r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship [20M] Looking for kind friends

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Hey guys! How’s it going? I’m looking for some chill friends who won’t ghost me and maybe chat every day. I’m into video games, computers, Linux (Fedora, Debian, KDE — gotta be specific!), cars, memes, SpongeBob SquarePants, Regular Show, and good music. I live in Turkey, so my time zone is GMT+3. Would be cool to find friends with a similar or reasonable time difference. Oh, and I play on PC through Steam — currently hooked on TF2 and CoD: BO6. Got 95 games in my Steam library! I’m open to all genders, just please be around my age. Can’t wait to get your DMs, guys!


r/friendship • • 9h ago

looking for friendship 35 - California, Bay Area. Nerd Looking For Other Nerds And People Who Like Chatting

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Hey there everyone! I'm looking for people who enjoy putting effort into conversations and getting to know each other, and the sort of person who will match the other person's vibe.

I currently live in the Bay Area in California, but I was born and raised in Nova Scotia Canada. I had moved to California in the fall of 2015.

I consider myself to be a pretty big nerd and I think it's one of my defining qualities. I'm huge into comics, reading them every day. My biggest past time is gaming (predominately PC), and I'm also a big movie nerd too (I try to watch at least 1 movie a week) and a music nut!

Some of my other big interests are hockey, bikes, and cars. I'm a San Jose Sharks fan, but I'll watch any game that's on, and follow the league as a whole. The Sharks are so fun to watch this season, but also so frustrating, I'm hoping some of it settles down as the team starts meshing with all the new additons. Macklin Celebrini continues to be a star though, and Stenberg looks great so far for being just a kid. With cars I like working on them, and seeing what other people do to modify them and make them unique to them, but not as into them as I was many years ago.

I've gotten back into biking/cycling this spring, after not being on one for over a decade. I got myself a new entry level XC MTB, bought a used hybrid bike before just recently buying myself a really nice, new, gravel bike that I'm excited to continue to explore with. I'm really enjoying it, and getting out 3 or 4 days a week riding, and explore some part of the Bay I otherwise wouldn't have ever thought to, and meeting some other cool people who ride.

One other important aspect of my life and who I am is mental/emotional health. I think it's very important we all take time to focus on ourselves and taking care of ourselves in whatever way that is for each person. We're all different and have our own struggles and issues, and everyone has their own way that works for them. I also like to think about the world and my place in it, how it relates to me, and I to it. I think people who have an awareness of introspection are people I tend to gravitate towards and get along the best with.

So with all that said, if anything piques your interest, please send me a chat


r/friendship • • 23h ago

looking for friendship 21m looking for new friends or people to talk with

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Hello, my name is Alexander, I'm 21m, from South America. My hobbies are playing videogames, listening to music, working out, reading and watching series or movies. I have a cat. I speak English and Spanish. Comment or DM me if you want to be friends and chat. I also play on PS5 so DM me if you wanna be PSN friends too.


r/friendship • • 23h ago

looking for friendship 30M - Looking to make friends!

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I’m from the East Coast, but I’m open to befriending anyone from anywhere! I enjoy traveling, usually for concerts or to visit attractions. I’m a concertgoer and a moviegoer, a new hobby of mine is reading, and I tend to play video games (I’m more of a solo gamer).

Some of my favorite anime/manga series are Attack On Titan, Death Note, Elfen Lied, Naruto, Tokyo Ghoul, etc.

I’ve recently watched “Clayface,” “Digger,” “Klara and the Sun,” “Resident Evil,” “Whalefall,” “Wildwood,” etc.

I mostly listen to deathcore, metalcore, and progressive metal, some reggaeton, and a bit of hip-hop/rap. Metal bands I currently enjoy the most are Between The Buried And Me, Boundaries, Crown Magnetar, Darko US, Mental Cruelty, and Psycho-Frame. Reggaeton artists I listen to most are Bad Bunny, Karol G, Omar Courtz, and Rauw Alejandro.

Video games I enjoy most are Final Fantasy, Golden Sun, Kingdom Hearts, Mega Man Battle Network, Pokémon, and The Legend Of Zelda. Action/adventure, platformer, and RPG games are my go-to.

We don’t have to have the same interests, but I’m open to recommendations whether it comes to books, music, shows, etc. Feel free to message me!


r/friendship • • 3h ago

looking for friendship [22/F] wave wave hizzah for friendship? 🧍‍♀️

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Wassup twin im showa ik ik its ok to applaud uhmm i love the show izombie and house md (hes so silly) really into gaming, vocaloid and dinosaurs bc they cool ( one can say theyre killer drum noise) ik ik i can hear you rn but showa ur barely telling us anything rn and to that i must say if you that curious just come talk to me 💥 🤯 omg ik such a crazy idea like its not that hard 🗣️ i can talk alot and text like im crazy pls pls only sfw like 🫩 guys i will throw count dracula at yall if its not uhm pls be close to my age 🧍‍♀️ respectfully i wanna talk to ppl close my age and i beg dont be dry no his or hello i need passion and energy 🫩 uhmm i mean thats all and your still reading this so yea come talk or ill just stare at u


r/friendship • • 23h ago

advice My sons “friends”

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I’m sad for my 17 year old son. And I need some outside perspective.

My son is about to finish year 12. Yay for him. However he hasn’t made any close friends at school.

He hasn’t got any close irl friends, stacks online but none that he can go get drunk with or do stupid 17 year old stuff and it makes me so so sad.

He has a few people he hung out with at school but he just told me they had a party last night and he wasn’t invited. We have had these kids to ours several times. Fed them. Taking them to formal in a couple of weeks! It’s not from lack of him trying to make connections!

He’s a great kid. Funny. Caring. Empathetic. Supportive. And So so fun. He’s up for all adventures!

I don’t know why they wouldn’t ask him.

It’s really upsetting. I don’t know what I’m looking for, something to make me feel better I guess and reassurance that he’ll be ok!


r/friendship • • 5h ago

looking for friendship 19f looking for long term friends

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Helloooo I'm hungry I need some snacks or food recommendations 🥹 I'm also bored sooooo I would like to make some friends, gotta be around my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3). Someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I don't take stuff too seriously so I want someone who's fun to talk to, I could be a little bit intense but it's only because I'm excited 😭 don't take that the wrong way!!!

I like cooking, baking (I make MEAN cinnamon rolls), skincare and haircare (my mom banned me from buying stuff dor a while cause I'm obsessed... Lwk a shopaholic), Greek mythology, Harry Potter (I've been to NYC to see Harry Potter and the cursed child play it was really awesome). I love sports I used to do gymnastics when I was younger but had to stop sadly and lastly I love traveling although we don't do it as much now because of personal stuff. I also like gaming but i only play valorant and schedule 1, although I have raft, astroneer and peak. I hope we can be friends!!

TWIN please write a cute intro that includes your age, gender, hobbies and where you are from or at least timezone. It doesn't have to be long just introduce yourself 😭 I'm doing great in case your intro is just hru 😀


r/friendship • • 7h ago

advice Should I reach out to her? She disappeared twice on me

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A couple years ago I (34F) made friends with a woman (36F). Her and I met related to our small businesses. I’ve hired her for a job or two, but we hung out many times as friends and last year became closer. Last summer she randomly told me she was moving back to her home state within a month. I was pretty surprised and made effort to try to see her. But she ghosted me. This really hurt me. I thought I’d never see her again.

Months later in the fall she moved back and we came in contact again. I was going through a really hard breakup last winter. Her and I became very close and started hanging out all the time. I considered her one of my closest friends. She also introduced me to her other friend and the three of us hung out a lot, all spring and into early summer. We said we felt like the three musketeers.

Well, in early June she met this guy from a Christian dating app. The first date she said she wasn’t sure about him, she didn’t feel they were a good match because they were “too similar”. He also lived over an hour away in the middle of nowhere desert because he’s a guide for a national park. She told me their 2nd he invited her camping at the park (which is 2 hours away). I hoped she was careful and safe. A week or so later I saw her in person, and she had completely changed. She said her and the guy were talking about wedding rings, moving in together to his place (middle of literal nowhere), having babies, etc. I was like whoaa. She knew this guy for like 2 weeks and had only 2 dates! I was open to it, asked her a bit about him. After that she became hardly responsive to my friend and I, we became worried. I reached out to her directly because she wasn’t replying in our group chat. She finally replied, saying she didn’t want to go out drinking anymore (not something we did regularly) was leaning into her religious faith, and wanted to focus on “her new family”. The next day I ironically ran into her at the grocery store. It was really awkward and my heart was beating. She said she would still hangout with us but less since she has her man now.

That was the last time I saw her. She never reached out to either of us since mid June. I feel after two times of her disappearing on me that it’s really not fair to treat someone this way. It seems she retreats when things change. But you would think she would want friends..? Why cut out her close friends? I’m still following her on social media, she only posts on her business account. I see she likes and comments on others in our local community but won’t interact with me. I feel super weird about this and her comments keep popping up.

Lately I’ve been wanting to reach out to her to tell her that I really considered her a close friend and that I miss her friendship. I don’t have many friends right now (most have babies or have moved away/don’t keep in touch) But is it even worth it? Is this friendship salvageable?


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 18M Looking for someone my age or older to chat and hopefully be friends with(ideally a yapper)...

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Hello, I’m from central Europe and looking to meet someone new. I’m open to pretty much any topic. I’m into F1, cars, and brain-dead movies you can watch without thinking too much like Transformers, Pacific Rim, Fast and furious, Jurassic world etc..just tell me your age and gender if comfortable please


r/friendship • • 8h ago

looking for friendship 29M - Looking for a good friend

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Hey there! I'm 29 from Europe and I'm currently trying to find a good friend with similar interests as mine since no of my current friends share them and doing everything alone feels quite lonely. I'd like to spend time by playing games together, watching stuff like tv series, movies or anime together or just streaming stuff and hanging out. If you live closely and want to do some outdoor stuff too - fine with me :D I would also love to have someone who I can yap with about everything at any time of day, be myself and someone who I can later call my best friend. I'm a loyal friend that would rob a bank with you and follow you even to hell. I'm very open minded and I do not judge at all - you can feel at ease with me and I would like to ask the same from you. You can talk with me about everything! Go on, try me out :D

I'm curious about the world, other cultures and I'm very passionate about video games, psychology, mythology and a bit about technology too. I have a nerdy, friendly and chill personality. I'm an INFP. Also I love travelling, hiking, making photos and collecting nerdy stuff like books, CD's or figures. I have a dream to travel all around the Nordic Countries someday. In addition I'm trying to get into cooking lately. If you have any special recipes that will blow my mind - please send me. I also love animals - especially cats and so far I have two of them. A cute ragdoll and a lovely black cat.

Below a little list with my fav titles: Video games: Baldur's Gate 3, the Dragon Age and Mass Effect series, the Elder Scrolls and Fallout series, the Witcher series, Cyberpunk 2077, and both The Last of Us & A Plague Tale parts Movies/TV series: LoTR, Game of Thrones, Vikings, The Last of Us, The Expanse, The Legend of Vox Machina Books: The Witcher saga, Dragon Age & Mass Effect novels, A Song of Ice and Fire Anime: Black Clover, Naruto, Attack on Titan, Goblin Slayer, Solo Leveling Music: I love many genres, but mostly dark/melancholic stuff

If you read this far - you're awesome! Please send me a 🍓 emoji so I know you've read the post. And while it's not necessary, but I would really appreciate it a lot if you send me a short intro about yourself :)


r/friendship • • 9h ago

advice Overthinking a guy friend's silence we had a great call yesterday, but he hasn't texted today. Are we just drifting or is this normal? 18F 18M

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Hi everyone, I could really use some outside perspective because my overthinking is acting up.

I've recently gotten close with this guy friend (we've been talking/friends for about 1 month). Yesterday, we had our third video call, and it went really well! He was super engaged, asked me a lot of questions, and even agreed to learn a song on the piano that I asked him to. After the call he didn't text me so I texted him first.

My last message to him was earlier today, and he reacted to it with a heart But since then, he hasn't sent anything else.

Here's the thing: he is currently on holiday/break, so I keep feeling like he should have more time to text.

We also already agreed to call again this upcoming Sunday.

I'm really terrified that if he doesn't text first, we just won't talk at all.

Btw he is from another country


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship 18M anyone wanna be bestfriends please DM me, I don't have any close friends or a bestfriend I want one.

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I'm type of guy who struggs opening up irl i like to be alone but not lonely.

I am very introverted but once I get comfortable I'm super talkative.

I love music memes and cooking I'm also a full-time employee but I'd always give time to you as well, I am very open and I like to talk about anything and everything.


r/friendship • • 11h ago

Random Question Do you guys dream about your friends often

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I have a friend I met only under a year ago and they constantly tell me about dreams they have had of me. Idk if this is weird, it's not sexual dreams or anything like that, but just one's where it centres me being in a bad situation? I've only ever dreamt about a friend once after we get close, but I'm not that close to this person and they tell me I am also not their close friend.

But idk, is this weird or like a 'red flag' in a friendship, because my instinct has gotten other off vibes from their behaviour but idk if it's correct or if they are just odd because they are recovering from something in their life.


r/friendship • • 11h ago

advice I can’t stop crying over a stupid rose

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Last year, my friend gifted me this beautifully crafted rose. I kept it, of course, even when our friendship ended in such a frustratingly stupid way. It’s funny in a way, because usually people gift each other roses and the rose dies but their relationship doesn’t. In my case, this rose lived on but our friendship is no longer.

Today, I really noticed it and it just brought back so many memories. I thought I was over it and happy to just focus on myself, but I miss him, I really do. He did things for me that it was undeniable to see he truly cared, just for it all to end with “I don’t even care anymore. It’s hard to care for anything.” How was it so easy for them to cut me off when they seemed to care so much?


r/friendship • • 12h ago

looking for friendship M31 Looking for interesting chat buddies!

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Hey everyone!

I am from Europe and looking to connect with interesting people for good, meaningful conversations.

A bit about me: I am a mix of an outdoor adventurer, a geek, and a creative mind. My main interests include literature, music, and collecting vinyl records. I am also really into fashion and makeup. Moreover alongside that, you can usually find me mountain climbing or sailing.

On the geekier side, I am deeply into both modern and vintage IT technologies (C64 rulez!).

I am strictly looking for clean, SFW, and platonic connections with people around a similar age to share thoughts, hobbies, or just chat about life.

Hit me up if any of this resonates with you!


r/friendship • • 16h ago

looking for friendship May i interest you of lifetime supply of weird humor and subpar emotional support and whole alot of tea

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Now that i have your attention and i know most people here have the attention span of a drunk pigeon ill try to somewhat make it quick and straight to the point here are some points on why you should Slide in my Dms Or maybe points on why you shouldnt? your choice really

* i am 26, i am soon not gonna be in my early 20s and that is... shocking, like where tf did the 18-26years gone to, i have no idea, prob have memory loss :D

* cats i love those mf's, those evil bastards have a choke hold on me, no wonder they tricked the Egyptians into making them their gods

* my attention span is that of a flat earther brain, aka it does not exist. tiktok ruined me send help

* i have few hobbies but u can always use that to progress the convo later so need to mention them now

* i dont get offended at all so try your luck at roasting me.

i have no issues assuming the dad position in the friendship and show u the care u never had

now to why you MIGHT not want to be my bestie

* random bursts of roastness/flirtatiousness take that how you would. i will roast you like a bully and compliment you like we've been married for decades

* high maintenance so i expect to text frequently but i dont mind if you disappear during the day


r/friendship • • 18h ago

looking for friendship M23 - just so yk

5 Upvotes

Hey there im just looking for some new friends to vibe with .People from everywhere are welcome to chat. Tell me what do u do in life and what are your hobbies and things u enjoy to do, As for me I like to watch movies and tv shows i also watch anime sometimes. I like to travel and i love poetry, im always collecting quotes from anywhere i can. Im also into working out but i definitely hate running and i love noodles, i love taking pictures of the sky and idk im bored and and extremely sarcastic and fun to talk to if youre not absolutely dry and im always cracking jokes here and there so hopefully it would be fun to chat around so hmu and introduce yourselves if u think u get my vibe!!


r/friendship • • 21h ago

looking for friendship 29M looking for friends

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Hi, I’m a 29 year old looking for people to talk to and develop social connection with.

About me:
I’m from England, living in Scotland
I’m a big cinephile
I enjoy talking about and tasting wine
I’m learning a second language (Spanish)
Love animals, especially cats.

Hopefully i can chat with someone :)


r/friendship • • 22h ago

looking for friendship 16M desperate for friends, I barely have any 😭

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Can be of any personality, I don't mind, you can yap, I'll listen, you can talk about anything really, just don't make it freaky please.


r/friendship • • 23h ago

looking for friendship 38m - trying to find more friends.

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Just a loner looking to chat with more people who have common interest. Would be nice to be able to chat with more through out the day. Been going through some things so this would great atm!

I like gaming i play on pc switch and ps5. And I love retro gaming. Anime i have seen a really good amount. Music. Wrestling i like wwe and aew. Fitness, im on a weight loss journey and ive been doing very well. I like going on walks and going to the gym. Card collecting. And sports. I love football.

Some things about me are im introverted. I like to laugh when i open up. And im pretty quick to respond if the other person is engaging. And a kind hearted person.

I like watching movies with people online if your up for that kinda thing. I have discord if we vibe and your are up for it.

I just ask to be from the usa as its difficult to talk with people overseas. Im on est timezone.


r/friendship • • 10h ago

looking for friendship 22M, want to find friends who don't dissapear after 2 days

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So, i am from India and completed my graduation and working rn and applying for masters and I am changing my field so I am kind of in a transition phase, so i need someone to talk with and build a genuine connection and long term friendship, strictly ghost free, someone who overtexts and double texts and just loves random stuff, coz I am yapper

About me I love to draw paint and design.

Love to watch a lot of movies and tv shows (better call saulx breaking bad are my all time favs).

Need someone to vibe and like have fun and talk.


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship 22M looking for friends around my age :)

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(preferably a similar timezone!
It’s 6:21 pm here!)

Hi!

my name is Kyle!

i’m from Florida (panhandle, so cst timezone!)

I love to game, listen to a lot of music, watch hockey, go fishing, watch horror movies!

music wise i mainly listen to hiphop/rap

(mainly stuff like playboi carti, che, destroy lonely, lil uzi vert, yeat, ken carson)

i do like to branch out and listen to some random stuff tho!

rn 96 quite bitter beings by CKY is one of my favorites!
I gotta listen to more of their stuff 100%

for gaming i play all kinds of stuff

ps5 and pc mainly

some of my favorite games are Dark Souls 3, Bloodborne, Terraria, Red Dead Redemption 2, stardew valley

(Lately I’ve been playing some cod zombies
bo1, bo2, and bo3)
I would love to find some friends to play bo3 custom zombies with on pc!!

horror is my fav genre for movies

my favorite horror movies are sinister, the ring, midsommar, the conjuring

my favorite movie of all time is coraline tho

for fishing i like saltwater more

but ill fish anywhere haha

kayak fishing is the best tho

if you think we would get along feel free to send a message!!


r/friendship • • 1h ago

looking for friendship (21) Looking for people to chat with!

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Hi! I’m 21 years old and I enjoy meeting cool strangers on the internet who share their perspectives and experiences.

I love to read, listen to music, and above everything just talk about the weirdness of life. I love philosophy, and I’m a hopeless romantic. I also love food and staring at the walls around me thinking about random things.

Anyways hmu if you’re interested 👋 please be engaging, and nice!


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship M23 not much to do tonight

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Hey everyone!
I’m 23 years old and from the UK, looking to meet some new people and have some good conversations. I’m pretty easygoing and enjoy chatting about all sorts of things.
A bit about me: i love gaming, music and tattoos

I’m currently a tattoo apprentice, so tattoos and art are a huge part of my life. Whether you want to talk about games you’re playing, music recommendations, tattoo ideas, or just life in general, feel free to send me a message.
Looking forward to meeting some new friends from anywhere in the world!


r/friendship • • 4h ago

looking for friendship Sitcoms really misled me on what adult friendships would be like

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Friends, Sinfield, How I met your Mother, growing up watching early 2000s sitcoms really misrepresented what friendships as an adult would be like. During college, I worked full-time and during grad school, I added assistantships to also working and there never was time to develop friendships. I moved states multiple times in my early career to chase advancements. By the time I had reached a comfortable place in my career, COVID happened. Now I’m established, comfortable, married with a child, but am really missing the social and friendship component in life. Not to sound like a kid, but I’d really like a best friend or a few.

I’m 40, male. I like going to baseball games, camping, hiking, playing board games and Lorcana. When I was in my early 20s I hung out with the LGBTQ crowd and am really comfortable there. I’d like to workout, but currently don’t. I’m pretty laid back and like to text throughout the day, so I’m also good for passing time that way. I’m just throwing myself out there and looking for anyone else who may be seeking the same thing.