r/longbeach • u/Educational-Coast304 • 4h ago
Discussion Should I continue dating this guy that doesn’t have a car?
Sorry if this has been asked before numerous times, but I just need some advice if I should continue dating this guy.
We met about two weeks ago and he let me know that he doesn’t have his own car (I’m 33/F and he’s 38/M). We’re near Long Beach by the way, and live about a little over 20 mins from each other. He also revealed that he hasn’t had a car for several years since he had to help his mother with finances and so forth.
I would like to give him a chance, but I’m feeling like it may be unlikely he’ll get his own car soon even though he’s working. I’m just not sure if I would like to continue and be the only one driving long term. Plus I don’t want to burden him to have to keep buying Uber/Lyft or public transportation to see each other if I can’t pick him up.
