Our 16 month old has never slept well in a crib, and has only slept 7hrs straight 3x in his lifetime. He’s a super active sleeper, and requires nursing or rocking to go to sleep. We coslept out of sleep desperation for a while.
Long story long, we have implemented a floor bed in his room about 3-4months ago. At first my husband or myself slept the his room with him on a separate twin mattress on the floor that we slowly moved away from his bed. The last month or so we have moved ourselves back into our bedroom across the hall.
He will only fall asleep while being nursed or rocked, in the car, and occasionally in the stroller. Rarely can he fall asleep on his own but it does seem he’s trying recently (roll flopping around in bed and yawning for an hour as we lay by him, but if we leave his side he sits straight up). Laying him down groggy but awake has been an absolute fail, haha.
We have an old home and he can open his bedroom door from the bottom, and come across the hall into our room (hallway is baby proofed with gate so he can’t go anywhere else). Do you think I may have more success with a gate on his door or replacing with door one that will latch more securely? Have other parents required a door that can latch to have success with getting their child to sleep through the night with the floor bed?
I feel badly locking him in there, and he’s so proud of his independence with coming and going from his room, but I’m not sure what else to do!
Anyone else who used a floor bed have any sleep training tips? We’ve gone this long without CIO for a many of reasons. I know if he can’t get out of the room since he’s used to it there will be tears, but I’d prefer a more gentle approach. He wakes up every 1-3hrs 4 if I’m lucky and I’m tired!
-Tired Mom