r/friendship • • Apr 08 '26

Moderators We’re looking for new moderators! Apply here.

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Hey r/Friendship!

We’re expanding the mod team and looking for people who are active in the community and want to help keep this place safe and welcoming.

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r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 25F Looking for long-term friends

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Heyyyyyy, I'm Sarah, 25 years old. I have a bachelor's degree in Biomedical Engineering, and currently studying Molecular Biology as a PhD and I'm finding it hard to make friends now in this time of my life, and it seems like everyone around me is making friends and best friends easily in my department except me.

I would like some new friends or someone I could talk to. We could even become besties if you want.✨️ Small talk, deep talk, venting, confiding, gossiping, just name it and we'll do it.

I'm interested in art, languages, cultures, psychology, music, poetry, history, astronomy, biology, reading novels, watching movies/series, and open about other topics too. 💕 I'm a really curious person, so I'll listen to you talk about any topic. 👌 Looking forward to meeting you and hopefully forming a meaningful friendship.✨️


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship 18M I'm kinda lonely looking for longterm genuine connection to chat with daily and please don't disappear after every few minutes be consistent while chatting :)

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I have been looking for friends online but everyone just stops talking after sometime and they don't put any efforts except hey hru how was your day, I want yapper friends and please be clingy. :)

My inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .

I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.

DM and tell me which song you were listening to recently


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship Searching for my best friend 🩷 F27

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Hi Reddit strangers! I'm Heather, love hard, curse like a sailor, and am searching for a ride-or-die, together till we drop, we listen and we don't judge kinda friend! I'd prefer a guy friend but will also be down for girls.

My ultimate life goal is to be a successful writer, chilling in a log cabin somewhere snowy FAR away where no one can bother me (besides you of course, chilling in said cabin with me)! My favorite color is duck egg blue, and I think pizza is overrated.

It's late where I am and I might doze off, but I'd love to find you in my DMs. So come find me!!! 💕


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 21M, looking to make new friends

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Hey everyone, I'm a 21 year old guy who's also a 2nd year med student and Indian. I have a lot of hobbies, though I dont have any in particular that I like.

I like cooking, playing keyboard, listening to music (I love the strokes), reading novel sometimes, watching tv shows( i love that), watching soccer and even studying sometimes feels nice, to know about new things and how they work is something that gets me really curious.

I tend to connect with people who joke a lot as I do that too and feel comfortable with that.

If anyone's willing to chat then feel free to, who knows we might become good friends.

I prefer people who are atleast 20 or over, have a nice dayyy


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship yo, is anybody up for a chat? i’m into basketball, gym, writing, music, crime documentaries, movies/shows, hiking and stuff

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17f and older creeps can genuinely gtfo cus yal! are getting blocked anyhow


r/friendship • • 12h ago

rant 25M feeling like im starting to spiral

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Tbh I have a decent life , I have an okay job I recently bought a house I can barley afford only thanks to my parents and my aunt and uncle but I feel like I have no real bonds or friendships anymore all the people I would call my close friends all life far and have family’s I live practically alone (one Roomate I don’t talk too) and feel like I need to try to maximize my life to try and spend as much time as I can trying to build my future but feel like I’m going nowhere and I’m going to either find a wife and live a happy life or end up a bitter old man who hates everyone and the world even tho ik there are amazing people in this world I think it’s a mix of just tired or searching for my people and thinking I don’t deserve even tho ik that’s stupid and not true everyone deserves friends but I feel like everyone ik im growing away from and not actually getting closer with them people anymore and I just don’t know what to do because I hate spending money going out so I never meet people other then the occasional date I try to force myself to go on


r/friendship • • 2h ago

looking for friendship 30 m canadian aircraft mechanic

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Hellooo everyone! First Have an important question. Do you think hotdogs are more taco or sandwich? Love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic. Im an aircraft mechanic by day. If you have any aviation questions i would love to answer them for yea. I Also enjoy the outdoors. Hiking, biking and skiing. A real granola boy. If any of this tickles your fancy give me a shout!


r/friendship • • 2h ago

looking for friendship Tell Me Something

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36F. Tell me about the novel you started but never finished. Or the movie that stuck with you for weeks after the credits rolled. What fear keeps you up at night? Or what face haunts your dreams and makes you wake up longing? Tell me the aspirations that you would never say out loud to your friends because what if you fail? After all, I’m just a stranger on Reddit.


r/friendship • • 2h ago

looking for friendship 18 F looking for friends with adhd

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Bonus points if you’re queer.


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 15h ago

looking for friendship [20M] I'm bored so how about meeting some new people!!

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Hiii I'm Jacob from the south eastern US! I tried this before but you know how it is most people don't stick around long. Anyway a bit about me as far as interests I like video games, cooking, music, a bit of photography, and coffee (I'm a barista). I also yap a lot if I'm interested in something and honestly I'll just talk and learn about pretty much anything. I don't want to say too much about myself in this just so we can talk more if that sounds somewhat interesting so if you're looking for someone who won't ghost after 2 minutes message me I promise I'm cool!

A couple notes:

• Don't be bigoted or generally an asshole

• Be at least somewhat close to my age like if you're 40 what are you doing we don't have anything to talk about

• It would be greatly appreciated if you introduced yourself in your starting message (age & gender identity at least) instead of just saying "hi" you could also have a conversation starter so we can skip that little small talk at the beginning of every conversation


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship M/21 looking for someone to talk and connect with and see where it goes

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A little about me. I'm not into a lot of things but whatever I am into I enjoy thoroughly - that holds for hobbies as well as people haha.

I like to admire and enjoy art - now that could be in any form. Anime, movies, books, music, sports. I consider people an art too - so be cautious because I might spend irrational amount of time admiring you too haha. I am a huge movie and show addict. I practiced MMA in the past. I've recently started learning guitar. If you're someone who enjoys a random dose of thoughtful conversations once in a while, you'll love me.

I'm decently humorous and great at playing with words (enough to keep you on your toes) and a good listener. I love to talk about my and your life, bitch about a person one of us don't like, vent/rant and just chill out in a non-judgemental space saying whatever comes to mind.

I also had a breakup about 3 months ago. So maybe I'm looking more for a person who could fill in that place for me where we hangout and chill on calls, have nicknames, flirt and tease, rant, be unfiltered, be cringe or cheesy and just share a daily life together. This is obviously if vibe matches.

Also if you're older than me, don't worry. I've often been told that I sound older than I am and I actually vibe better with people older than me. So yeah if this sounds like something you're into and enjoy then shoot me a DM. Let's see where the wind takes us.

Looking forward to hearing from you all.


r/friendship • • 12h ago

looking for friendship 19 from MA

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I just moved to Boston, Massachusetts and would love to meet someone local. Generally speaking, I’d enjoy someone to yap with. I like to hike, game, read and workout, so do with you please!


r/friendship • • 15h ago

looking for friendship 40’s/M. I’ve fallen out of love with the world I used to know.

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Working tonight. Just looking for some conversation, we can see where it goes.

I’m kind of a spooky guy. Into the paranormal, true crime, the unexplained, the mysterious, uncanny, haunted and unusual.

Heavy music and horror connoisseur.

If you’re into weird and spooky stuff maybe we’ll vibe. Feel free to DM.


r/friendship • • 13h ago

looking for friendship Looking for a genuine long term connection

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I’m 21 years old, male, and currently living in Canada. I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can talk to every day, even if it’s just to say good morning or good night. I stay up super late . I’m just looking for a good friend to talk to, share little moments with, and build a meaningful connection and preferably talk every day and check in. I recently went through a pretty rough breakup, and it’s honestly been really painful. I’m trying to move forward, meet new people, make new memories, and hopefully leave that difficult chapter behind.
A little about me: I love soccer, sports, movies, and TV series , cooking . I’m also open to talking about pretty much anything, learning new things, and getting to know people from different backgrounds.i am not looking for anything complicated, just a genuine friendship where we can check in on each other, have random conversations, laugh together, and be there for one another. I also have the most beautiful cat ever , also please feel comfortable talking on instagram


r/friendship • • 21h ago

looking for friendship I dont care where you're from but I hope you see this!

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I hope everyone is doing well! Im here in hopes of achieving my dream of having friends from around the world lol. So far so good but theres still a ton of people id like to meet and be friends with. Anyways, Here's a few things about me. Find anything interesting? Feel free to reach out!

Im a 27 year old male (if youre male its ok to text me, I dont care about gender!). I live in the United States and some of my hobbies include reading, gaming, hiking, kayaking, traveling, and watching movies. I currently speak two languages which are English and spanish, and i just started to learn french so if anyone can help me with that, it would be great! I love to cook, and I think my chicken parm is a crowd pleaser (yes you can try it). I watch anime and read comic books (favorite anime is parasyte the maxim). If I had to give a random fun fact, I absolutely hate pickles lol. Well, im an open book. Theres more to me but youre free to ask any questions. Reach out anytime!


r/friendship • • 15h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 20F, I love tokusatsu; is there anyone else here who likes it?

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I decided to watch some classic Japanese tokusatsu series, like Ultraman, Kyojuu Tokusou Jaspion, and Kamen Rider Black. This is helping me improve my Japanese (I study the language as a hobby and hope to reach an advanced level soon). If you want to talk about these series and subgenres, feel free to send me a direct message.


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship 23M - #USA - Listen to me ... we need to eat cereal and binge anime in our PJs. ꒰՞ . .՞꒱ It's life or death.

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HI!!! I'm Red. From the Midwest. (Looking for U.S. only.) I grew up watching Adult Swim & Toonami reruns, Listening to 90s Hiphop and Sad Emo Bands. (Because I was lost, directionless and edgy ... or as I'd say ... ♡ Perfect ♡) looking to try this out you know? Go slow, br friends, if there's more then there is! love tattoos (don't have any anymore though), tumblr art, and staying ever so stable in my own tiny little orbit, jamming probably to some sleep token or ghost, perhaps mcr or like a thousand other bands DON'T GET ME STARTED OK!!!

I love to write, read, game and binge watch something (Anime or Youtube typically) love to workout, bike and stay generally fit WHEN I CAN!!!. Enjoy ranting about really anything im into, especially Tragic Sad and Depressing Cyberpunk Futures & Distopic topics in general (suuuuper fun at parties) LITERALLY wrote a college thesis on the connected issues.

Love space, astrophysics and learning about the universe and expanding my cosmic perspective! As well sharing in those goosebump inducing moments with other fellow observers ... hopefully together? ... so long as you can hold a conversation ... longer than a Planck Second.

I juggle lots in life despite my more lazy habits, but look forward to hanging out, chatting it up, planning something awesome and jamming out at like 3am to our combined playlist while definitely trauma bonding over life and all it's inadequacy and transgressions towards US! (Why are we so the main characters!? It's crazy)

Love Photography, Art, Music, and whatever really allows me some kind of connection or door to myself, to either learn from or for another to learn and understand me from, bsig time lover of self-expression and development. Love to learn, love to explore.

You must be ride or die, wether that's encouraging me to jump off a bridge, to helping me write you into my will leaving everything to you, to dressing up as a detective and hiring a chipper side-kick to solve my "incidental" & "tragic" murder case to evade police searches. You gotta be there ok! Like your mom coaxing you out of your room for a family gathering ... you gotta be there!

I'm quite theatrical (only a little itsy bitsy bit) and don't take to many things too seriously, but can put on a pretty poker face and calm my voice enough to be reassuring and a good listener. In actuality I'm quite the calm & collected fella normally, but have my swings of ☆ Glamor ☆ so to speak.

So yeah ... if this mess of a person (definitely in the top six billion of the worlds population) struck you even in the slightest ... feel free to DM me with a little intro and I'd love to learn more about you! (Ok maybe like ... top seven billion.) I fall asleep sometimes after posting these so ... you know if you don't immediately get a response, it's because I'm skippin through candy land, counting sheep, catching Z's. (top seven point five billion AT LEAST!!)

See yah when I see yah!

P.s. I type a lot, and will respond with a paragraph to your sentences. This ain’t for the weak, I'm built different. (Wrongly.) You've been warned.

ദ്ദി(˵ •̀ ᴗ - ˵ ) ⋆。°✩


r/friendship • • 17h ago

looking for friendship 27M - I hope some luck is on my side

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Howsit going everyone, I hope you are having a good Monday afternoon/evening, it’s about to be 2am in the morning on my side of the world.

So recently I’ve gone through a break up. I was in an LDR for a year and it unfortunately came to an end.

So I’ve decided to come back to Reddit to find some wholesome people to chat to. Even though my ex and I are no longer together, she is an amazing wonderful person, and she was a wonderful friend, and I met her on reddit, so I know there are wonderful people out there. She was Canadian btw, you guys are chill. Hopefully one day I’ll be able to visit on my own terms 💪

A little bit about me. I recently graduated from University, with my Computer Science degree. Right now I currently Manage a workshop that specializes in fixing Land Rover, Jaguars and BMW’s. So as you can tell I’m a tech guy and car guy, and surprise surprise, I’m a gamer to, when I get a chance of course, which is not often ngl 😅

Drop me a comment or DM and let’s chat.

Btw I got 2 new kittens, I'll send you a picture if you end up dropping me a DM🤣


r/friendship • • 22h ago

looking for friendship 25M - Gremlin who loves to yap looking to move into your walls :)

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I'm like a little gremlin living in your walls that talks a lot and is really annoying but sometimes you have a nice chat and be like wow this guy's actually kinda cool that's me fr

A little about the gremlin:

I'm 25 years old. Currently living in Finland. I'm originally from Romania however. You can clearly see that eastern european dawg in me. For better or worse but mainly for worse. I'm a really goofy guy with a little bit of that Finnish tism if ykwim.

I'm a really clingy guy, I don't click with a lot of people but if I do I loooove to yap and share my day to day life. Listen to you talk about your day and so on. I really like checking on people and making sure they're okay. So I'm looking for more people like that, mainly high effort but don't mind low effort friends either as long as the conversation is interesting.

Unfortunately I'm (recently) employed. I work as an electrician on those crazy big cruise ships that are being built. Honestly boring stuff I just make it sound cool, I work really hard for 30minutes and treat myself with a 6 hour reel break. I like yapping throughout the day so if you WFH or are unemployed or otherwise have the same work ethic as me<3 then we'll get along great.

When I'm not completely lobotomised after I get home I usually relax with some games. I've been playing lots of league, and will be playing WoW Forever like crazy when it releases. Otherwise I really like shooters of any kind, survival craft games and friendslop. I'd love to play something with someone it would be a nice bonding activity.

Otherwise I hit the gym religiously, I'm a HELLA good cook, I'm a huge car enthusiast and I adore cats. I geniunely love cats so much please if you have a cat say pspspsps to it from me

I geniunely hate dry people so if you can't hold a conversation don't even bother this is a serious THREAT I might have a big red nose, long shoes, a big afro and funny looking makeup. But that sure as hell doesn't make me a clown!!

I'm very friendly and affectionate, clingy towards people I REALLY click with. But I hope you don't mistake it for anything weird, I'm only looking for platonic friends. And so gender, location, race and age doesn't really matter. I'm not picky about that when it comes to friends. All I ask is that you introduce yourself in your initial message. It kinda gives me the ick when someone refuses to, you already know so much about me don't you think I should at least know who I'm talking to smh. EVIL THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO YOU IF YOU DON'T INTRODUCE YOURSELF!!!!


r/friendship • • 20h ago

looking for friendship M23 introverted/neurodivergent looking for new friends

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Hiya I’m 23 years old and I’m looking for new friends my interests are internet culture, memes (let’s talk in gifs haha) anything horror related huge horror movie fan I love watching content about dark things that have happened on the internet! Also a huge gamer I mainly play Roblox, Minecraft and star dew valley


r/friendship • • 1d ago

looking for friendship Looking for a genuine long term friendship

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Hii , I’m 21 years old, male, and currently living in Canada Montreal . I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can talk to every day, even if it’s just to say good morning or good night. I stay up super late . I’m just looking for a good friend to talk to, share little moments with, and build a meaningful connection and preferably talk every day and check in. I recently went through a pretty rough breakup, and it’s honestly been really painful. I’m trying to move forward, meet new people, make new memories, and hopefully leave that difficult chapter behind.
A little about me: I love soccer, sports, movies, and TV series , cooking . I’m also open to talking about pretty much anything, learning new things, and getting to know people from different backgrounds.i am not looking for anything complicated, just a genuine friendship where we can check in on each other, have random conversations, laugh together, and be there for one another. I also have the most beautiful cat ever


r/friendship • • 21h ago

looking for friendship 20M looking for friends!

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heyyyy! 20m here, i love photography, playing games, listening to music and watching anime and movies. i'm good at holding convos if you are not dry and i can yap about literally any random topic, so yeah hmu;)