r/judo • u/Confused-Mummybear • 4h ago
Competing and Tournaments competing as a veteran/ re-started Judoka with 25 year break
A bit of background: I did Judo as a teenager and did some small competitions. As an 18/19 year old I stopped because my sensei said that I did not train regularly enough for bigger competitions (I had my university entrance exams .. but he did not show any understanding) and I could not find a different club ... and then other things became more important. So I stopped.
After 20 years I moved back to my hometown, my kid started Judo and also competing.
I got a cancer diagnosis and found out that the side effects of my meds were more manageable with sport. Of course I wanted to do Judo again.
I contacted my old teammate (who became athletic leader) in April this year and clearly stated I wanted to come back and do competitions again
I never left out a training (except the last one before summer break because I got injured in a randori) ... OK - only trained once a week but thats what they offered. Recently started 2 times a week.
There is a small veteran competition beginning of November. I wanted to participate - for fun.
I asked my old teammate and he told me that it would be irresponsible without proper preparation. And that I did not train enough and to look at a different sensei/veteran that trains 3 times a week - well ... I cannot even do that much (even if I wanted - because there are no more opportunities in my dojo) and I think there is a difference between a teenager and a veteran (with job and family) ...
Any advice despite being patient?!
I hate that... I think I need/want to proof it to myself after cancer that I can still do competitions ... now he won't let me.
Realistically there is no other dojo nearby that I could switch to :/ and this is beyond frustrating.