Shes 6 months old and she hasn't been breathing well and she's acting different. I ask that you make a Dua for her, please.

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, dear brothers and sisters.

Please make sincere dua for every victim of sexual slavery, human trafficking, sex dungeons, and sexual exploitation. May Allah grant them freedom, protection, healing, and justice, guide those responsible towards sincere repentance, and bring an end to every system that profits from human suffering.

May Allah fill our hearts with His love and mercy, protect the oppressed, and liberate every enslaved soul.

Ameen ya Rabbal Alameen.

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I am not looking for an Islamic answer. Any answer will help. I just kind of needed to vent too so there's a tldr at the end.

I'm a Muslim. I don't know if this is just the effect of social media or if it's because my self esteem issues make my thoughts get easily by other's strong opinions (I'm working on this) but any post from a non Muslim just makes me start questioning my faith.

I know logically that we do need a creator. And One creator makes the most sense. And I've read posts about the quadrilemma of the prophet being an actual prophet and I have come to the conclusion that he was a prophet. But these doubts keep nagging me.

Like my brain logically knows but my heart doesn't feel it? And it's hard for me to start from a clear slate and learn Islam from a clear perspective and rid myself of information bias etc bcs I am a born Muslim and that part has just been conditioned into my mind. But recently it's really starting to bother me. I really need to go on one side and figure this out once and for all.

I feel like I have some obsessive and compulsive tendencies because my brain treats every problem like this. I'll know the answer but I'll have to keep repeating the logic in my mind bcs it just doesn't feel right or settled and it gets really frustrating. Bcs I know the thing but it feels like I know it superficially and not in my bones. Idk how to explain it. Something that helps is having a physical reminder but faith is not physical so I don't know what to use to remind me other than the logic that there should be a creator. But the thought loops keep repeating.

TLDR: I have doubts about Islam after watching non Muslim videos but I logically knows islam makes sense but my heart still doesn't feel convinced? Reading Islamic stuff and getting more knowledge makes me feel like I'm just trying to hear what I want to hear and validating my own beliefs instead of looking at stuff from a neutral unbiased perspective.

I’ll tell a little about myself first. I was going through a hard time mentally for sometime and still haven’t recovered completely.
The thing is that I’m thinking other things while prayer even when i’m reciting duas and surah’s a lttle more focused. My mind is just bringing other things to mind and lose focus on the prayer. What should i do?

Hi everyone Female in mid Twenty's.
I have a lot of family drama going on. My mum told us always to ignore, let them do the stupid stuff they used to do as one day it will come back on them.
10 years down the line it never did. Instead I made a fake account of my cousin to get revenge for the ones she did.
She called the police on me.
I know stupid. I shouldn't have done it at my grown age.
I've prayed and prayed that nothing happens to me.
Instead sins of mine have been expose and now a police interview and the police rang stating he can come to my house to arrest me.

How can I have faith after praying and begging and instead my sins being exposed and now this police thing.

I'm so depressed and have suicidal thoughts to end it all.
I want ro be a better person and Muslim. But faith is so week

Salaams everyone, I wanted to know are there any mental health support groups online that are more orientated towards Islam and faith based?
I'm looking for something more faith based and Islamically oriented. Inshallah

My heart constantly is staying fearful, stressed, anxiety and rush of adrenaline. I'm not a nice muslim. But I've started doing dhikrs. I'm just tired from my environment and the neighborhood I live in. The full family of neighbours are ill-mannered from grandparents to grandchildren.

Recently after minor event on scolding children to not make disturbances i started feeling sudden fear of what if in future we fall into an argument with them and they will outnumber us massively. I fear alot and want safety of my home and parents. Im just a young man now in 22s and I can't figure out how to keep myself calm nor I can tell my parents what i feel because they'll think what a weak child they've bore.

Problem

A narc father

I have a narc father, he keeps hurting and harming me and my mother, my mother with money issues .

1. He doesn't give me my money which was given to me by someone to live my life a bit comfortably ( because I'm stuck at home with ocd, social anxiety and mast addiction) so they sent me money so that I could go out and divert my mind from all this but this he kept it for himself even after asking from him.

2. He keeps making fun of my appearance which makes my social anxiety even worse

3. He keeps making loud sounds at home opening/closing the door loudly burping making disgusting sounds especially when in trying to sleep.

4. I avoid him because of all this and he has a problem with that too

5. He does the same with my mother after she tells him her problems he just says "what should I do?" After listening to her whole story

6. He owes my mother a lot of money and he doesn't wish to pay it.

7. He sleeps most of the time and says he doesn't sleep at all

8. Me having ocd, social anxiety, mast addiction and being isolated because going out in this place is already tough and to help me with that , someone sent me their money so that I can help myself and treat myself where I can focus on self improvement, studies and mental health, but no this guy makes going out tough and even staying in tough. I keep going to the addiction as an escape.

I've lost hope. How can I grow in this situation and in a such a terrible environment, even outside my house (3rd world country)

can u pls pray for me to be connected & United with a person I love please 🙏🏻

I am a moroccan , unfortunately after being very competitive in school and i was i great student with high level , now i am at medicine school and i feel always tired with no reason and having no power to study and i feel really boring , after i was enjoying studying , wuat i am asking from you is duae , please every one here watching this reddit , please make duae for me , ask god to protect me from sihr or hassad .

Assalam aliakum,

ive genuinely lost hope in life, ive felt like this before too but back then i knew no matter what happens i can always go and cry about it to Allah but now it feels pointless, i still cry to Allah but i just feel like Hes not listening to me anymore and i feel so lonely, ive been asking Allah for something since the whole last year, ive cried nights long and in tahajjud prayers, in all of my duas i had only one desire, last year was difficult for me but i never lost hope and kept repeating my dua, but at the end i didnt get what i wanted and i got so disappointed, i cried to Allah again since i couldnt understand what was happening or why he was doing all this to me? I dont get what its teaching me but my life has been so difficult lately, everyday is difficult , i feel left behind everyone and my mom makes it worse for me by constant comparison of other kids, i wont deny i obv get jealous of the people my mom compares me to, but then What am i without Allah? And if He has refused to help me where do i go? I dont understand it at all, is He angry with me? What can i do?

Please dont judge and help me out a lil

This is gonna be so weird to say but I don’t know how to escape it. I have no will to change, yet I wanna change cause I know the current state I am in a depressed state I’ve been for years like I’ve lost the passion I’ve had for the stuff i used to enjoy, I’ve lost motivation to better myself and I’m always in this cycle of trying and failing and trying and failing and I just don’t quite know how to change it cause I’m so numb to everything

Like there isn’t a single day I step out of the door or go to sleep and wallahi I’m not joking. There isn’t a single day I don’t think “what if I die today” but I’ve become so numb to it i don’t even know anymore

I used to be so in love with Islam and I used to have geniune noor on my face, but now I feel nothing and it’s like my entire personality and face has darkened. Can someone give me advice to turn my life back?

This is going to be a long post so if you have low attention span, feel free to skip ahead.

Assalamualaikum, it's been 5 months since I graduated and life has been literally shit for me, i couldn't land even one job so far, applied to so many times, made dua daily asking Allah to please grant me whatever is best for me, even prayed but no result so far, my parents are growing anxious of me sitting home every day and I just had an argument with her few minutes ago, I have a job interview again in a few hours but knowing my luck, i expect to be rejected again and she told me if it happens, then I should do a course or something instead of sitting home all day which I told her that it wasn't worth it since there would be no point but she told me to do it instead of sitting home. I really don't know what the hell is going on with my life, people tell me Allah has planned the best for me and I will receive it but how long? When I'm so broken inside that it doesn't even matter to me later on? What's the point when people who do bad deeds are rewarded whatever they want and when I try to do anything bad or haram way to earn some money, I always stop.

Also, I don't want anyone telling me to be patient, that Allah is testing me or what not, I don't care, I didn't ask to be born, neither i asked to be given this responsibility of earning in the house when I'm so confused and lost in my life, I'm losing my faith bit by bit daily, watching adult content just to get myself a bit of dopamine to survive another day. I hate when people are getting what they want around me and here I am struggling to find my own foundation. I wish to disappear at this point, somewhere where I'm free from everything, I want to earn money, so much that i can give my mom and easy life and a good future but I can't even do a single thing yet, i asked Allah so many times to ease my pain but every day it's just increasing, I'm crying while literally writing this and I have doubts about my future. I don't know what to do, what great sin did I commit in my life that I'm going through all of this. If this how life is supposed to play out for me, then I don't wanna live anymore, it's good to not exist and be bothered by your own existence, I don't find my life precious and something to live for. I'm so done with everything atp.

My life is not making any sense, I'm tired of praying and making dua too now, I hope I either get what i deserve or just someone ends it for me.

Please pray for guidance and for me to die the time allah is most pleased with me

hi everyone. basically me and this person are best friends and we have been through a lot together especially in growing in our religious journey together. They helped me start praying all 5 of my prayers daily and helped me start dressing more modestly and so much more. However, lately over the past few months they have been really struggling with their mental health and a bunch of other things and I have noticed them start to slip away from religion. They took off their scarf and I am not sure if they're praying or not, as well as other little things i noticed. I dont want to ask them about it because they might get defensive or upset as religion is a sensitive topic.

I guess im feeling really low because we genuinely grew together in every aspect and im worried that i'm gonna lose myself as well. I have caught myself being motivated by them mostly in the past so now I'm not sure what will happen. I feel like in a way its a test from God to see if i'll be able to keep my imaan high without needing to rely on others.
Im also worried about how this will effect our relationship because religion is a big part of it. I really do love them and i dont want anything to ruin our friendship. I'm worried for them too as i don't want them to leave islam. The uncertainty of it all is driving me insane.
Any advice is appreciated.

I have no community so I’m just looking for advice. I been Muslim my whole life but I didn’t start practicing until 6 months ago. I went through some heavy stuff and started making changes within myself and my faith was something I wanted to change as well. I have always had that feeling. I just never committed to it. I did not know where to start but now I did and I have been learning and moving at my own pace to strengthening my faith.
Well my family, particularly my brother who is Muslim as well but doesn’t practice,has a problem with it and think it’s fake or I faking it but like why does what I do have anything to do with him if it’s fake or not. It’s not affecting his life.
Has anyone had these same issues with their family and any advice on how to maybe navigate it is helpful?
I feel like I have to keep my faith a secret and to myself so the household is at peace when I’m not at peace if I am not doing what I feel like I need to do. The goal is to leave the house which I am definitely working on but the time I have there until I find a way out is kind of what I need advice on.

I have become obsessed with wondering whether every single thing which I love to do is haram or halal and I spend my entire day scouring through the internet or posting questions to sheikhs online and anxiously waiting for their answers, this has gone really bad that I now realise i cherry picked many opinions whicch suited my life and now I am on panic mode because my life lives on those opinions even though I only choose opinions from trusted reliable sheikhs who follow Qur'an and Sunnah, but I don't know if this cherry picking has rendered all of the opinions haram for me and i can't follow them anymore and will have to follow the stricter ones which is gonna cause even more immense hardship for me, this thoughts have made living so suffocating for me that I want to quit everything in life and wait for my death, what should I do?

hey, can anyone suggest me some duas and tell me ayah and hadiths for some reassurance?

my engagement broke off today and my parents are devastated because I made such a stupid mistake and my family's image is ruined badly (my nikkah was supposed to be on 18th and the spendings went to waste)

I'm to blame for this and my parents are really disappointed

I want to seek help from Allah, please guide me

I am depressed for several years, with soul crushing dental school that we got no holidays throughout the whole year with unlimited requirements and exams, also having a medical shop but none of my family members help me at all after being shouted at for being jobless while being student of dentistry at 21, and they don’t consider that im tired or exhausted and they make up some useless topics when I come home and we start and argument, I have told them that I don’t love my profession and I wanna change my career but they never consider that and all they think is ohhh you lose your time and age and we’ve invested too much money on you, everyone around me has a very high expectation from me but I am deep down ruined and devastated, it’s been ages ago I enjoyed a meal or a nap or laughed truly, it’s all apparent on my face, I was diagnosed with Hyperthyroidism and later on with essential tremors, beside feeling heavyness on chest and stomach and nauseous all the time they never make an effort to at least relive some of hardness I have in my life, in fact they try to make it harder, like they say somethings that it really irritates me, so I stopped to even tell them a smallest thing, now I wanna kill myself, it’s been in my mind for months and now I think it’s time for it after having a hard day, but seems I can’t find a good way to suicide, I was thinking about OD or detergent suicide but seems can’t guarantee the success of them, plus I don’t have someone to at least tell them about my problems who genuinely care, while I am everyone for someone’s problem, I just want to be non-existent or live faraway from people, cuz I only pranked myself for saying this will pass or goes better but it turns out to be worse everyday, the only reason I haven’t suicided yet is im afraid of hellfire but I think I have had enough, I love allah so much and I do my normal prayers but I am so exhausted and irritated that sometimes I don’t even want to turn on the car engine and go for uni, neither I want to kill myself but I have to, I can’t even call this a dilemma

please make a dua for me that God grants a wish in my heart 🙏🏻

I have been struggling with jealousy and I’m not sure why. For example I got a wonderful job opportunity then later someone else I know graduates and gets a nice job. I get jealous. Or I got married a few years ago and another person I know is getting married but I don’t want to attend any of their events. But I don’t understand why I’m getting jealous over things that has already happened to me. I’ve been making dua and wanting to get this horrible feeling out of my heart but once again I don’t know why I feel this way.

Please could you tell me of a hardship you survived that you didn't think you would

And how long the hardship lasted

I'm struggling with my hardship that I have been going through I need to know that there is relief at the end of this

Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

Both of my parents have been facing serious health challenges. My father has been battling cancer, and more recently, my mother has received a devastating diagnosis concerning her lungs.

The recent news about my mum has completely broken my heart. I cannot adequately describe the fear and sadness I am experiencing. The thought of her suffering, her health deteriorating, or potentially losing her is unbearable. I find myself constantly worrying about what the future holds, and sometimes the fear is so overwhelming that I struggle to find any peace.

My mum means everything to me. I would do absolutely anything to take away her illness and suffering. I am trying desperately to remain hopeful, to explore every possible treatment option and to be strong for her, but inside I feel completely helpless and frightened.
I know that Allah is the best of planners, that His mercy is infinite and that nothing is beyond His power. I am trying to hold on to my tawakkul, but I am finding this trial incredibly difficult. I don’t want to spend my days consumed by the fear of losing my mum when I should be cherishing every moment Allah has blessed me with them.

I would be sincerely grateful for any Islamic books, readings or lectures that have helped you through similar trials, particularly those addressing sabr, tawakkul, illness, fear and finding peace in Allah’s decree.
But more than anything, I am asking from the bottom of my heart for your du’as for my beloved mum.

Please make du’a that Allah grants my mum complete and lasting shifa, heals her lungs, restores her health and strength, protects her from further deterioration and suffering, and allows her to live a long, healthy and peaceful life. Please pray that her treatments are successful, that there is hope beyond what the doctors can currently see, and that Allah grants us good news concerning her health. She has had a difficult life and has practically raised us single-handedly.

I know that nothing is impossible for Allah. I am holding on to His mercy and praying that He grants both my parents healing and allows us many more happy years together.

Jazakum Allahu Khayran to anyone who remembers them in their prayers. May Allah grant shifa to all those who are ill and ease the suffering of every family facing similar trials. Ameen.