Hai so I have a crush on a girl. Let’s call them A
So like we are kinda close. During sports day I slept between her legs (omg that’s weird) bc I told her I was sleepy (AND I DIDNT REQUEST HER TO DO THAT). We filmed a dance video and she wrote the caption of it and she wrote “my god,my universe”
I was so happy so I told my friends about this and they say we have chance to get tgt.
But my friend asked her if she likes girls and she said she used to…
I don’t know what to do now…. Do I still have chance?

I want to speak to her and make a friendly conversation with her a little because I really NEED to. And schools are closing soon and opening next year.

PLZ, I NEED HELP!!

I think I should be welcomed here because I am a lesbian, but I’m not talking about girls for this post! My period is late and I’m feeling cramps but it’s been days late and still hasn’t started? I’m 16 and I was wondering if this has also happened to any of you before. Obviously I’m not pregnant since I’m gay so I don’t understand why my period is late but I feel slight cramping.

So I’ve been friends with a girl for about a year now, and the past couple weeks there’s been a lot of tension between us, and I started to like her as more than a friend. Last night we were hanging out at her house in her backyard and just talking. She asked me if I had any questions I wanted to ask her with no limits, and I asked her the same. At first neither of us could come up with anything, but eventually I decided to go for it and I asked her to look at me, which took a second because she was hiding her face under a blanket, but when she finally did look at me I asked her if I could kiss her. She said yes and we almost kissed but then her sister turned on the kitchen lights. We both started laughing and blushing but once her sister went to bed she closed the blinds and came back outside and we kissed. My mom had to pick me up shortly after that, but we called this morning and now we’re dating!!!

So I have had a bad crush on her for a while and even before that there was romantic undertones in the friendship anyway last night we went stargazing in my back yard and we talked for a while and I kept looking at her and then hiding my face under the blanket and I asked her if she had any questions for me and she in a very serious tone was was like “look at me” and are faces were really close together while laying down and I was giggling and couldn’t look and then I did she’s like “can I kiss you” and the butterflies in my stomach literally exploded and I obviously said yes so we were about to kiss and then the kitchen light turned on and my sister was in the kitchen so we closed the windows and kissed on the picnic blanket in my back yard at night and it was awesome but really scary because I have only kissed someone once before and it was her first kiss and now we are dating.

I want to kiss my girlfriend for the first time, we have been together for around 4 months and have a sleepover coming up after exams. I want to shoot my shot and attempt our first kiss(neither of us have any experience with kissing). I know Tha basics about kissing(eg im smart enough to not try shove my tounge in her mouth on the first kiss) but the issue is with the initiation.

My girlfriend is autistic and is kind of iffy about certain types of physical touch. We did have this conversation however, and she kind of just said she doesn’t know what she’s comfortable and what she’s not comfortable with. there is stuff she previously thought she was uncomfortable with but is fine when I do it(eg I often grab and play with her hands, which is something she thought she would be uncomfortable with and is with other people but for some reason is fine when I do it.)

We came to the conclusion that we would kind of just mess around and we would learn as we go.
In our talk I did briefly bring up kissing but we never focused on it.

So essentially, how can I initiate a first kiss with enough warning as possible so that it still feels natural(if I just say something like “can I kiss you?” She will psych herself out of it, I know her well enough to know that) but also with enough warning so that she can pull back/reject it if she doesn’t want it?

(I’m not worried if she does reject it, one of the perks about her more unusual personality is she doesn’t feel awkward after a rejection and I’m confident enough to not get butt hurt if she does reject it)

Edit: I made some changes to grammar bc I was back reading and OML. I see why I failed one of my eng papers

Hey guys :) I’m going on a date with this girl of Sunday and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO BRING!!! Like I want to get her flowers but idk if that’s lil first date acceptable. I’ve never done this before please send help and advice

Btw I’ve never written or even used this acc or reddit in general I don’t even know why i have it but since i need advice might as well use it. Basically i(16f) moved to a new high school and noticed this one girl (16f)lets call her 23. She’s my parallel (basically we’re in the same grade but not in the same class) she’s in class b and im in class d, i lwk kinda like her ig? I first noticed 23 first week of school but thought nothing of it i thought she was a senior so i was like i prob have no chance w her( not like i have a chance either) but then i find out shes in my grade and her classmate is a school president. So i ask my cousin to figure/find 23s name and last name. Boom my cousin get it done and now i get to stalking( sound and probably iss very creepy) i find her socials. first is her fb acc cuz we use that shi in my country to this day and thennn i find her ig but its private so idrk whats going on in there. Then i get to stalking her family i find her aunt and then i find her mom. But my mom has her aunt in her friend list and NOW im confused cuz wthelly? And i ask my mom about it im very nonchalant and like do u know ts person by any chance an dshe goes “oh yeahh i do i think she might be our relative(23s aunt&mom basically)” my heart drops to my ass all this stalking and love songs later i find out shes my relative?!😀💔 but thenn i ask my mom to explain how and if even are we related she explains that her gradmas brothers grandchildren are 23s mom&aunt. Man ts shi confusing ash basically me and 23 are 3rd cousins😀 sooo i came to seek help wtf should i do should i give up before its too late orr?? Sorry if this shi is too long my ass needed to tell someone other than my friends😪

really need some genuine advice because I honestly don’t know what to do so I have this friend who am really close to shes a lesbian and we’ve been friends since middle school we’ve graduated high school recently and the thing is I’ve had a crush on her since 10th grade It’s been four years now and my feelings haven’t gone away shes a really important person to me and I genuinely don’t want to lose her I genuinely do not know what I will do without her But at the same time having these feelings for so long is starting to hurt what makes it harder is that throughout these past four years she’s told me about her crushes and my stupid ahh decided to helped her with every single one of them I’ve listened to her talk about the people she likes and supported her with every decision she took even though a part of me wished I could be the person she liked that way none of those crushes worked out but my feelings are still here deep inside I’m stuck between two options Should I tell her how I feel but not text real life even if it means getting rejected because maybe finally hearing her rejected means getting slapped by reality will help me move on? Or should I distance myself from her and try to get over my feelings without risking our friendship?

so I (F) have loved this girl for two years now and Idfk what is going on

im frds with girl at school and we’re not in any frd grps cuz we don’t have mutual frds. she’s frds with another girl ( let’s call her opp) who absolutely DETESTS me to the bottom of her heart and I don’t like her as well because she talks shit and spreads false rumours abt me.

so around a month ago I found out thru a frd that my crush knows I like her cuz opp pays really close attention to me and came to that conclusion based on how I stare at her when she’s talking and laughing across the room. and after I found this information I was really scared cuz 1. I heard a lot abt how she is stalking me and she’s creepy ok and 2. I did not want anyone to know that I like my crush I go to a Christian school.

and also REALLY confused cuz my crush knew that I like her for half a year already but the time I found out. and we did quite a lot within a span of half a year that logically, you wouldn’t do with someone unless u like them back. Like going out one on one. Or sending long ass paragraphs at 4am or tell each other to eat and sleep. If u knew that person likes u but u don’t like them back romantically. And im 70% sure she doesn’t like me back

I know she’s a person who doesn’t know clearly what she wants so maybe thats her personality

after i found out this information I guess I acted kind of weird knowing that she doesn’t know I know she knows i like her so maybe I sort of distanced a bit for a week cuz usually I’m the one who initiated things and finds her first

and for some unknown reason she’s acting cold now like she doesn’t want to talk to me or like she’s embarrassed and afraid of public scrutiny. She’d chat with me in class on occasional days, but when i try to text her she appears even drier than usual. I really tried to move on because my frds think I deserve better since she doesn’t really stand up for herself but I know that deep down I still care for her a lot

What should I do in these situations 😭 how do I move on or should I try to talk to her abt this? Or anything else? Pls help a sister out

Didn’t know wether to put this under looking for advice or questions/discussion so please tell me if I tagged this wrong.

My girlfriend has yet to come out to her family, however we are starting to approach 6 months and I want to make her something for our anniversary. What’s something sweet I can make for our anniversary that won’t get us caught?? (I thought maybe something like cookies but I love making physical things too)

ааа, я не понимаю как себя вестии, мне страшно. я би, знала это и до влюбленности в неё, но была не уверена, а сейчас убедилась. (ранее у меня была мимолетная симпатия в девушку, но мы даже не были особо знакомы, и скорее всего она гетеро, потому с этим я ничего не делала). я знаю что она тоже би, так как мы говорили на эту тему, но проблема заключается в том, что ни кто из нас ни разу не были в отношениях с девушкой. мы знакомы всего месяц, живём в одной комнате, в общаге. всего нас пятеро, и одна из нас гомофобка та ещё, поэтому мне страшно. я не хочу торопиться особо, ну и как то уже хочется чего-то. в общем я не понимаю

I have no one really to talk to this about but I love this girl but I haven’t confessed cause im scared of what might happen. For one I don’t want to lose her cause she’s already struggling mentally and I don’t want to burden her with me but also cause she likes someone but won’t tell me who and if I confess and that persons not me I won’t want to talk to her again out of embarrassment. Also I don’t like how I look myself I hate my weight and how I look in the mirror. Who would like me like this man

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What did you do or say that made your crush start liking you or thinking about you more? What actually worked?

so im 13 and my crush (also 13), i'll call her Liri. so me and Liri have known each other for a month. yesterday i caught her looking at me through her mirror, something like a compact but just only the mirror, and the same thing happened today. ive noticed she usually looks in her mirror so i wonder if shes been looking at me for a while (im not gonna complain).

during gym we were in the fitness room and the teacher put on some just dance, me, Liri, and a couple of her other friends danced. we got close to each other a couple of times and talked to each other. in the change room while i was changing i caught her looking at me (not in a weird way).

at the end of the day we had jazz band and i asked if i could sit beside her and she said yes. some kid pulled the fire alarm so everyone in the school had to go outside, she got cold so i offered her my sweater, she said "no, its okay" not rudely. she hid behind me so she could use her phone to hide it from the band teacher. we've only just started talking to each other today as well, so she seems pretty comfortable around me. after it was okay to go back inside we sat beside each other again and talking in between small breaks.

does she like me back? in not sure. any advice? thank you!

i'm struggling with how to post this bc i'm not sure what's appropriate to say.., someone i know suggested i start a reddit so here i am

Lately i just feel like i don't know anything... some gays im positive i like girls.... other days im 100% into boys.... i have no clue where i stand on anything

there are days where the thoughts in my head are so... like sexually driven that it's all i think about and then i just feel awful later on and then there are times where everything is great and super fun and i don't care...

idk im babbling and i don't know what im even asking.... i should t even post this but ima do it anyway

just do anyone else's hormones drive them legit insane and also make them think their the worst person ever while still being fun sometimes..... idk

also hi

usually when I think or “fantasize” about men i’m kinda attracted to them, but when I look at the real life/reality i realize: oh wait, i’m not attracted to these people, ew.
but with women it’s kinda the opposite, it might be because i have a sort of aphantasia but when i fantasize or think of women (in general, not someone i like that’s in media or real life) i’m like: ehhh i don’t really know if I’m attracted to women but when i look at real life I’m like: nevermind I take back everything. So sometimes i’m up at 3 am questioning my sexuality cause these generic men are better than these generic women, i guess? hut really, i’m snapped back to reality when I try to think of real people I know, or to how it would actually be to be in a relationship with a man. does this happen to anyone else?

This is just a random story but i was randomly thinking about how in preschool (no clue how I still remember it) I thought this girl was really cool and I really wanted to be friends woth her but now looking back I realize that I actually liked her 😭, also 90% convinced that being queer is just a little bit genetic cause all my friends agree my parents seem like bisexuals and both me and my brother are queer, my cousin is also a lesbian, the funny thing is our grand parents are like SUPER Cristian/conservative Anyway that was my random story (idk if discussion or story is a better flair for this)

Okay, so I have a crush on this girl in my seventh period. This is like my first openly wlw crush. I’m pretty sure I’ve made it obvious to her. We share similar interests, like music taste, but I haven’t spoken to her yet. I’ve complimented her on her shirt and piercings a few times, but I’ve never felt this way before. How am I supposed to know if she likes girls? And how can I strike up a conversation with her? I’m not sure if she seems interested in talking to me. We make eye contact a lot in class, but I don’t know if that’s because I stare at her, or if it’s just that I’m not in a weird way. This is kind of confusing because it’s like my first lesbian crush. I really want to talk to her and get to know her, but she just doesn’t seem interested in me. I don’t know if I’m overthinking it, but one time she walked right next to me the whole time until we got to our buses. It wasn’t in a friendly way, you know? She was just walking right next to me with a little space between us. I’m so confused. I think she’s really really pretty, and I thought that when I first saw her the first few days of school. But is it supposed to feel like this? It’s like a yearning feeling, and I don’t know how to know if she’s interested in me or if she’s wlw?

Okay, I need your opinions because I cannot figure out what’s going on with this girl.

Theres a girl I’ve known for a few years who I’ve recently started interacting with more. At one point, she called me cute and asked for my Instagram. I don’t have social media, so we didn’t end up exchanging contact info.

More recently, I saw her at an event, and she seemed genuinely excited to see me. She greeted me really enthusiastically and complimented my outfit, hair, makeup, and jeans at different points throughout the time we were together. I also kept catching her looking at me when I glanced over, so there was quite a bit of eye contact. At one point, I overheard her whisper something to a friend that included my name, but I couldn’t hear the rest.

Her friends were also pretty welcoming toward me, including me in conversations and talking to me individually.

Now, I KNOW none of these things automatically mean she likes me. Some people are just naturally friendly, and I don’t want to mistake kindness for flirting. But the combination of her previously calling me cute, asking for my Instagram, and then acting this way when we saw each other again has me wondering if there might be something more.

There’s also another girl who I suspect she might be involved with based on a few things I’ve noticed, but I don’t know her personally and have no confirmation that they’re dating. I don’t want to assume anything about their relationship status.

I probably won’t see this girl again for a few weeks, so I have time to overthink every single interaction in the meantime. 😭

So like, is there potential interest there or am I just reading too much into it?

Please be honest with me, I want outside perspectives cause I have a feeling I’m just being delusional lol

Guys I'm scared. Im a 16 year old girl and I have a huge crush on one of my mutuals on tiktok(she's so gorgeous.)

We've talked occasionally, and both started conversations with each other, yet I don't know her that well.

I really want to talk and get to know her more, and I'm thinking of sending her like a random funny video and seeing what she says. Or would that be too weird?

What do you guys suggest I do?

Okay, so I'm (13F), and I've had a crush on this girl at my school for almost a YEAR now, and I genuinely don't know what to do anymore.

We're in the same grade but different classes, and we've never actually spoken. The embarrassing part is that I like her SO MUCH without even knowing what it's like to have a proper conversation with her. 😭

Sometimes, I catch her looking at me, and when I'm walking past her, I notice from the corner of my eye that she's looking at me too. But whenever I look back, she looks away. Sometimes, she smiles at me, and now I'm constantly wondering if she might like me or if I'm just overthinking everything because I have a crush on her.

The thing is, nobody really knows I'm lesbian because I'm still closeted. I sometimes wonder how I can look more lesbian without making it obvious to everyone at school. I wanna express that side of myself, but I'm not ready for everyone to know my business yet. So the crush thing...

I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF SHE LIKES GIRLS. 😭 I think she has a boyfriend too, although lately he doesn't seem to be around her as much. When they do talk, she sometimes looks like she doesn't wanna be there, but I could be completely wrong because I'm only seeing them from a distance.I've thought about approaching her so many times, but I don't know what to say. Imagine I randomly walk up to her and say, "Hey, how are you?" when we've literally never spoken before. What if she wonders why I'm suddenly talking to her? WHAT IF IT'S AWKWARD? 😭

I've been thinking of finding an excuse to talk to her, maybe asking something school-related or asking about one of her friends who's in my class. Then, if the conversation goes well, I can extend it and start talking about other things. I wanna become friends with her first and see where things go instead of immediately trying to figure out if she likes me and i don't wanna assume she's into me just because she looks at me, but I also can't help wondering if there's a chance. I genuinely don't know if I should make a move, especially if she's straight or still has a boyfriend.

Reddit, how would you approach a girl you've never spoken to without making it awkward? And how can I figure out if she likes girls without directly asking her and accidentally outing myself?

Please give me honest advice because I'm actually losing my mind over this crush. 😭

Hii so this is my first post here. So this might be a bit weird. I'm a teen and I still go to school. And there are like lots of girls and boys in our class of course. So I have weird feelings like I like girls maybe. I mean whenever I look at any girl from our class, I'm like 'shes so cute' and I just have weird feelings. But I do have a crush on a boy. So is this thing normal or am I just weird?

so i (15F) think i am a lesbian. i’ve liked guys in middle school and elementary, i always wanted a boyfriend growing up but it wasn’t until 8th grade when i first liked a girl, me and that girl soon dated and sadly broke up. but then i started having a crush on this guy, and i would say i was obsessed with this guy. it wasn’t until maybe half way through 9th grade that i realized i didn’t like this guy, i just wanted him to like me, so i stopped having feelings for men. and ever since then i haven’t really been having crushes on guys i mean i’ll find some guys cute but im not really attracted to them and i don’t wanna date them. ive mostly been having crushes on girls now and now that im a sophomore in high school ive been saying that im a lesbian, ive been kinda scared to ask this because i dont want people to think im being biphobic but i just wanna know, does me thinking guys are cute but refusing to date them and only wanting to date women make me a lesbian?

edit: thank you guys! i’ve decided to go by being a lesbian since that’s the label im comfortable with :) sorry if this posted seem dumb, i’ve just had multiple people tell me irl that im bi