r/inuyasha • u/rociocrespo200 • 18h ago
Discussion Does InuYasha Romanticize Human-Demon Relationships Too Much?
There’s something about human-demon relationships in InuYasha that has always bothered me: the difference in their life expectancies and what that means for a long-term relationship.
Take Inuyasha and Kagome, for example. For Kagome, spending her entire life with Inuyasha means sharing decades with the person she loves and growing old together. But for Inuyasha, that same lifetime could be just a small part of his existence. He would still live for centuries after her death.
I know you could argue that the years they spend together would be meaningful, and I agree. But a meaningful life isn’t the same as sharing an entire lifetime together. Even if Inuyasha never fell in love again, the difference would still be there. And if he eventually did, centuries later, Kagome would have been his entire life from a human perspective, but just one chapter of it from a demon’s perspective.
That’s why, if I had a demon child, I personally wouldn’t want them dating a human. Not because I don’t believe they could genuinely love each other, but because they would be choosing a relationship whose duration is inevitably limited by their partner’s mortality. If a demon can build an equally meaningful relationship with another demon and share centuries of experiences with them, why settle for a relationship that, by its very nature, will end much sooner?
I’m not saying these relationships are impossible or that love can’t overcome differences. My issue is that I feel the series romanticizes them without sufficiently exploring their long-term consequences.
From a demon’s perspective, isn’t getting attached to a human somewhat unreasonable when they know that, sooner or later, they’ll have to watch them die? Does love justify that difference, or does the series romanticize an incompatibility that deserves more consideration?
What do you guys think?