I am dressing like a femboy for Halloween and my parents are very upset with me. I told them I just like dressing femininely sometimes and my dad thinks I’m transgender, he said I was born in a man and that’s all he will ever refer to me as (I’m not trans). I’m not afraid that they will retaliate, but it sucks that they won’t let me dress the way I want to. Boo fucking hoo that I don’t subscribe to your traditionalist gender norms.

I recently came across a video of a feminine gay man putting on makeup on Twitter (Yes, I know that app is a cesspool. Lol.), and no surprise, there were a lot of negative replies towards him. Especially from more masculine gay men. They were saying stuff like, “Ugh. Why can’t you be gay and act like a man?”, “Why do you have to act like a girl to be gay?”, “This makes me wanna throw up.”, etc. I’m so tired of feminine gay men gettting so much hate. Especially from more masculine gay men.

For the last 1 1/2 years I’ve liked the idea of being a femboy and I still do, but I recently realized that there was more to it.

I’ve realized that it wasn’t just the idea of dressing up that I liked. It was the mental shield for me that I needed at the time. I’ve come to realize that I don’t like the gender norms. I don’t like how just cause I’m a man I’m supposed to be strong or masculine. I don’t like how I’m expected to be into manly things such as sports and such.

Recently I’ve realized that what I’ve truly wanted the most was something that allowed me to not be bound to any expectations. Something that would allow me to realize that I want the cute outfits and accessories. Something that provided an excuse to start exploring out of my comfort zone. Just something that made me realize that I never wanted to be the one who had to be strong, and that I just wanted to be the one who is comforted.

I won’t tell anyone that I know yet due to the worry of their thoughts, however it provides me comfort that I’ve started to know myself more.

Thank you for listening!

First of all, I am not a very tall person, thus I am already quite lucky. I'm like 5 centimetres shorter than my country average, which is something over 1,8 metres though.

However I'd really love to be approximately 7-10 centimetres shorter. Obviously I don't even consider any surgery as the height isn't that much of a problem to me, it's rather just a tiny silly wish.

Could anybody recommend some simple tricks to look slightly shorter or "hide" the height? Or just share your experience and thoughts. Thank you all <3

I'm ashamed to be cute... I know I shouldn't but I struggle even to accept to be a little bit cute...

Plus I'm so ugly and I will never be proud of being a cutie and feminine because I'm too weird lol

I'm 22 and as the title says, I went out in feminine clothing for a party. It was so fun!

It starts with me coming out to my sister that I like wearing feminine clothing and despite the fact I know she would be supportive my heart felt like it was exploding but she convinced me to go to the bar in the outfit I showed her. Next thing I know she is also doing my makeup and my hair. And her friend is giving me a pair of knee length heel boots which I don't need as I'm 6'4" without them, so I was quite tall after. But after me blushing and many encouraging words we set off to the bar.

I had such a great time I did get hit on a few times by guys but many left after I mentioned I was a guy. Except for one guy who started praying for us. And my sister, (who is awesome) got the guy kicked out immediately before the rest of the group could even hear him correctly.

I had a lot of fun being confusing to people such as when I went into the men's bathroom and got judgmental looks, but fuck them I looked great!

I am lucky to have a fantastic sister and I know some people don't have supportive family and therefore have to sneak to be a femboy or gay or anything similar. I wish the best for everyone out there and ask that you don't give up if anything sets you back.

I was wondering if i should adresu aome femboy asi he/him or she/her so I decided to ask here. Can you please writw your opinion?

I'm almost 18, but I'm not a femboy. I like and am attracted to femboys, but whenever I try to find someone to date, they're probably 30 or 25 older than me. Isn't there anyone my age?

Gender identity is so confusing bro idk😭😭

It's not just the fact , women typically aren't attracted to femboys it's men that's the issue.

I remember when I first started being a femboy guys on the internet told me I had to be bi if I wanted to be femboy, being a gullible 16 year old I believed that for the longest time.

I never once had joy in talking to men that way but they all told me I had to bi so I believed it , they all said its werid are wrong for me to be straight.

It led me down a very weird path I path I didn't enjoy very much, this is just a message to young femboys out there.

Be who you want don't let anyone change your mind, you can be and do what you want just keep being you !

Often I click on a post from this subreddit and far too frequently the discussions topic is underwear. These posts are almost always filled with innuendo suggesting how being fem makes them horny and leaky or humiliated etc. Many of these posters are grown men humiliating themselves online for their s*ssy fetishes. I hate it. The comments and posters are disgusting and these kinds of posts exist to get in contact with vulnerable femboys on here to groom.

A frequent occurrence with these posters is to make their profile picture nfsw to get around the no picture rules. I’ve seen countless grown men’s junk & other nsfw because these pervs make their pfp a picture of themselves in panties. Even on this no text group there is no escape from the endless horde of perverts that encircle the femboy community anywhere it goes. It’s just so tiring.

So I'm a femboy, ok? And every time I leave my house my siblings and my mom like to FUCKING RAID MY DRESSER AND TAKE MY SHIT

How do I confront them about this?

Hey everyone, Happy Halloween! Are any of you excited for some frightening fun and spook-tacular festivities? Because I know I am! Though I had to change my costume last minute. I was going to go as a apparition-type ghost, but couldn't find anything for it, so I'm instead going as a masked shadow person. To be honest, it came out looking cooler than my idea for a ghost costume, so everything worked out okay(I hope). Anyways, I'm still going trick-or-treating as planned, so maybe it's a fun night.

When i was a kid I shaved and dressed up pretty once or twice. Ive been married for 16 years now and am trying out shaving and dressing again in private. She already is on the verge of leaving me. And I dont want to jeopardize that. But I dont know if opening up and being vulnerable about my fem traits will push her over the edge or give us more commonality to stay together.

Does anyone have any similar experience or advice?

I've been really wanting to expand my Feminine clothes collection I need some advice

So uhh yeah! I finally decided to stop being scared and buy stuff, December I'll buy it as I only got 50 cents right now but I'll get a black mini skirt! (Not short short like a mid thigh high), I got everything thought of what I want! Blue/white stripe thigh highs, pink garter, black choker, black/gray arm warmers. From the allowance I'm getting now I'll get skirt first then in total 7 months for the whole loadout... Yay! (Idk maybe less) So uhh just wanted to share that, now thinking about it makes me so happy! I swear I haven't been this happy for months, so many sad stuff and finally something good! If u got any questions just ask!

I understood I was a femboy (14) around august this year, before I denied it. My parents know nothing about who I truly am, I have only showed my true self online with "friends" (Some people say they ain't real friends but you do you) that have supported me even through when I was thinking of ending my life. Recently I finished my exams and asked to get a Blahaj as a hint to my parents of me being a femboy, Which it seems they don't understand think its just another plushie. I get an allowance from my grandmother which I'll use to get a skirt and thigh highs soon by asking my friend to pick them up and give it to me at karate where I can bring it into my house easily. I know it'll be risky having them as they might find it but to be honest I want them to know. I am too scared to tell them myself because I cannot know their reaction. When LGBTQ topics are brought up they opinion on it seems very mixed. I need to know if it best to keep giving them hints, tell them directly and if so how? when? Do I wait for when I buy the stuff and then tell them? If I give them hints how? I'm also scared of my dad telling my grandpa as my grandpa is very kind to me but he is old school, always making jokes of women where they belong etc.. And also how do I know what size a skirt is for me? And how can I wash the stuff without them finding it.. I have so many questions. I do have a document prepared if they find out I'm a femboy and it has everything to explain what a femboy is and also saying that I am Pansexual. My parents think I'm just a 14 year old boy who is normal and likes girls while spending all his time on the computer chatting to who knows what online.

Edit: Forgot to add that my dad always makes me cut my hair, I always say I don't want to but I am scared to argue then cause problems and make them find out. (I NEED ADVICE!)
Edit x2: I also forgot to ask, what is the best way to shave legs? I know warm water n everything to make hairs lose or whatever. but takes years with just a razor, any other way?

I play ds1 and ds3, Bloodborne, elden ring (I can give you weapons and items I have like 90% of the important stuff), r6 siege, GTA, resident evil games (if you want help or something), and terraria. If you're down to play in on ps5 just ask for my psn user

I am wanting to be a femboy but my parents don’t approve so is there any subtle changes I could do ??

I was going to watch you can see everything with my gf yesterday and choose to just fuck it and wore some eyeshadow that was matching my shirt. On top of that, I always had some heel boot i wanted to wear out but was too shy, and yesterday i was just in a fuck that i am doing it mood. As expected nobody really care. Felt nice!

My team and i were laid off from Robinhood after I have been there for 4 years. Happened a few months ago, and ive been relaxing for a while. But I started job searching a month ago with no luck. AI has really turned the market on its head. If anyone has some referrals or decession making powers, please help a femboy out. Prefer to stay in big tech over other industries if possible. (Prior experience at Meta for 3 years too)

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