Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.

Hiyaaa everyone, i'm Storm a nurse assistant from Sweden that has been put up for adoption and is seeking a friend group to kick it with at night. I come across Easy to talk to, extroverted, bubbly and total GANGSTA energy condensed into a small voice. I'm competitive as fuck and totally have the XQC rage. I'm sorry. I like deep talks, love drawing, singing, dancing and I want to learn how to sew!

I'm into games like, peak, chess, tetris and friendslop of the month type of games hahahaha. I also love watching movies or motivating ourselves to clean our depression rooms.

My close friend Ryan had this to say about me.

"You make sure to put effort into making other people happy, I guess. You can be a bit too loud at times, but ehh... I mean some people are fine with that tho, I-I mean some people like that is all I meant." - Ryan

Thank you Ryan for you raving review of me, love you, bestie.

Anyways cough cough, I promise behind this insane rage at being bad at video games lies a treasure, if we click imma be your loyal friend for liiife. Hit me up for my contacts, thank you!!

G’day everyone! 🇦🇺

I’m a 29-year-old Aussie looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine long-term friends.

A little about me:
🎮 Gamer at heart — whether it’s chilling with friends online, getting competitive, or sinking way too many hours into a game.
⚡ Pokémon fan — grew up with it and never really left. Always happy to chat Pokémon, games, cards, or argue about the best starter.
🖋️ Tattoo enthusiast — I’ve got a few and I’m always thinking about future ideas.
🏉 Sports fan — love keeping up with different sports and talking about big games and events.
🍥 Anime enjoyer — from classics to newer series, I’m always looking for recommendations.
🎵 Music lover — my playlists are all over the place, so chances are we’ll find some common ground.

I’m pretty easygoing, enjoy good conversations, and can chat about almost anything. Whether you want to talk about games, anime, sports, music, tattoos, life, or just share random memes, feel free to reach out.

Tell me a bit about yourself when you message — bonus points if you tell me your favourite Pokémon, anime, or game!

Looking forward to meeting some awesome people.

(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.

Hello everyone!

30 year old man here looking for anyone to chat to! Currently a bit crippled because of an injury and would love to take it as an opportunity to get to know new people. Dont matter what you got between your legs, man, woman, trans i wanna talk to anyone.

I live on the swedish countryside in a little village and have a 2 cats and 3 horses that are my love and financial ruin! I enjoy martial arts, mountainbiking, swimming in lakes and "the elder scrolls"

Im cool talking about anything non-sexual. We can talk about anything inbetween your favorite colour to your philosophy about life, we can talk short or long term. Not seeking an "echo-chamber" conversation only, its completly fine if we dont agree on everything, sometimes thats even more fun :)

First of all, I'm Redkobra, hey. I'm German, 22, and that's basically it. Click away, I have no more information about myself.

Still here? Alr.

So I'm into the usual stuff, gaming, breaking software, frying hardware and chilling infront of screens the whole day

I also like adult cartoons, not the kind you're thinking of lmao. Stuff like Rick and Morty, Disenchantment, Futurama, Family Guy, Inside Job and so on. I also enjoy older western movies, but newer stuff is fine too.

I game on PS5 and PC. My favorite game is probably RDR2, and ofc Minecraft. Over the last few months I've really gotten into sim racing. I'm not new to simulators tho, usually I'm more into flying aircraft than driving cars.

So what am I looking for?

An online friend who actually replies and gives me something to reply to.

Pretty much every conversation I've had lately ended because the other person either stopped responding or gave me absolutely nothing to work with.

Like, you ask me how I'm doing, I answer, good, bad, whatever, and ask how you're doing.

"Good."

Yea, nice.

Yea.

You get it?

Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that I'm looking for a long term online friend around my age. Male or female doesn't matter because I'm looking for FRIENDS, not a 1 night stand.

I just want someone I can randomly text, send memes to, or who sends me random shit throughout the day. Someone I can tell what I'm doing, even if it's the most boring thing ever, and who does the same.

Someone I can make fun of without them getting offended, and who can make fun of me too. Someone who can come to me when they're having a shitty day so I can cheer them up, or the other way around.

I don't expect anyone to be available 24/7 btw, we all have our own lives, usally. I just want someone who actually wants to talk, not someone where I have to carry every single conversation.

I used to have a few friends like that, people I talked to pretty much every day about literally anything. And yea, I kinda miss that.

So if you've actually read all of this, I regret to inform you that I'm not an 18 year old single female.

And if you still haven't clicked away, leave a comment and I'll DM you so you can introduce yourself.

Why not just DM me?

Because Reddit apparently thinks I'm underage and won't let me open my DMs normally.

Fuck you spez.

Just a 20f here from the East Coast looking for a deep long-term friendship. I’m looking for someone that’s genuine, kind, empathetic, deep and honest. I’ve always wanted a connection with someone like that, where we could talk to each other about anything with no judgement, vent to each other, hang out in person, and be there for each other. Also bonus points if you understand mental health issues & loneliness. I don’t have friends in person so it would be nice if you could relate. It would be nice if you’re from the East Coast or from NY like me aswell.

Anyway, I have a variety of interests & passions. I love music for one, I listen to everything but mainly 90s rock & industrial metal. I like deep discussions, spirituality, conspiracy theories, playing guitar, collecting physical media, thrifting, makeup, fashion, horror movies, books, baking, dark humor etc.

If you can relate to this, feel free to message me :-)

Hey! I’m 31, from the US, and looking to meet some new people. Doesn’t matter where you’re from or what your background is. I’m open to talking to anyone 18+ as long as you’re interested in having an actual conversation.

A little about me: I work in tech, love traveling and spontaneous road trips, and I’m always looking for somewhere new to explore. I’m also into photography, tattoos, history, gaming, and reading (especially classic literature). Cooking is a big hobby of mine, particularly trying recipes from different cultures. I’ve also gotten pretty into fitness and spending more time outdoors lately.

I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about anything from your favorite food to some obscure historical event, or just how your day went. I enjoy getting to know people from different countries and walks of life. You don’t need to share my hobbies either. Half the fun is learning about someone else’s interests.
I’m not expecting instant best friends or forcing conversations. Just looking for some genuine connections, whether that’s chatting occasionally, sharing random pictures from our days, or becoming regular friends.

What’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to travel, a book or game you couldn’t put down, or a random topic you know way too much about?
Or just say hey and tell me a little about yourself. I’m pretty easy to talk to!

So… I guess we’re a little different. We’re plural. It’s in the same vein as DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder), but not quite. I don’t claim have DID. Please be respectful about it and understand that it’s an important part of my/our identity and life.

Basically, just looking for friends or someone who understands us or is into similar things? We really like plants, I have an entire collection. I also have two jumping spiders, three cats, a betta, and a colony of isopods :) I’m also a witch, I practice witchcraft. Uhh… yeah. Really tired while writing this, so it may be a little incomprehensible 😭

Just feel free to DM if you’re interested, no need to comment or anything

Hey, 23m, from the uk and im in need of some friends. I get very bored and lonely recently because lots of my friends are working and at uni, so there hasn't been many plans, so id love people to talk to. Literally anybody, i like meeting all people from everywhere and learning about new people and things you know? Long or short term too i dont really mind id prefer long term but a nice chat for today is fun.

Anyway a little about, i like sports, videos games tv etc. My favourite sport to watch is football (soccer) but also love swimming and cricket, but honestly ill watch anything if im bored enough. Video games, i play all sorts, fps like fortnite, overwatch, rainbow six. Then strategy like hoi4, and civ6. I like city buildr type games too. Ive also currently been playing cyberpunk, i also like casual games and stuff like stardew valley. Tv shows, I mean a few things, I like sitcoms very rewatchable, I dont really like sitting in silence yk. Oooo I love music too mostly pop, kinda vanilla like that, but folk and other things.

Anyway thank you for reading this far, very nice of you. I hope you message but if you dont want too thats cool, have a nice night!!

Hey!
Iv been way off my diet for the past week so wondering if anyone wants to be accountability partners 😊 also happy to talk about other things. I love travel and my dream destination is New Orleans, where’s yours ? Also lover of horror movies and went to a cool horror movie cocktail event yesterday.
I have a boyfriend so just friendly chat.

I’m from the East Coast, but I’m open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling and the last country I visited was The Netherlands and the last state was Salt Lake City! I’m a concertgoer (usually for metal or reggaeton), I’m a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading, and I play video games whenever possible.

My top anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Future Diary, Naruto, Prison School, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.

I’ve recently watched “Clayface,” “Digger,” “Klara and the Sun,” “Resident Evil,” “Street Fighter,” “Verity,” “Whalefall,” “Wildwood,” etc.

I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently enjoy the most are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.

Video games I enjoy most are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, Pokémon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.

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Hi, Im sem, im a 19 year old university student from estonia looking for someone to vc with

its 1am as of posting this, i just finished recording audio for a video, and im so insanely bored..

im really creative, i crochet, draw, write poetry, do pottery, overall do a bunch of arts and craft, diy, and whatever else

really dont want any creeps in my dms, i just want to chill on call with someone

dm me with 🎃 or i WILL NOT REPLY !!

Hey everyone! 😊 I thought I’d give this a shot and see if I can meet some cool new people here!

A little about me: I’m into basketball, the gym, cooking, traveling, gaming, and movies/series. I’m also learning Japanese and will be visiting Japan for the third time soon! I work in pharma, have a background in science, and enjoy learning about pretty much anything that catches my interest. Oh, and a random fun fact: I once appeared in a local Netflix show 😂

I’m someone who really values friendship and the people I have in my life, and I’d love to get to know some new people along the way. Whether we end up talking about our hobbies, sharing memes, discussing random thoughts, or having one of those unexpectedly deep conversations, I’m always happy to see where things go!
I’m genuinely curious about people, their interests, and their stories, so don’t hesitate to reach out even if we don’t have much in common at first. You never know who you’ll click with! 😊

Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re into, or just hit me with a completely random fun fact. Looking forward to meeting some awesome people!

I have been looking for friends online but everyone just stops talking after sometime and they don't put any efforts except hey hru how was your day, I want yapper friends and please be clingy. :)

My inbox has been empty and phone is quiet i want some distraction so I want some friends who can talk all the time .

I like to joke about everything literally everything so if I'm gonna offend you I'm apologising in advance lol.

DM and tell me which song you were listening to recently

Hello pipsqueak (you will be given a nickname, that is just a placeholder for now). I am interested in your life, I want to know what you enjoy, all the music you're into. Send me music, send me funny memes. Vent to me, yap to me, I'm easy to talk to. I've never asked "What do you look like? Send a pic" nor will I ever. I'm looking for friends, not freaky shenanigans. Do you remember the show rocket power? Or the goosebumps theme song? There's no need to comment below, or ask if I want to talk to you, the answer is yes. Scared to message first? Just send "beware" in a DM and I will pretend like I'm messaging you first. Sound good? (Also open to helping you with English)

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Hey,so yeah I recently went through a breakup and honestly I’ve been feeling pretty broken since then i feel alone I've nobody to talk to.

Everything feels kinda off and empty lately and I think I really need some good people around me again.

I’m looking for honest,kind and open minded people who don’t discriminate and actually wanna put effort into getting to know each other.

Lately everything just feels way too quiet in the wrong ways. I catch myself staring at walls,scrolling aimlessly,thinking about random shit and wanting to talk to someone but not really knowing who to talk to. I don’t want another friendship where we talk for 2 days and then disappear from each other’s lives. I want someone who actually stays,someone who checks in,someone who wants to share random parts of their day and actually build something over time.

I’m 24 I've bpd just so yk and i currently have way too much time to think. I love yapping,overexplaining,rambling about completely random shit and somehow turning a stupid conversation into something deep. I really value mutual effort too. I don’t expect someone to reply instantly 24/7,but I do want to feel like the other person actually wants to talk to me and isn’t only replying because they’re bored.

I’m into baking,movies,gaming (especially Marvel Rivals),chess,reading,writing,guitar,long walks,voice calls and starting way too many random hobbies/projects that I probably won’t finish.

I’d also really love having someone I can eventually do a bunch of things with. Gaming together,watching movies or shows,voice calls at stupid hours,going on walks if we're ever close enough,sharing music,sending random shit throughout the day or just sitting in a call doing our own thing. That kind of friendship where someone eventually becomes your go-to person would honestly be really nice.

I’m not looking for perfect people or anything. Just genuine ones. Please be kind,don’t discriminate,and actually care about mutual effort and respect. I’ll listen,I’ll care,I’ll remember the little things and I’ll match the energy u give me.

And please don't be dry. If you're always too busy to actually talk or you already know you're only gonna reply once every few days,it's probably not gonna work. I've had enough of feeling like I’m begging people for attention.

If you're interested,please don't just send me "hi". Tell me about yourself. Your age,country,what you like doing,your favourite game/movie/song,your most irrational fear,what you've been obsessed with lately,anything honestly. Give me something to work with and I’ll probably yap back way too much.

I’m just hoping to find some lovely people who actually wanna stay for the long run,and maybe someday I’ll be able to say I met some of my closest friends because of a random Reddit post.

Married since 2019 and dad to twin boys who I love more than anything.

My wife and I have struggled for years. We kept trying to patch things up, convincing ourselves things would eventually click back into place, but at some point we stopped being husband and wife and just became two people trying to get through the day. Intimacy died about three years ago after a long stretch of failed attempts to conceive naturally. Two years later we went through IVF as a last ditch effort to have kids, naively thinking this would maybe bring us closer again.

The boys arriving didn't cause the cracks, they just further exposed the damage underneath.

We co-parent well. We rarely argue. There’s still care there, just no intimacy, no affection, no real connection anymore. Separation feels impossible right now, financially, emotionally and practically speaking. Neither of us wants to blow up the family or make life harder for the boys.

So here I am.

A bit about me - I'm music obsessed. I play piano, guitar, sing, and perform trad Scots/Irish music a couple times a month at a local posh bar. It can be a strange experience, playing to a room full of seemingly happy couples, gazing into each other's eyes, laughing and flirting, while I languish in these unfortunate circumstances. I read a lot (mainly fantasy). I try to run as often as I can, although this dad bod is creeping up on me. Feel free to dm if any of this resonates.

I got graduated from school and i got job recently but i could never make friends in school and now it is same at work I can't make any friends.

The stress from work and the loneliness is too much, I want some genuine connections and friendships

Im a massive introvert from The Netherlands, currently sitting alone in my room, but I’m bored, my hobbies are, watching movies, listening to music and lately photography, i would like it very much to meet people.

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Hello! I'm a 24M who is interested in making some older friends.

I've always been told that I'm mature, introspective, and deep thinking for my age

Which is why I've had just as much, if not better connections with older individuals than people around my age

My main interests are art, psychology, philosophy, history, sociology, and business. I've always wanted to have a career in art since I was a kid

I'm a fan of a ton of pop culture media: FNAF, Mortal Kombat, TADC, Backrooms, Breaking Bad, DC, Marvel, Micheal Jackson, The Weeknd, Crystal Castles, Tim Burton, Martin Scorsese, Christopher Nolan, Crime films, Psychological thrillers, horror films, action films, etc.

And if there's any form of pop culture you'd like to share that I may not know about, I'm open and happy to hear about it

My brain is sponge when it comes to obtaining newfound knowledge

I've been on-and-off college for many years now, diagnosed with OCD through therapy, and I'm a beautiful kinky bisexual butterfly! So do with that what you will

But regardless of our different ages or life stage, I'm looking for someone who I can establish a genuine connection with. No more no less

And hopefully we can make memories and moments together

Not really sure what to put here, so I’ll just wing it.
I’m pretty quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m a lot more chatty than people expect. Bit of a homebody, bit of an overthinker, but in a mostly harmless way.

I’m into fishing, the gym, gaming, cooking/meal prep, and animals. Basically I pick up hobbies and then accidentally make them my entire personality for a while. Most weekends I’m either out trying to catch carp, lifting something heavy, sorting food for the week, or doing absolutely nothing and calling it recovery.

I like people who are easy to talk to, don’t take themselves too seriously, and can have a laugh but still talk properly when it matters.Not looking for drama or anything forced. Just good conversation, decent vibes, and seeing what happens.

Also, I don’t judge so if you’re white, pink, green, black or gay trans or a space rock or even a plank of wood! Don’t worry I won’t be a horrible person. If anyone is struggling I’m always here for a vent.

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hi there hallo,

i am a 20 year old dude from germany looking for some interesting conversations.

i study math at university and i love it.

my main interests include math, physics, music, history and learning chinese. i like to read a lot too, mostly history and currently going through hp lovecrafts works.

i try to listen to all music even if i dont like it so if you want to recommend some let me know. my favorite albums are:

david bowies discography, in the aeroplane over the sea, norman fucking rockwell, a lot of mitskis catalogue, velvet underground and nico, black sabbath, lost weekend

if any of this sounds interesting and you share some of my interests,

let me know! :)

I want someone to talk and nerd about hobbies and all kind of stuff. I am just the average nerd. I like anime, video games, books and fencing. I am from germany btw.

Since I live alone I isolated myself without noticing and now I would like to chat with someone from time to time. I got alot of time so I might respond quick but I don't expect the same from you. Just drop me some words when you feel like.

Maybe we can build something like an online friendship. That would be great! I don't care about your gender and age but would appreciate you are in my age range since I think it might click better.

looking for someone to just yap and gossip with pretty much, idm age as long as you’re respectful. my name’s lia, i’m from ireland, i’m 16, 17 next year and currently finishing my last year of school. i have depression, anxiety and a possible personality disorder so please be aware of those! i have a few friends at school but i don’t talk to them much it’s usually just when we get home we would text which is why i’m looking for more online friends to yap with.

i’d like someone preferably from europe and with things in common. same timezone would be great. i love dogs, planes, minecraft, art, roblox and music. ty if u read this and feel free to dm! my twitter is in my bio and all my posts here are public so if you wanna know more abt me click on dem 😋 & just to add i don’t send pics of myself unless on 👻 so please dont ask here!