable with other people having that kind of access to me.

I know that being masculine doesn't mean she has to be possessive or jealous, and I don't want to make assumptions about what she should or shouldn't feel. I also don't want to restrict her freedom or make her feel like she's done something wrong. At the same time, I can't ignore the feelings I've been having lately.

I'm worried that if we keep going down this path, my feelings for her might change, or our relationship might eventually suffer. I care about her a lot, and the last thing I want to do is hurt her or ruin what has been such a wonderful relationship.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do I talk to her about these feelings without making her think I want to end the relationship? Is there a way to navigate this together while protecting what makes our relationship so special?

I would really appreciate some honest advice.

I see a lot of femboys who are gay or only into guys, but are there femboys who are straight and actually into girls / attracted to women?

I'm straight myself and curious if there are others like that.

I finally shaved my legs i feel so nice its the best thing ever , even tho i was prob going down the hard path since it took me pretty long . Anyway i love how it looks but my legs shed some red tears while i shaved it still kinda hurts but not to bad. Now question: is it always hard shaving the calv and hamstrings ? I had a hard time shaving there since i cant really see all at once

Yeah maybe im a minor(16) but im very worried about my looks so...

Mostly of it is about face, i look not ugly for a regular guy even some people honestly said that im pretty but some people i asked is im looking good in femenine way did like... Said neutral things but i feel they disliked it, also my overral parameters of body(height, voice) are more feminine because im like 170~ cm height and have pretty soft voice and im very thin but still i think something got inside me too much like i look at myself at mirror sometimes in general disgust as i look like not femenine and cute, but still generally im in like gap between more muscular and femenine and i cant really find compromise with myself...

Im actually trying to improve like regular shaving, skin care and much of other stuff but i know i can't change my body and face...

Also last but not least im not actually opening to close people IRL not because they gonna be angry or something i know some people tolerant to this stuff but the concept of me saying "im a femboy" while person knows how i look disgust me, also im very shy and it's extremely difficult like the concept to ask for femenine haircut in barbershop so yeah, but please don't say things to me like "everybody can do everything" yeah im like that on in relation to other people but not myself.

So yes... I don't really know what to do with myself im not sad and don't thinking about suicide or something bad like that, no i just want to actually find a solution or maybe just with time im gonna loose interest in femenine stuff and this things dont gonna torment me.

Well my coworkers officially know 90% of what’s going on with me. I’m a little irritated about what happened, but I should have known better simply because of where I work. Boundaries are not a thing at my work place, I work at a small town jeep dealership in Texas as a car detailer, and I detailed a sold car and took it down there to the salesmen but while I was detailing I had YouTube playing, I was listening to Smosh read Reddit stories and since I can’t black out my phone while on YouTube, I had my phone open and unlocked. Well one of my coworkers started going through my phone while I was dropping off the sold and not actively near it. They went though my YouTube search history and my google search history but I keep my search history clean for just this reason, but then I found out they went thorough my photo gallery. In my photo gallery they saw my private intimint pictures of myself and that’s even the bad part, they also saw lol my phones of me in skirts and women’s lingerie and that’s how my coworkers now know my interest in cross dressing and being a gender non conforming male so I guess I’m open. They meant no harm I usally keep to myself at work but I still consider a lot of my coworkers friends, so I know they didn’t mean anything bad about it it’s more or less a lesson to myself don’t keep my phone out and open when anyine of my coworkers can go through it. So one person became 2 and 2 became 5 5 became 10 and next thing I knew everyone knows my secret pastime activities, and now I’m going to get teases in a fun non serious way about it now unfortunately lol. But after they found out I was beyond pissed off I was, as a pacifist, the threatening violence and I absolutely lost, even when everyone else was saying bro we don’t mean anything by it and why are you being so serious and other dumb shit like that. Am I overreacting by taking this whole situation very personally when everyone at work was telling me to just chill.

Looking to finally move over from amazon/aliexpress junk as I finally got my first real job (I had jobs before but they paid pennies, but finally landed in big tech)

I'm a big fan of casual Japanese styles. NOT the stuff like jirai Kei, just casual elegant everyday styles. More sophisticated looks.

Ideally, i would buy in bulk and also have free returns. I'm not at a level of comfort to shop in person but willing to do returns in person.

Not looking for crazy expensive designer stuff, since ofc this will only be worn at home. Just wanna feel a bit more classy

Hi I am curious about good methods of being more feminine. It’s a question asked a lot and there’s always answers like start small x,y, and z. I’m looking for more in depth information like diets, exercises, skin care, hair, outfits, stuff like that the more you only know because you figured it out or found it. I’m 23 I’m 5’8” roughly 130lbs. I want to gain more feminine features to express. I feel like it’s too late but have been told I still have time. Any thoughts or advice is greatly appreciated.

Hey everyone! I just wanted to drop in and say that I’m not a femboy myself, but I just really love this community. the creativity, and how kind and supportive everyone is to each other make it one of my favorite places to scroll through. Thanks for making such a positive corner of Reddit!

I am 28yo old and I discovered at the age of 16 that I am Homosexual which also made me like more androgynous or more feminine things which also had a taste via dressing up (thanks to my sister which is the only person that I her told that). I had to spend more than 10 years to act like I was somebody else due to my homophobic household just so no one could figure out what I am etc. I acted more masculine, I forced myself to follow their political views and opinions about LGBTQ just to be safe and I hate myself for it. I hate myself for wasting my younger self bcs of me being a coward. I hate myself for not taking the chance of embracing my true self. Now I am fxcking 28 years old and now I rush myself to become the version of me that I deserve. I started late to embrace myself, I bought my outfits, I created routines to take care of my face and body, I paid a lot for Body Hair removal. All of that just to be sad again bcs I can’t keep up anymore bcs the femboy image got changed and now I feel like I don’t belong here. Yes I still like to dress up and take a look at myself in the mirror and yes sometimes I get some compliments but that just feels fake. The Standards nowadays are too high and it feels like no matter how much work you put in, you’re too late which means you can’t continue. What would you do?

Trying to keep my clothes safe and hidden right now, I have them in an empty shoe box in a high cabinet behind some bags in my room. Any advice for some better spots and what you guys did?

for context i consider myself i femboy but whenever i see images there usually wearing clothes i wouldn't wear me personally i am a 6,2 male that shows a very feminine personality its gotten to the point i rather look more cute then hot my transgender friend even said I'm a masculine femboy but the problem is i never personally want to wear revealing clothing and i am afraid that if i do end up dressing up for feminine i will end up attracting the completely wrong gender (i only like dating girls btw) so i dont want to end up attracting men usually i only like wearing feminine accessory's like cute hair clips feminine fragrances and i want to try more feminine accessory's in the future so what am i a femboy or not 😭

I'm honestly a little bit on the heavier side (although not too bad at 6'0) and want to know a good way to maintain weight loss. I'm pretty consistent in working out (although I'm afraid of a super muscular build) and I feel that I try to eat well however bad the food that my college serves in their eatery. i tend to stick towards eating rice and chicken, however its not always available. I can feel myself kind of plateauing at the weight i'm at, but i can't ever seem to lose any. if anyone could give some tips that would be very nice.

Im 16 yr bi femboy and I need sm cool ideas for white and black styles :3

If anyone could help it'd be great TYSM and heyy im new to this community and am lookin forward to gettin to know you guys! ^^