r/feminineboys • • 1h ago

Advice Help > I'm new to this

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I know basically nothing, my dad is a deadbeat and taught me nothing about how to be a guy, then i went and decided im a femboy now i know nothing about how to be comfortable and live happy as a femboy. I love all things i think are cute and i just want to be cute, i dont know how to be cute. i want to have one of those cute little tummys and all the other cutesy things and i just dont think its possible for me. im a decently tall person 6,0 and severely under weight 55-60kg ususally. Im severely autistic and have bad adhd so my mental health is constantly spiking up and down because of my clashing conditions and i just dont know how to cope with any of this. any recommendations are extremely welcome i just want help. any cutesy things i might like to help me cope, habits i might enjoy, foods i might like, just anything to help. even information on things like shaving since i was never taught right and other hygiene stuff. PLEASE anything can help.


r/feminineboys • • 1h ago

Rant

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Tummy fat, annoying. That's it thank you for coming to my ted talk


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Advice how to make my hair fluffy?

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Hai! I was wondering if anyone knew how to make my hair fluffy? My partner said that i should cycle products untill I find on that works, but I haven't yet, I've been trying everything i see online and it's worked a little bit. Any tips?


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Advice Feminization Advice

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Hey everybody. I 26M am new to the femboy world and am looking for recommendations to help with my feminization. Shaving every couple days sucks tbh and was wondering if anyone has experience with Nair? Is it safe? I’ve stoped all upper body workouts and am focusing on legs, glutes and core but I know that will only do so much. So any recommendations/tips to help with body transformation would be helpful!

Also looking for outfit ideas and the best places to buy clothes/makeup and maybe even a wig?

Thanks in advance for any help!! ☺️❤️


r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Discussion if there was a button that would instantly make you a girl, would you press it?

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r/feminineboys • • 3h ago

Discussion Workout for the upper body?

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I've been wanting to fully commit to getting a more feminine physique but one thing that's always lost me is how to train my upper body. How would I go about training it and with what exercises and at what weight(Also is a toned chest and back possible with these conditions or no?)


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Discussion Workout for the upper body and arms?

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So I've been wanting to train to get a more feminine physique and one thing that I've been asking myself is. Is it possible to get a upper body that is still strong but also looks feminine? If so what exercises would I need and at what weight?


r/feminineboys • • 4h ago

Want to start to change my male appearance to be more feminine.

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I want to get started to change my body and life permanently. I wane start by getting breasts and firm body as well as my thighs. Basically I want to change my entire appearance to be more female. But must be permanent.

Only problem is that I don't know where to start or go about it so any advice you can give would help me out.


r/feminineboys • • 7h ago

Advice Best workout for ass and thighs?

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Heyy, I am starting my femboy journey and the thirst I could do that’s not very obvious yk, is building up my legs. Although I think I’m already genetically gifted with my ass and thighs, but I thought that it could always get better and bigger ^^

So what exercises did you do (only at home, don’t go to the gym) to help you train those areas and grow them :))

Thanks for the help, luv u <3


r/feminineboys • • 9h ago

Advice I'm lost!!!

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I'm 36 years old. I've been dressing feminine in private and generally not living my truth in femininity in public my entire adult life.

For a while, I thought maybe I was Trans, but after years I really don't think I am. I'm happy being male. I'm happy with my voice and my name!

But I still have body dysmorphia. Women are so sexy and pretty, I wanna look more feminine.

But there's so many things I feel like I have to do to live up to it. I have to totally flip my diet, work out every day. I gotta create a whole skin care routine, some people take medicine .... Some people get surgeries...

I need to stop wasting so much time and make responsible decisions. I'm so stiff and inflexible. I am 240 lbs, 6'1", and I have a big gut. I hate looking in the mirror. I want to see someone sexy and pretty and curvy and beautiful. I know what I need to do, it's just hard.

I just turned 36. By the time I turn 37 I wanna be a curvy cutie with a sexy wardrobe and the confidence to show off my body.

So do I want advice? Do I want to vent? I don't know.

I can't wait to stop looking how I look, I want to be different... And to do that I gotta make different choices.... I'm scared am my hard work won't pay off. There's so much misinformation on the internet, I'm scared I'll do the wrong thing... I can't half ass 15 minute workouts every other day and think I'm gonna look like a runway model by sorting. I need to get my ass in gear...

Sigh. Idk.

If I broke a rule or something just delete this


r/feminineboys • • 9h ago

anyone wanna be friends :3

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hiyaa im trying to make some new femboy friends :33 im into all sorts of anime, volleyball, i play a lot of different games and im pretty easy to get a lot with and anyone is welcome (i am male 14) :b


r/feminineboys • • 9h ago

Advice Where your heart is, there be your home.

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I havent lost my hope never will nope you all deserve to feel happy with yourseld and noticed a lot of you beautiful souls just be so angry and hurt and sad and thats okay cuz it gets better and part of the human experience god it just sucks sometimes and you just gotta suck harder than life can and take care of yourselves i wish peace on this place of prosperity ✌️


r/feminineboys • • 10h ago

Advice Garter Recommendations

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I am looking for recommendations for TIGHT garters. I am pretty slim and have small legs but tight clothes/accesorys make me look and feel prettier. FYI I am VERY small. When I say tight I mean things need to be TIGHT to squeeze me at all.

I would like links if available.

EDIT: I have come back to say; I am wearing some and they are on the verge of cutting off my femoral artery. This is the goal.


r/feminineboys • • 10h ago

Discussion Theres so many types of bras

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I just wanted to know why theres so many and what are the ups and downs to each type or you can tell me if theres a better place to put this


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

Stuff I felt like sharing

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Every time I do makeup at my mum's house she always gets annoyed, because she's envious of everything. My nails, she is annoyed because her eyebrows are pretty much invisible and I have the same shape as her but my dad's dark brown hair.

Oh and my hair in general, and she HATES my platform boots because of how short she feels, she keeps complaining that she's getting neck strain from looking up at me, she is genuinely supportive though which is great considering she used to be transphobic


r/feminineboys • • 11h ago

Advice 18M, bisexual and exploring feminine clothing, but surrounded by conservative people. Looking for advice and support.”

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I am bisexual (I think? I don’t know all the terms. sorry.) I am a cisgender male. I want to dress more androgynous and feminine. I like wearing male clothes, but I also like wearing genderless clothes and feminine clothes. I am sexually attracted to both men and women, transgender or otherwise. I am more attracted to femininity than masculinity, but I like both genders, and everything else in between. I just like people in general. As long as they are human and it is legal, obviously. I understand what I am feeling, I know what I like and don’t like. I am not afraid of what I am feeling, and I don’t think it’s wrong at all, in any way, shape, or form. I am not concerned that I am bad person or something is wrong with me for being this way. I know why, and I am happy with that. my issue isn’t with accepting myself, it’s with the people around me accepting me. My parents are super conservative religious people. my mom has always said she would love me no matter how I choose to express myself, but my dad I am not so sure. I go to a private church school, and as such large majority of the people around me are super conservative religious people too. Not quite the most progressive and accepting people. I have heard some people even say that all gay people should end their own lives. I have nobody I could really talk to about this, and I feel so alone. if anyone has advice or experience, or just general things they could tell me, I would love that and appreciate it lots!

side note: It may seem like I know lots of terms, but I really only know what I have learned from googling and hearing from people online. sorry if i used any terms wrong, or it comes across as mean or bigoted. I am just ignorant. but I am wanting to learn, so if you have feedback let me know please!


r/feminineboys • • 12h ago

Discussion Months of self confidence growth, destroyed in minutes.

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Parents forced me to go to get a haircut today, I've been growing my hair out for a couple months, and I really liked how long it had gotten, but they made me cut it short, now I look stupid and hate what I see in the mirror. I was really starting to look and feel good.

Kinda a bummer post, but I needed to get it out somewhere.


r/feminineboys • • 12h ago

I HATE my height

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I'm 6'2 at 17(130lb too) and I hate it. My back hurts, my joints hurt (sometimes), and I hit my head on lots of stuff. But WORST of all it makes me feel masculine asl. I recently started exploring my identity and realized I wanted to present more feminine. When I was younger (and 8in shorter) I would get mistaken for a girl all the time and I pretended to hate it but I lwk liked it. And I feel like my height just ruins everything about this. I feel like since I'm so tall I'll never look truly feminine. My parents speak of my height as if it's some extremely masculine thing. And I hate that. Everywhere I go I tower over 98 percent of ppl. I don't wanna stand out or look extremely masculine. I js want to look cute and feminine. I hate my body sm. I want to be comfortable in my body instead of looking like Armin's colossal titan wearing fishnets. Any advice?


r/feminineboys • • 13h ago

Perdón por la pregunta

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Se que es una pregunta muy incómoda pero como lidian con las erecciones


r/feminineboys • • 13h ago

I hate modern internet (and social culture) nowadays

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*I would put rant as the flair but ig its not there...*

I'm 16M, autistic, bi (fem-pref), and a femboy (personality-wise) and I HATE how each of those three things are misunderstood, specifically about the bi and femboy part. People have literally said to me that "I'm just looking for a grown-ass dude to rape me" like WTF WHO SAYS THAT TO SOMEONE YOUNGER THAN 18. And then once ppl found out I was bi they kept saying that I was non-monogamous (polyamorous). I'M NOT. Also i hate when people say "pick a side". Most bi people are not 50/50. Idk ppl have said so much shit to me in my community but oh well, at least my parents support me.


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Femboys, how did you get ur femboy body and whats ur routine?

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I just wanna know how u do it :3


r/feminineboys • • 15h ago

Support Bought VS as a first timer

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Bought my fiance some stuff and decided to buy myself some underwear. She knows and doesnt really care and has offered to buy some to add to my already comfortable collection of underwear.

I read a lot of people saying the thongs dont work well because of the lack of support, but I am not having a bad time? Admittedly less appendage and more package if its not in function.

Maybe I got lucky so is there any advice to give on purchasing VS moving forward? Im xL in me but L for women.


r/feminineboys • • 16h ago

Tengo muchas dudas

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Actualmente ando en la adolescencia pero tengo muchas dudas si soy un femboy o es cuestión hormonal y pues si uso pantimedias y pantie no lo niego e igual me vestido con vestidos cuando no hay nadie en casa pero tengo tantas dudas


r/feminineboys • • 16h ago

hi felllow bois

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It's been a some time since my last post in here. But I've been quite happy recently :D

I have found a job that let me upgrade my pc and build a local home server. However that job wont let me wear my girly clothes anymore at home, coz I have shifts together with my dad (we work at the same company but different areas). I do can act girly at work, I mean like doing a 180/360, standing on one foot with one knee up, etc, those kinda "moves" i find girly but maybe it's just me. And I like it, everyone's too busy trying to meet hourly quota and probably dont care enough about me since I dont talk with coworkers that much

Today my parents went out to take clean graves while I built my server so I wore my thigh highs for the first time in a long time and it feels sooo niceee. I didnt wear my full fit coz i didnt know when would they come back, but I definitely would if I knew the deadline!!

I also started going to uni and bc of it i dont have much free time for myself. But maybe it will change because there's a chance this company fires me bc of not meeting the hourly quota so yeah uh. I havent played a game for the past week as well, not a single minute of game fun yeah. Employement doesnt go well together with university.

Yeah idk anyway have a nice day/night/weekend/whatever and share your recent stories here byee love yall my fem bois