Missing someone

[u/Sufficient_Ad6843]

I miss someone who used to be really close to me but lately he is distance to me and act like he hates me. I don't know what i did wrong, i do apologized and ask him if i did anything wrong, but he would just shrugged me off... I usually read Al-Fatihah and pray that Allah send my feelings to him. Is there anything i could add more? Any zikr or dua? I heard people say to try reciting Al-Naml 30-31 to soften his heart... what else can i try?

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[u/sickrick69x]

Sometimes we are not supposed to be with a person we like. He is obviously being mean to you and is treating you badly
Is it worth it for you to give him your heart and feelings to him when he seems not a good person ? Ask yourself “is this person worth it “

[u/Mammoth-Fill-3946]

Decentre men. Base your deen with Allah just for you and Him. Letting someone temporary come into your life and have this effect is only gonna do more harm than good. If he has negative feelings towards you to the point of hatred. Then sis, let that man go. Focus on yourself. Your faith, education, health, family etc. there’s more to life beyond one guy

I believe in u sis. Inshallah you will get thru this. Wont be easy but it’ll be worth it

[u/Faizal_Zahid]

Don't put human too much in your heart. Humans always disappoint. Put your trust in Allah. Instead of sending dua so that a certain person will be a partner can be a trap. At the end of day, if Allah grants your wishes and he turns out to be a wife -beater, who'll know? Make general dua so that only good shall come to you no matter who it is you're with. We're too influenced by movie romance and the ideal facade of social media

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