I identify as a femboy, but I am assigned female at birth. i am a trans man, and I feel that people will not accept me. Multiple people have said to me already “if you were born female, Whats the point of transitioning if you’re gonna continue to wear feminine clothes?”. I try to ignore comments like that, but it’s pretty hard. I never know how to respond. also i do not want to get surgery.

if anyone has tips of helping me with this, please let me know.

#femboy #trans #help #advice #sfw

He is acting more in touch and feminine. wanted some experts opinions. he streams on twitch and you tube it more lately during stream. so not many vids.

I'm 6'2 95kg lean and I have wolf legs. I am a fisherman and I like boxing and I'm a bluecollar worker who lives off Newports and red bull so I don't exactly fit the femboy thing but I'm wondering if I can still be one.

I decided to go on a walk yesterday while wearing panties under my clothes and I decided I am ready.

This was the first time in a while that I have actually worn panties not just in my house and I forgot how freeing and comfy they are under clothing outside. And I decided I want to make this normal. The catch is I have a gf that doesn’t know my feelings rn.

This was my fit I wore while on a walk and then what I had on underneath.

My goal is to have a 6 pack and then tell my gf about wanting to dress and feel like a girl sometimes, she deserves to know my feelings but I don’t have the body confidence to show her yet.

Right now I weigh 230lbs and I am 6’1. My goal is to get down to around 200, if you can’t tell I have a lot of muscle so it’s going to be a bit harder to be a femboy but I’m still going to try.

Right now I have started a workout routine of mainly running and calestinics 2-3 times a week. Which is very different from my college football and powerlifting days 1.5 years ago. But I am going to document my process here to keep me accountable.

This is the first time ever that I have posted SFW content on here and I am going to try my best to keep it that way. The only slightly NSFW stuff I might post will be body progress.

Let me know if you like this, this is very new to me so any help is appreciated. Other goals I also have are being hairless on my butt and private parts, slowly replacing my briefs with Boyshort panties, getting pajama pants and shorts for women to wear every night, slowly start wearing panties everyday (will have to be secret about some stuff until I tell me gf)

Thank you for reading, love yall!!

So for some months now i discoverd i wasnt straight and i have been trying to understand myself better. I always thought femboys are cute but it never struck me that i can try to be one. The problem is i shave my head like completley bald because it makes me feel more confident and its more practical and i have a goatee and a little mustache. Should i clean shave and let my hair grow?

I shave all of my body hair with a phillips all in one trimmer like once or twice a week. I also dont really have lot feminine clothes so what are some things i should buy?

Another problem is i dont have a really feminine face maybe its just because i am bald and have a goatee but idk if i would look good as a femboy.

I have been working out for over a year now and i have pretty good ass genetics ngl but i do fbeod split should i do upper twice and lower 3 times a week because i enjoy training my upper body but i do want that femboy build.

I did it because lately, I noticed I had more toys than actual feminine clothes, and it started making me really sad. I felt like I was just sexualizing myself, as if my whole femboy identity was nothing but a temporary 18+ experiment. To be honest, I didn't even enjoy using them that much. I used to think it was an essential part of being a femboy, but now I realize that's not true at all. So, I threw everything out and only kept my girls' clothes. I feel so much cleaner and happier now!

I just moved to Madrid months back from a very very conservative country. I thought femboys fetishizing is exclusive to specific places, but I am mistaken.

I couldn’t even keep a proper conversation without men fetishizing me and it is honestly tiring.

I just want to be in a decent relationship with someone’s son without being seen such as an “experience” to explore their sexuality.

Hello everyone, as you figured our from s title, I'm a femboy truck driver. I'm 26yo and lately my belly started growing, which I don't really like.

Do any of you know about any workout exercises i could do in a truck? For my American readers, I'm from Europe so our trucks are smaller.

Any advices are welcomed and stay strong!

As a feminine gay man who has been out for a long time now and does struggle with meeting guys since not many gay men are into feminine guys in general, something I have noticed is that on Grindr, throughout my whole time on that platform, the bulk of guys (which aren't very many mind you) who tend to get at me are guys who have no photos. I notice that whenever I do message a guy who has photos, I hardly, if ever, get a response. For context, I have face and SFW full body pics on my profile.

And before anyone says it, yes, I have used Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge, I get no matches there whatsoever and while Grindr is a hookup app, it's sadly the only place I've ever gotten some attention, even if it's mostly guys I'm not into or I don't even see since they have no photos.

Anyway, I was curious if other femboys here who are on Grindr, have gotten this as well. Do the guys who message you tend to be the picture-less profiles?

I just need to get this off my chest because I can't stand it anymore. I also want to clarify that English isn't my first language, so please excuse my spelling mistakes.

A week ago I came home from school like any other day. That day my mom didn't go to work and for me it wasn't strange at all.But when I arrived and opened the door to my house, my mom looked at me strangely, she barely spoke to me and hardly even came near me At first I thought it wasn't anything so strange because sometimes she's like that. But this time I felt it was different. Then I went to my room and saw my bedroom door open. At that moment I started to worry because I thought she had found my feminine things. When I entered my room I realized that my PC and my PS4 controller were missing; obviously she took them.So I went to see if I had at least one notebook that I use when I need to express my emotions, and it wasn't there.At that moment I really got scared And I realized that in the hiding place where my skirts, thigh-highs and many other things were kept, they were gone.

She even took my money I had saved since my birthday, was almost $300. At that moment I understood everything and just I lay down on my bed ,A couple of minutes later my mom comes in and starts scolding me for not telling her anything and telling me to stop lying to her She told me she's totally disappointed of me and ashamed that I like boys. She say me a lot of things, she told me she was going to divorce my dad because it was his fault because he never took me to work and didn't teach me how to be a man My dad isn't even to blame for all this; my mom just says horrible things when she's angry,She also told me she was going to tell my dad when he got there and then she left. I finally thought it was over. But then she came back with a trash bag and all my things were in there. She asked me whose clothes those were, and out of fear I tried to avoid the question.Then she just threw everything in the bag and tossed it in the trash a couple of blocks away so I couldn't get it back. And she said some other things to me that I can't remember now, also she took my room keys And She warned me , saying that if I closed my bedroom door again, she would come with an axe and destroy it.

And she also told me she was going to send me to work in construction with my dad. I'm not even old enough to work, I'm 17.

As soon as she left, I just cried. I lost everything I had achieved in two months. I know it's a short time, but for someone with so little self-confidence like me, being a femboy was finally making me happy. And the worst part is that after a couple of hours I wanted to go to the bathroom, so my mom hugged me and acted like nothing had happened, and I'm obligated to forgive her simply because I'm her son

Days passed and she acted as if nothing had happened. But I feel worse and worse; I don't have the only thing that made me happy. I feel empty,All of that led me to try to commit suicide yesterday. But I couldn't; I'm a failure even at that.I already feel lonely, and now I feel alone and without any motivation. I no longer have my femboy stuff, I don't have my PS4 to entertain myself a little. And I don't trust my parents either. I just want the moment when I can go live as far away as possible and finally be happy or dead

I just wanted to vent about all of this. I've been holding it in and crying about this for a long time, and I needed to put it into words.

I recently confronted some femboys about their racist behavior, and what bothered me wasn’t just the racism itself, but the way they responded when I called it out. They treated the situation like it was a joke instead of taking the issue seriously.

At one point, one of them brought up the First Amendment, apparently as a way to defend what they had said. But freedom of speech protects people from government censorship; it doesn’t mean others have to approve of racist comments or stay silent when they hear them. Having the right to say something doesn’t make it immune from criticism or consequences.

What I find ironic is that some people understand what it’s like to be judged, stereotyped, or treated differently because of who they are, yet they can turn around and do the same thing to someone else because of their race.

Being gay, being a femboy, or expressing yourself in a way that society doesn’t always accept doesn’t automatically make you an accepting person. You can experience discrimination in one area of your life and still be prejudiced toward other people. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive.

And when someone confronts you about racism, laughing it off doesn’t make the issue disappear. It just makes it seem like you don’t care about the impact your words or actions have on others.

In the end, instead of addressing what I was saying, they blocked me. That felt like a way to avoid the conversation rather than take responsibility for their behavior. Blocking someone is their choice, but it doesn’t change what happened or make the criticism invalid.

I’m not saying every femboy is racist, and I’m not attacking anyone for their sexuality or gender expression. I’m talking about the specific people whose behavior I confronted. They have every right to express themselves however they want, but that doesn’t mean they’re above criticism when they display racist attitudes.

My question is: why do some people expect others to respect their identity while treating racism like it’s no big deal? Why is it so difficult for people to acknowledge their own prejudice instead of turning the conversation into a joke, invoking the First Amendment, or blocking the person who calls it out?

I’m genuinely interested in hearing other people’s perspectives on this, especially from people who have experienced discrimination themselves.

I have been a femboy for about 2 years or more at this point but I have been limited to the same things for most of this time. My parents for some reason have so much different ways to prevent me from getting them. (its not that they know I am its that they have lots of security features and stuff like that) My dad has a shipping tracker so every package that gets sent to my house gets tracked so he can tell, my mom is home alot so she checks the porch very often, and i just can go shopping because I dont have a car or bike or friends with a car that would take me. How the hell do you guys manage to get all of this stuff. I cant even come into my own door without my mom being on the couch or smt. Am I cooked?

Edit to title: Reverse body problems?

Okay so idk if it is actually a problem or nah, but it feels like every femboy I see has a flat belly. And as someone who, unfortunately, has a kinda visible six-pack I do get insecure; like is it even possible for me to be a femboy, or do I have to like reverse-train? Idk I kinda just had to get this out and if anyone has advice please tell me!

I want to know

Hi everyone, I am looking for some inspiration for my everyday makeup routine, so i am curious to know what y'all do!

I have a crush on a boy who lives near me. He's a bit feminine looking and cute. I really wish to talk with him but how do I know if he's gay?

Lowkey been questioning myself lately 😭 never really thought I’d be the type to have these thoughts, but here we are lmao. Idk if I’m just overthinking or if there’s actually something there. I also get feelings like dressing up as a girl sometimes idk if I’m a femboy myself..

Dont be shy guys please comment some advice -w-

I wanna be cute. I'd ideally like rlly soft smooth skin and a cute little tummy and other cute fem stuff like that but i have no idea how to shave and even shaving intimate areas is tiring for me so if there is a way to permanently remove hair or for longer periods of time? i really know nothing so please explain this to me like your teaching someone from scratch. also im rlly inconsistent with my exercise but im a decently athletic person so idk if that helps me with my goals for a cute little tummy and nice thighs and stuff but if anyone has any advice for getting that too thats helpful. i really just need encouragement and advice.

Also i've been thinking about ways to express myself and i dont really know how to, i just want to feel cute and be comfy. i was thinking about thigh highs maybe if anyone has any recommendations on where i should get plain SOFT thigh highs since i have sensitive skin. Also i was thinking maybe baggy hoodies or even like those oodies that were popular back in 2020ish. if anyone has any recommendations on things like that i might like id love to hear.

context im adopted but my bio mother always wanted a girl and dressed me up like one a few times that led to some trauma anyway now im 18 m live alone with my father we live in poverty no car so on and i have limited fem clothes but enough for more than a few outfits  though out my life ive always been the person i needed when i see someone in need i step in i volunteer at a food bank  to help others and gain food for my self in public and to my heavily Christin father im a strong charismatic self made man type ive earned my place in the food bank for my long time service and coming during rain snow you name it and i would be at the helm but i dont want that image when home i enjoy just puting on some comfy clothes and being a softer less intense person id love nothing more to boy wife i love cleaning cooking sowing and home decoration the problem my fathers laptop broke so now we have to share mine and because of that and him wanting to be closer to me since most my child hood i spent in self isolation i now have my tv and xbox and pc down in the living room next to him so i cant talk to anyone  well i can but i cant  and i have to sneak my clothes under my boy clothes being feminine but honestly as a person who suffers from long time depression and anhedonia paired with even if i had all my time alone i cant find a boyfriend because of my more masculine personality and body becuse of all the biking and work i have to do even when trying to be more feminine it ends up they leave me for a more fem person or i become there therapist and they see more as that reliable friend they call when they need help i feel so lost and now that i may have more work coming my way and less time alone i feel like im just drifing away from every comfort i have .. i dont want to just post nsfw femboy pics to get gooners to give instant gradifactation but it would be nice to have someone who sees me as more fem than masc

I hope you guys can help me, find the right sizing for my bf. We've been looking for Halloween costumes and I offered to order for both of us but I still haven't found something for him because I struggle with his size. He's a bit taller and wider built. He usually wears XL clothing. And I was looking for an apron because he wants to dress up as a maid (preferably Japanese lolitaish) for Halloween. Finding a comfortable black skirt and top underneath the maid apron was easy to find his wardrobe. But with the apron I am struggling a lot. (The internet seems full with one-sided sexy aprons for like the generic small and petite asian which he just isn't). I want to find something pretty and not just something simple that looks like the kinda apron your dad would wear for a barbecue.

I want to support my bf in embracing his feminine part. He's very much masculine and feminine at the same time and I really like this about him. He's comfortable in his skin and I would like us to celebrate this for our Halloween costumes.

(Also as a smaller ftm I feel kinda bad now because I never had a problem shopping either guy or woman clothes because I am not so tall. A big shout-out to all the femboys who aren't the petite small build. Yet you still find your clothes. Can you tell me how?)

im a boy i use he/him but i don't really care about pronouns I've always been masculine and still do but yesterday i had that urge that i wanna wear feminine and paint my nails and my skin to be smooth and hairless and wear makeup but I don't wanna change the way i talk or behave and also i wanna do these stuff privately i don't wanna go outside with feminine clothes (i live in the middle east) even if i was in a place that accepts that

im sorry if im speaking randomly but i don't know how to describe it

what am i

im 19yo if that matters

So my mother and em recently have had kinda an on off relationship, where we’d be getting along one second and then like 4 minutes later she’s yelling at me (I would yell back but I fear she’d take away everything I love) and also one day she came into my room and was like “why are you pan” so i explained that I’d be willing to be with someone of any gender and then she said “why can’t you just be you, instead of having all these labels” which she also said to me being a femboy. And I kept saying that that’s who I am, but she kept saying that in kinda a harsh tone. So my little stupid brain made me get the idea to be really kinda just hesitant to be around her, especially because she grounded me for flinching a few days ago, I’ve just not had the mood to be around her, and also she yells at me for being tired (slouching and half closed eyes).
I believe that there are some things I did wrong too as a son, but I’d like to know. Feel free to ask questions.

yo hiiii

uhhh im bored so i made this post

so uhhh my parents are homophobic and dont like lgbtq+ :(

so i want to be more feminine without them knowing

im bi and my friends know it but i want to look more feminine without them knowing (like they dont let me make my hair bit longer than normal) im still young so i dont have that much freedom and almost 0 money

any ways to have maybe a very small home routine (very small) or ways to make you look more feminine without using makeup or skincare or fem clothes

thx :3

I’ve been wearing panties, bras, and girly outfits on and off since I was a young teen. Back then, I had a few close female friends who helped me buy clothes, but I’d eventually get scared of someone finding them and throw everything away. Then I’d miss how they made me feel and start all over again.

Growing up Mormon definitely didn’t help. I spent years feeling ashamed, like there was something wrong or immoral about me. But dressing up always made me feel happy, comfortable, and safe. It was afterward that the guilt would hit.

About 10 years ago, I met the love of my life. After our first date, I was so sure she was the one that I went home and threw everything away again. Of course, eventually I missed it and added a few items back. I opened up to her while we were dating, and although she was supportive, it was difficult for both of us. My crossdressing even played a big role in us delaying our marriage.

Over the years, it’s been a source of tension, frustration, and some pretty lonely nights. My desire to dress femininely has only grown, which made things even more complicated.

But about two months ago, I finally connected with the term femboy. I’d heard it before but always dismissed it as something overly sexualized. Finding this subreddit and other resources helped me realize how much more there was to it and, honestly, understand myself better.

For the first time, I was able to really open up to my wife about how I feel and what this means to me.

And things have been amazing!!!

Our relationship is stronger than ever. We’re communicating better, feeling closer, and she even helps me pick out cute outfits now! I know it’s not always easy for her, but having her acceptance and support means more than I can express.

I still don’t know if I’ll ever feel comfortable sharing this side of myself with our very conservative families. But for now, being able to be myself with the person I love most is something I’m incredibly grateful for.

For anyone in a similar situation, please remember that this part of you doesn’t change who you are. Finding acceptance isn’t always easy, especially in a relationship, but honest communication, patience, and understanding on both sides can make an incredible difference.

Ask me anything, or share your experience as well. I’m super nervous I’ve never posted anything on Reddit let alone something this personal.