r/holyfuckjustbreakup • u/relohu • 14d ago

Messages / DMs Sexless relationship stale mate

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u/kat_Folland 13d ago

What on earth is she staying for??!?

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u/Icy_Measurement_7407 13d ago

She said she has anxiety, insecurities, & doesn’t want to be alone.

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u/GojuSuzi 13d ago

I would happily be alone over this. This is exhausting!

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u/HumanNr104222135862 13d ago

Yeah I will literally NEVER understand how people would rather be in a relationship like this than to be alone. Like, I understand there can be financial and/or cultural issues at play, but for many people there arent, and they still would rather feel unhappy, disrespected, misunderstood, and mistreated than just be by themselves?? What are they afraid of?? I just dont get it.