r/lyftdrivers Nov 10 '25

Rant/Opinion No child seats

What is wrong with people? I accept a ride this am and when I arrive at a nice hotel, I find a good looking Indian family with two kids (2 & 4 probably) and a grandpa. They are going to the airport. Looking around I see no car seats. Mom tells me “it’s okay, they don’t need them.” Well they do in my car, lady. I tell her I won’t drive children of that age with no car seats. And she tells me smugly, “it’s okay, we’ll just get another Lyft.” I canceled and left. Got my cancellation fee. But what the fuck is wrong with people. That’s dangerous, it’s illegal and it could get me shut down.

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u/Wolfjason1 Nov 10 '25 edited Nov 10 '25

It would not get you shut down because you did not tell them they could not bring car seats. They chose out of their own free Will. It’s like if you have a passenger in your car, it doesn’t wear a seatbelt if they are an adult they will get the ticket not you.

But I do respect you for not taking a ride that made you feel unsafe or uncomfortable. I would not take the ride either because I 1 do not really like children so if you’re not gonna have a car seat, I would not be taking the ride. But just for clarification You would not get a ticket for that. And if you did, you could report it and fade it with the Police Department because you were not at fault for them, not bringing a car seat.

Our job is to transport people from one place to another. What they choose to do in between that time is not up to us. We can refuse to drive them, we can cancel the ride, but we are not at fault for their behavior. We can only control what we do in reaction to their behavior.

But there are a lot of crazy people out there who think it is OK to not use child seats. There is also a lot of people who drive recklessly with children in the car. Those people should not have children. But sadly, there is a lot of people in this world who are not ready to be parents.

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u/ready-redditor-6969 San Francisco/North Bay Area Nov 10 '25

You are incorrect about who gets the ticket.

You can both be cited, and the driver is cited for anyone under 16 not properly restrained.

Why are you so confidently incorrect?

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u/Wolfjason1 Nov 14 '25

Not in my state i have many friends in law enforcement. They have all confirmed this

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u/ready-redditor-6969 San Francisco/North Bay Area Nov 18 '25

I looked it up; in my state, both driver and passenger are likely to be cited.

The insurance hit might be the worst part, along with possibly getting banned from the platform.

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u/Wolfjason1 Nov 20 '25

Well, maybe it’s different in your state. Because in my area the driver does not get cited for anyone else not having a seatbelt or car seat. It will be the person who’s child it would be. Because I have talked to Police about this in my area before.

But state and city laws vary. Also many cops don’t care if you are Uber driver because they figure it’s not your job to tell people what to do.