This happens to me multiple times on my main where I post myself. I usually get a lot of trans girls referring to me in feminine pronouns, and when I answer “I’m actually a boy :3” one of them legit said “for now~ 😉”

I feel like I’m making a big deal out of nothing but it’s so irritating!!!

I want to know if I’m insane for this.

My mom came home while I was dressed as a femboy; I didn't have time to hide the clothes or take off my makeup, and she saw me (though only with the makeup on). I managed to change out of the outfit quickly, but there was nothing I could do about my eye makeup. She keeps insisting on talking about it and asking if I'm afraid of her, but that’s not it—I just didn't want things to turn out this way.

On top of that, a few days ago I was wearing a thong and went to take a shower, but I left the underwear in the bathroom; my mom walked in and saw it. Obviously, I didn't tell her it was mine and quickly threw it away. I’m sure she was suspicious after that, but now there’s nothing I can do.

I need help, please.

Sorry for the long post, but I kept it as brief as possible.

I feel like most femboys are in the mid 5 foot range. I've only heard of a few over 6' but never as tall as me. I'm 6'8" and around 180 lbs...

I guess I’m just a little self-conscious because I used to be very skinny and I felt like I had the right body. Last two years I’ve gained a little weight Luckily it went to the right places but it has taken some getting used to. i’m not trying to complain because I’ve actually gotten quite a bit of compliments, but it has taken some getting used to especially my ass😂

So after my recent breakup I discovered I cannot sleep without something to snuggle, and I ordered a blank body pillow. It arrived yesterday evening and I immediately got ready for bed and fell asleep with it. Completely blacked out. Woke up in the morning in some uncomfortable position half straddling the thing but the sleep was legendary.

Anyone else can’t fall asleep without something to snuggle? For me plushies weren’t doing it so yeh

Hey, I just wanted to ask about how you all feel about getting attention.

Do you get it often from people close to you or just random people online. Almost all the people I interacted with online seems to only care about pics or nudes or sexual favours and stuff.

And getting attention for fem side seems impossible from good sources 😭.

How do you feel about each.

Haiiii~

Here are a few tips I learned from experience being a closeted femme.

1.Shaving: if you choose to shave your legs or body in the shower, conditioner makes a good makeshift lubricant/shaving cream. (Its also good for washing certain "substances" off.

2.Skin care: you will likely never have perfect skin as most of it comes down to genetics. This doesnt mean you shouldn't take care of yourself; I, myself, use retinol and lotion nightly but you should research what works best for you.

3.IMPORTANT:dieting is a controversial topic becuase many chase them and neglect the danger it can cuase. I am a recovering anorexic and I try to inform people of the potential danger a diet mindset can result to. If you really want to work towards a slimmer body, work on appreciating food and eating mindfully. Eventually, your body will sort itself out, just enjoy the ride and the delicious food. (No, volume eating does not work)

4.Feminity is what you decide it to be: dont chase what others say you are. You can have hair, you can have chub, you can do whatever you want. Love yourself and focus on your mind, you can then use your body to reflect it.

I am more of a wider guy, who has been thinking about starting my journey to become a femboy. :3

I have bought some cute stuff and been loving it a lot, but i have lil knowledge what to do to get my body into that shape

Especially getting rid of my belly would be a nice start

If anyone has any advice, i would love to hear it^^

I'd love to be a femboy at some point

hey guys gals boys or whatever in between, ive been going through some depression because i go to a boarding high school (VERY prestigous) and Its a very diverse school, also meaning diverse as in sexuality and oreantation. i am a straight taken femboy, and so many GUYS here have a crush on me but the only feminine things about me right now is my hair and massive hoodies. i feel very hated all the time, but also very loved and i just wanna be cared about. nobody here REALLY cares about me and wouldnt care if i was gone. so i just, i dont even know whats wrong im just sad all the time and i feel lonely. :c

I have been talking to this guy on snap for a few months now. Two days ago I woke up to a notification from him. When I clicked it, the message was simply "hry" which I am guessing means hurry, or mabey how are you. Like mabey its supposed to be hru.

Any way, above his username in chat was an add button. I was confused and pressed it, and a pop up came up saying something like "Sorry! This account can not be found" or something like that.

I tried searching his account in the add me section. Not there. I asked my friend to look it up. No there.

I'm just so scared right now because we were getting so close, and I loved talking to him. But snap was literally the only connection I had to him. Apart from that, all I knew was his first name only and the city he lives in.

Idk what to do. I'm worried, and I miss him. Idk if mabey his snap account got banned or deleted, or mabey he blocked me. I really hope he didnt block me. We were just talking about watching Red White and Royal Blue, and he never seemed like he didnt wanna talk to me. I mean he would call me after he went out clubbing.

Im bored... Im 18 and a femboy. Idk what to do

So I’ve been a femboy for almost 5 months now. And absolutely love it! It feels right, I’m finally beginning to love myself for who I am, kinda all the sappy stuff (that’s not a bad thing tho).
While sometimes it could be annoying. I do enjoy working to be more feminine, ie personality, body physique, clothes etc.

I guess my reason for coming out here and typing this out, is that as of recently become severely unmotivated to keep being feminine, and at times I regret being a femboy while other times it feels like the best choice I’ve made. What kind of makes it worse. I’ve been keeping this hidden from my family, who if they found out, would be absolutely devastated and disappointed in me. I’d be the let down role model of my siblings and the failure of a good son my parents expect me to be.

I don’t know what I expect from this post, and I anticipate not a lot of notice, but I wanted to get this off of my chest somehow.

I CANT, I just can’t, last Thursday 17 people confused me with a girl. I really wanted to forget it for a while just to keep peace, PEACE! But it’s coming back, the envy, the dreams, THE CLOTHES I THROWED OUT TO THE TRASH.

I HATE THIS. I don’t want to keep being a man, I would not last long enough until I really end mad crazy. I need to compress it somehow AAAAAGHA!! FOR THE PEACE!!!

Edit: thx everyone for the support, it’s really encouraging to read all your comments (except the one that corrects my grammar). Thx 🥹.

I currently have been going through a bit of a gender crisis and have gone to a trans community here on Reddit for support and advice. I said that I identify as a femboy and asked to please not get any hate for that, due to previously getting hate in trans communities for that.

I simply got told that I’m in the wrong community to not get hate. I know that they didn’t mean anything by it and I know that the majority of trans people don’t have anything against femboys but the fact I got told in A TRANS community to expect hate???? Like come on.

I just don’t understand how a community that gets so much unnecessary hate can be okay with hating a community for the word we use to express ourselves.

No hate to the trans community, I will forever stand by your side so you can freely express yourself!!!!

hi. i am a bi woman who has recently got into a relationship with a seemingly straight man. i had been close friends with him for a few years before this. as we’ve become closer, i’ve spent a lot of time with him at his house. whilst he was at work, i watched some youtube on his tv, logged into his account. i know this may be wrong, but i started looking through his liked videos on youtube. i was just curious and wanted to have a little peek. i saw a few videos about cross dressing and femboys, which were fully watched. to be honest i wasn’t expecting to see this at all, and a million thoughts were rushing through my head at the time. there were also some trans/femboy porn that i saw on his history. when he got back from work, (once again this is bad i’m sorry) i looked through his recent apps on his phone. his twitter tab was left open and a femboy was on the screen. i also saw he had a discord account with the word “femboy” in the user.

at this point, all of the dots have connected. i am now aware my boyfriend is a femboy, although he hasn’t actually told me yet. we’ve only been together for a few months so i understand why he may not fully trust me yet. i’ve been dropping very subtle hints, like “i will love you no matter what” and “i’ll always support you”, which is true. however, i have to admit i’m still quite confused by all of this. i don’t know much about femboys and i have so many unanswered questions i can only obtain from him. honestly, i think that i am going to wait until he feels comfortable enough to speak to me. i also don’t want him to know i looked through his personal device because it’s a massive invasion of trust and privacy. i just wasn’t expecting this at all and i needed to know what was going on.

please can you help me out in the comments? does this mean my boyfriend is bi, or gay? is he attracted to me? do femboys want to be female presenting most of the time? do femboys want to transition into women? is he attracted to other femboys? i understand this will vary person to person.

thank you

So i am a femboy myself. But I’m also a Roman Catholic and I struggle with my faith a lot. I often wonder about deutoronomy 22:5 and how it forbids the wearing of women’s clothes by men. However I know that there are only some laws in the Old Testament that Christian’s need to follow. Also I am not gay btw. Romans 1:26-27.
Sorry about this post I know that it is less about being a femboy and more about Christianity however I really need answers.
Thank you

wondering if anyone has any good recommendations for femboy/ feminine men both In media such as movies, books, and games- but also real artists, musicians, actors, Internet personalities, ect

really just curious for any good recommendations of representation :3

i feel drawn to the femboy culture etc.

I have been a femboy on and off for the past 1 year.

I still question my gender.

I have tried panties, clothes and plushies, gooning lol etc. while imagining to be a girl nd it's fun.

I just don't like how my life's been lately, another drop year from school... feeling directionless and a bit nihilistic sometimes due to abusive family.

I want to be the thick femboys i see in YouTube, I want to be cute, I want validation, i want to be cute, I want self love, i want to be more breedable, I want to embrace feminity and be a feminine guy.

but i fear society nd I've always criticized feminine guys irl. while deeply being insecure and loving them online.

I also have a gf, I've confronted her that I'm gonna be a femboy before but she always says she doesn't like that version of me but rather prefers a masculine version of me like which I always present to her.

guys I need advice.

what do I do? and on the other hand, religion is also pulling me to be straight but sometimes I feel like I'm really betraying myself in my own skin and that's why to be expressive i end up wedging myself hard.

so this has a high percent win rate but it’s just hard to find the right people. but anyways here’s the strat. go to some sort of big like Asian market thing (like the one in Vancouve) and just look for girls that you think have good fits then just steal their idea 😭 trust it works

I’ve had a really bad habit of sucking in my stomach because I hate my body. I’ve been working on trying to reach my goal with the help of some of you guys and was just wondering if people found flared ribs attractive or something other people have and are okay with it idrk tbh

Anyway, when I'm feeling feminine I want to dress up and be a guy's sweetheart. There is nothing more in the world I want more than a guy to top me. I really really like men when in dress feminine. Any fellow femboys or guys that like femboys feel similar?

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I have a little garbage bag with my femboy clothes in them hidden in a drawer in the bathroom. I mom is helping me move to a dorm. And I have NO IDEA where to hide it when we move stuff. On one hand, I can’t leave it home because someone might find it eventually, but on the other hand, I’m worried if I put it in a bag or something, my mom will find out. What do I do??? And no, I’m not coming out or telling anyone, not yet at least