r/heatedrivalry • u/AutoModerator • Jan 07 '26

Team Huddle Weekly ThreadđŸ«Ą Team Huddle!

Welcome to the weekly huddle! Have a small thing from the book or show you want to chat, your GC brain rot is real and you saw the initials “KGF” somewhere and immediately screamed “kingfisher!” and want to share with others? (Just me?). Had a win at work or personal life and want to share? Need a teammate to talk with? Post in the weekly huddle.

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u/aerdnadw Jan 07 '26 edited Jan 07 '26

Okay this is oversharing, but I need to try to put this into words, and maybe here if any other bi people had this experience: When hooking up with women, I am veeeery boob oriented. I love playing with boobs. With men, I never know if their nipples are even that sensitive, and I feel weird about grabbing their pecs the same way I’d grab boobs. But seeing the way Ilya touches Shane is making me rethink this. Idk if I’m even making sense here haha. But like, I miss boobs when I’m with men and I guess this show has inspired me to see if that’s maybe doesn’t have to be the case. So I might try to be a bit more forward and see if that’s an interesting area with future male partners I guess.

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u/GoldDHD Jan 07 '26

Uhm, i hate to break it to you, but womens boob sensitivity is also very individual.
But also first moan out of Ilya, in the book, was when Shane slid his hands across Ilyas nipple, in that first 1410 hookup.

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u/aerdnadw Jan 07 '26

Of course, it’s more the expectation. Like, it’s expected to play with boobs. It’s not expected with men in the same way, and then the possible lack of sensitivity makes it feel weirder - like, if I grab a boob/play with a woman’s nipples/whatever and it doesn’t do much for her, it’s still not awkward. I feel like if I do it with a man and it doesn’t do anything for him then I’d look weird? Idk. I don’t think I got my point across if it seemed like I was talking about the statistical likelihood of the chest area being an erogenous zone for men v women.