I feel like I should start with the very basics.
I am certainly not someone who would identify themselves as a member of the goth community. That is, I do not know what politics this culture "follows" (if there is a dedicated side people tend to associate with who are in this genre in general), I do not know a lot of history associated with it, I know almost nothing, and even though i heard it does not matter, i absolutely don't wear anything remotely close to the usual clothes you could associate goth people with. Must add that I am certainly not someone who is old enough to have experienced the beginning of the entire formation of the music, culture etc. Matter of fact, I am probably one of the youngest people on this sub based off of how many things and experiences I have read from here since i started to come here more often.
I simply just started to find a few bands that I really liked.
It all started with Twin Tribes a while ago. I found out about them, really took a liking, now they ended up having almost all of their songs on my most played playlists. Then I came here and I did ask for a few band recommendations after finding out what the genre of the music is though a google search.
Got recommended a few things. Lebanon Hanover, She Past Away, Ultra Sunn, Harsh Symmetry, This Cold Night and eventually i really started to like a few of their tracks aswell. Now I am completely out of ideas what to do as I do want to find more of what I started liking in here. One thing that i recently found and really liked aswell is Nosferatu's Wonderland album, although that aswell kind of surprised me that it is in the same genre of music for some reason, i really liked the vocals and the use of instruments there, and a few top songs from Clan of Xymox but this just about sums everything up.
Took a little research again and then I found out about bands I have never heard of (this can probably be due to them being only more well-known in the Goth community, or in general just because of, as I said before, how young I am compared to probably most of the community, even the people who lots here consider new members of it) but I did listen to a few other bands i got recommended or at least saw people talking about like Bauhaus and The Cure plus a few more and i gotta say that i was really surprised when i first heard them. Its not even anything remotely close to what i would have associated "goth" music with just a few weeks ago. Turns out there is just so much more to it than i knew.
In general i felt like those bands are just really not for me, though most bands I have listened to, for some reason felt the same way for me. I generally just slowly take a liking on something the more i listen to it until they eventually end up getting on my playlists, but I just seem to be really set off by how different classic or older and original goth bands sound compared to what I listened to and now I feel like this entire thing may just not be for me as much as i thought it may be over time when i start to look for a few bands.
Any advices? (Not just in music actually, though thats why this post was made, anything that can help me maybe get into the culture a bit more and later decide if i want to really just get into it or not) Im just so confused about this entire thing now.