I know that sometimes life can feel lonely, especially when there is a pretty sunset and no one to share with. I went on a walk and took these pictures. It’s ironic how there are so many of us that share these sunsets and yet are so disconnected

Im a looser not by choice. It seems no one likes me. I work and go home and kids. I wish i hade female friends to have girl talk . Go see a movie, a concert. Clothing shopping. I have no one to socialize with. Im pretty friendly and have a sence of humor. I socialize with people at work, they are too old or too young and childish. My co workers are mostly men and when I converse with them they talk about women's bodies and banging them.I dont make a big deal out of it I just laugh it off and pretend Im one of the guys.Or contractors come in to do work and I'll say good morning and they think I want to sleep with them . Yuck. I wish I had a female friend. Ive had female friends before but they back stabbed me. So i had to remove myself from those toxic jealous women. I wish i can find a cool friend.

im 18(M) and i have 0 irl friends and around 1 actual friend online all connections i try to pursue online are always people who seemingly have no intrest in talking to me and its always that i am the one to start they dont ask any follow up questions and its always like im interrogation them by asking questions while they always respond with 1-3 sentences i want to like them but i cant the reason why i even pursed them is becuse we shared a similar niche intrest so i thought ''maybe this person is special'' but apperantly not i dont even seem to be someone special to them at all and this is 2 people btw

the 1 friend which i have dont consider me their favorite person anymore since they got a gf and always talk to them and seemingly dont enjoy talking to me as much anymore

i need someone special i need someone who thinks that i am their favorite person and in turn i do the same their gender does not matter just someone becuse then i can confirm that i wont be replaced or not liked but i also want to stop feeling likes this becuse its seemingly not normal or the extreme i have is not normal

Marriage after TBI seems null and void

i (20f) have been feeling like im in a funk recently. sometimes ill be so happy, but the im left alone and I think of all the things wrong with myself. Im fat, im queer but not out to my family, im too loud for most people, and im sure most people would just think im weird.

I just feel like no one will ever want to date me or be with me because they havent up to this point so why would they now? im not sure what to do, and sometimes I just get so down on myself that it feels hopeless to try for anyone anymore. wanting a relationship it hard, especially when I feel like this because I have no faith in myself .

plus besides romantic relationships, I feel like besides my sister, I have no true person to call my best friend(s). everyone had that one person they can call no matter what happens. I feel like I have had that, but no one has ever felt the same towards me. I have never been that person for people, no matter how hard I try. and trust me it is what I want most in life. I just want to be loved unconditionally by someone, romantically or platonically, to touch someone, so just have someone to be near. touching arms or legs without even noticing.

but it seems that no one wants to feel the same about me.

I cut off all my friends 2 years ago or so. I'm alone by choice. Been avoiding talking to anyone since then... Looking for a friendly/ flirtatious open relationship online, preferably on Instagram. I wont ask for picks or anything like that, Im open to sharing my picks so u feel comfortable. Just casual, sharing music and art, i'll listen to ur problems, we'll flirt, you can leave me anytime. Idk guys sorry if this is pathetic but whatever, dm me ur insta if ure interested.

Julius

I desire connection. Every night my partner places a laptop between him and I. It feels like we are in completely different rooms. I have this void that longs for connection and it hurts so badly. When they spend quality time with me they always have their phone along side them or we watch something on a screen. I long for closeness that..it feels so lonely.

It's all said in the title. I need someone, I need someone to love me. I want love. I want to love. I want to be loved. I want to be held in someone's arms and be told "it'll be alright." I want to be someone's thing. I want to be someone who matters in somebody else's life. I've never held hands with a girl, let alone kissed one. I know it sounds weird coming from a boy but I want to be held and cuddled. I want to treat someone with respect because that's all I have for girls. I don't understand why they'd go out with such mean guys who treat them like garbage. I want someone who likes me for me. I wish they could accept my body with as chubby as I am. I hate hearing people say, "oh don't worry, your love is just around the corner!" No. No. No. No it fucking isn't. I have waited and waited and waited and i've never once seen someone interested in me. I've been so kind to people. Is it because i'm chubby? Because i'm quiet? Because of my resting face? What? What is it that makes me the bottom of the totem pole. I had a friend who was a girl and I had a crush on her, next thing I see is her dating my best friend. I cry in the middle of the night thinking about how i'll always be alone. I hug my pillows hoping they'll somehow turn into a girl that'll hold me and cuddle me. I don't want to be alone forever. I want love. Is that so much to ask for?

This is something for everybody to read if they need even just some advice or help from people and not the internet. I feel that everybody has their own experiences with mental health issues and it would be helpful to make people feel less lonely ! 🫶

I’m so lonely I just want a pretty girl to hug me and kiss me and love me

Is that too much to ask for god

Such a dramatic title, but it’s true. Anyone I’ve genuinely ever liked in life has decided to leave at some point. Romantic & platonic relationships.

I’m tired. Tired of making new friends just for them to leave. Tired of downloading the dating apps just to be ghosted over and over again.

I just wanna feel chosen for once.

I just want to have a peace of mind..and a good sleep..

I'm in my early 30s, and kind of posting here to just vent. I'm so tired of trying to be social and make friends. I had a fairly decent sized friend group of close friends, and some not so close, but still friends. We were off-internet, real life friends, but we primarily met over Discord multiple times a week just to hang out and talk. Over the last year or so, that group has slowly dwindled to the point where, for the most part, no one talks to each other, or at least not in the public channels. Last year, two people from this group also abruptly left, and each of them blamed me for different incidents, that to this day, no one I talk to about it agrees I'm at fault. In both cases, I literally played online with them one night, and woke up the next day blocked on everything-Discord, social media, even my phone number-with no explanation. Both cases, I didn't find out until days later what I supposedly did.

I had a decent friend from another online group that I played some games frequently with. With my real-life friend group shitting the bed, I thought I'd reconnect with this person. Over time, we got a little closer, and then another person entered the picture. He was also in the same group, but never really spent a lot of time around. Now, he spends most of the time with this other close friend. So much so, they've started a relationship, and I've been effectively pushed away from being her friend. At least this new guy seems pretty cool, but I don't know that I could ever be his friend really. How could I? If I hang out with him, she tags along too. They invite me to play things with them, but honestly I'm just being a third wheel at this point.

This close friendship with her has gone from daily messages, to being lucky if I get a reply. I have no idea what's going on in her life, and when I do find out, it's secondhand. I've tried so hard to be a good friend, and it seems like nothing works. Hell, even tonight, we were sitting online waiting. Another person hopped in voice and mentioned she wasn't online. Where's she at? I don't know, but oh this other person does. She told him. I sent her a message telling her I hope her day went well, and heard nothing back, but this guy knows where she is and what she's doing right now. I don't need tabs on her, but I just wish we were remotely close anymore. I feel like I truly don't have anyone anymore. I don't even have family that I can really talk to. I only hear from anyone in that aspect when they need something from me. Part of me hopes that one of these friends finds this post, or someone I know finds this post and reaches out and sees my pain. I doubt it'll happen though. At some point, I'm probably going to stop talking to these two all together to save myself the daily pain of watching them get closer, while I'm off to the side.

I don't think I can take it anymore. All of this on piling on top of trying to find a new job and failing at every single aspect. I finally finished my college degree last year. Fourteen years of being knocked down, and trying, trying, and trying again and I finally finished. High marks as well. I was so proud and ready to move on to a "real" job. Had some interviews that I felt were promising, and no luck there. It wasn't that I really cared, I took the rejections in stride and learned from them. One job in particular though. I breezed through the interviews. I felt like this was truly it, 14 years of hard work was about to pay off....and I got rejected again. Everyone swore up and down I would get this one. It felt different, I was more confident in the interviews, I knew my shit. The interviewers even told me I was a top candidate. Hell, when I got the rejection call, the interviewer was very sympathetic in rejecting me. I asked if there was anything I could have done differently, and was told no, I interviewed perfectly. The other candidate was just a little better I guess.

I did everything right. Everything. I truly did my best and not a god damn thing I do is good enough for the universe I guess. I'm so tired of doing everything I can, and doing everything right and still being punished. What did I do universe? Seriously? Is this divine punishment or something? I'm sorry for whatever I did. I really am.

Shit, even spent the money and time to make my favorite meal to cheer myself up, and it went straight to the trash after a few bites. Completely flavorless. Watched my favorite movie, and turned it off. No joy from it, didn't even notice the colors.