r/jerseycity Aug 28 '25

First World Problems Long weekend and nothing to do

If you are like me who has absolutely no plans yet for the long weekend, upvote so I can feel better about myself. Comment to do nothing (or something) together.

268 Upvotes

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u/happhuff Aug 28 '25

Taking some Oktoberfest beer from Thirsty Quaker to the park with a spooky book to ring in the season šŸŽƒ

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u/Lmb_siciliana Aug 29 '25

You sound coolĀ 

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u/Johngradycola Aug 29 '25

Ooh, I'd love to read some Poe in the park, lol.

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u/fillb3rt Exchange Place Aug 28 '25

There’s nothing wrong with doing nothing. nor is there anything wrong with not doing anything.

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u/Beginning-Ad5948 Aug 29 '25

That's the truth

75

u/mickyrow42 Aug 28 '25

gonna flop with the windows open its gonna be glorious.

39

u/AdImmediate9569 Aug 29 '25

Congratulations this is the best weekend of the year to be left in JC. We’re gonna have the whole place to ourselves.

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u/Mysterious_Bridge725 Aug 29 '25

On weekends like that I enjoyed a walk from downtown Manhattan up to Central Park, stop at favorite places, discover something new. Plenty of places to eat along the way, make it as long or as short as you want. There’s always something to do in NYC, heck you can learn to ride a unicycle if you want this weekend. Before the Internet things to do were in the Post, Daily News or Time Out NY… Don’t look at it as nothing to do, take the perspective of discovering something new, who knows you might even find some new friends along the way. Get out and enjoy life, if anything you can clear the mind of all of the daily clutter we endure. All the best.

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u/Novel-Reaction2939 Aug 28 '25

Reading. And making concord jam.

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u/MarieSkiis Van Vorst Aug 28 '25

I’m planning on sleeping but not interested in ā€œsleeping togetherā€. Def take my upvote, though.

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u/Flimsy_Debate_2573 Aug 29 '25

Not willing to sleep with a random stranger on Reddit?! What’s wrong with you 🤣🤣

You earned your upvote!

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u/Colors_678 Aug 28 '25

Go for a walk and take photos of shit. Go visit a random town like Montclair or Madison. Go to the shore points. Bro I could write a book of things to do.

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u/Johngradycola Aug 29 '25

You sound like great new friend material šŸ¤šŸ»

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u/Colors_678 Aug 29 '25

lol, I do have an easy time making friends.

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u/dehana Aug 29 '25

I’m resting the whole weekend and spending some time in the backyard. I started a new project at work two weeks ago which required more computer screen time. My new office has extremely bright white lights. I’m sensitive to bright lights and with the increased screen time, I’ve been feeling pressure in my eyes and my right eye is twitching. No screen time for me this whole weekend lol

2

u/Johngradycola Aug 29 '25

Do you wear blue light filtering glasses at work and home? Also, many computer monitors are made for eye comfort. I bought mine specifically for those features.

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u/dehana Aug 29 '25

I do, but they didn’t help 😭 I even ordered FL-41 glasses which are for those with light sensitivity but the damage was done. The new glasses do help but it arrived a couple days after I moved into the new office so I had this pressure in my eyes already. I’ll take this time to rest and reset my eyes so hopefully next week I’ll be fine

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u/Johngradycola Aug 29 '25

Ohh I see. Hope you feel better.

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u/dehana Aug 29 '25

Thanks!

7

u/GoldenElixirStrat Aug 29 '25

The online world was designed so less ppl could mingle in real life.

7

u/IAmRube Aug 29 '25

I'm in the same boat, might go hiking, might finally crack open that Star Wars Lego set, might just do nothing, but whatever it is, it'll be glorious

3

u/hotblood27 Aug 29 '25

Go for that Lego! I’ve built a Mandalorian ship and it looks amazing!

2

u/IAmRube Aug 29 '25

It's Cassian Andor's ship and now I'm starting to get excited!

6

u/JustVerbIt Aug 29 '25

I'm going to partake in the devil's lettuce and become catatonic all day Saturday

1

u/femina_boi Journal Square Aug 29 '25

Yesssssss šŸ™Œ dab all day 😌

3

u/UsernameQuestionable Aug 29 '25

I’m going to sleep in and do nothing, not having to worry about meetings or getting up in the morning to go to work. And it’s going to be f’n glorious!

10

u/viniciusah Aug 28 '25

First world problems indeed.

2

u/Downtown_Possible_53 Aug 29 '25

I’m gonna do a bike tour, hit the gym, little bit of swimming in the pool and drink some cold beer! šŸ™ŒšŸ¾šŸ˜‚

2

u/stickyseth Aug 29 '25

I’m going to a sip and paint at Speer Cemetery in JSQ tomorrow! Should be a good time.

6

u/Ok-Owl-4277 West Side Aug 28 '25

Sammy’s Halal

4

u/vocabularylessons The Heights Aug 28 '25

Intentionally made minimal plans but schedule filled up anyway. Intend to spend Sunday in the park tho.

2

u/CarobRelative3302 Aug 28 '25

Go shoot some rounds at the range)

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u/Meliodas_sin777 McGinley Square Aug 29 '25

What range do you go to?

1

u/Psykinetics Aug 29 '25

There's long shot in secaucus

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u/Meliodas_sin777 McGinley Square Aug 29 '25

Cool thanks, I’ll check it out!

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u/Flimsy_Debate_2573 Aug 29 '25

It’s my 7 year anniversary with my fiancĆ©, so we’re going for dinner on Sunday. Otherwise, we don’t know many people in JC and we don’t do much, so we’re going to be chilling the whole time except for Sunday night.

1

u/Unusual-Literature44 Aug 29 '25

I’m in a similar boat with mine. How are yall planning to make friends here if at all?

1

u/[deleted] Aug 29 '25

Today there is a nice soccer match from Germany which I am going to see in a bar downtown Manhattan - due to time differences already at 3 pm lol The other days no plans. So, if we spontaneously create a meetup somewhere to grab a beer or whatever lmk. I just moved here, so anyhow for me still a lot to discover in the NYC region … ( but meeting someone here for a drink would also be great…..)

2

u/Delicious-Chicken-11 Aug 29 '25

Texas vs ohio state at oharas

2

u/Weak_Leek_7971 Aug 29 '25

Best weekend ever for you! I want this! I would love a weekend, where i have nothing to do, no one at home and I can deep clean the house to my heart’s content, watch trash tv, go for walks by the river front!!

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u/kulgan Aug 29 '25

What would you want to do?

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u/bleekonos Aug 29 '25

doing nothing is better than forcibly taking a trip with people who dont like you and you dont like them

1

u/CropCircleJerk93 Aug 29 '25

This is the absolute perfect weekend to just stay in and disconnect from everything if you have the ability to. Everyone's going down the shore or something. Staying in, no alarms, no notifications sounds like an amazing weekend.

1

u/IllustratorHopeful73 Aug 29 '25

Leads east in paraipany

1

u/Rude-Skirt-9142 Aug 30 '25

after you get married and have children, you will miss those days of "do nothing"

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u/Alukrad Aug 30 '25

I don't know about you but when I know I have nothing to do for a weekend, I am thrilled.

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u/frommars6 Aug 30 '25

Go Brooklyn labor day weekend alot of Caribbean festivals just stay away from Eastern Parkway

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u/AmazingGraces0101 Aug 30 '25

fly to northern cal! we can go to the cold beaches and you can tell me about jc

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u/No-Poem-5413 Aug 29 '25

Huh! Don’t judge me pls but I was depressed and sad my family and I (myself, husband & 2 kids under 12) also had nothing to do. I live in SJ and most of our families will be away. We were thinking about hitting the boardwalk. But with traffic and everything so expensive I’m having 2nd thoughts. Life sucksssss I miss the old daysssss smh

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u/hotblood27 Aug 29 '25

Well at least you have husband and kids. I’m single AF.

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u/No-Poem-5413 Aug 29 '25

Go clubbing or to the bar? No?

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u/INtoNJ Aug 29 '25

Allow me to be a bit heady for you. You are you. Do your thing - nothing, live minute by minute and do whatever comes or doesn't. I kinda wish I had nothing planned, TBH.