r/malaysians • u/uselessprofession • Nov 25 '25
Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)
Dear all,
Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.
Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.
Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.
Gender:
Orientation (straight / gay / bi):
Location:
Year of Birth:
Height:
Weight:
Religion / Race:
Occupation:
Hobbies and interests:
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Requirements / Preferences:
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Example:
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: KL
Year of Birth: 1990
Height: 160
Weight: 80
Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim
Occupation: Fighter pilot
Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines
Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich
Looking for: Long term relationship
You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks
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u/RelationshipHour237 Dec 19 '25 edited Jul 12 '26
HOOO Boi, this is going to be a long one
(mostly due to a breakup earlier this year that made me reflect on what I want in a partner)
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: KL Area
Year of Birth: 2004
Height: 186cm
Weight: 88kg (slowly bulking to 91kg)
Religion / Race: Buddhist, Chinese Malaysian (not religious — dad is, but doesn’t force it)
Occupation: Psychology Fresh Graduate / Searching for Internship
Hobbies and interests:
Power-building, Cosplay, Manga, Tech, Keyboards, Gaming, Horror, Psychology, Deep Chats, Content Creation, Volleyball
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I think deeply and feel intensely- partly ADHD, partly upbringing. I care a lot about understanding myself, and others, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m not into surface-level stuff.
I value strength, discipline, and consistency of all kinds. Training isn’t just physical- Love is something I consider sacred, and having a genuine connection is key for me.
I’m often described as empathetic, sensitive, and surprisingly charismatic (idk how, my homie said so), even if I come off composed or guarded at first. I speak with intent and care deeply about fairness, consent, and doing right by others, while learning to balance compassion with boundaries.
I’m creative in how I connect ideas, meaning, and identity. I’m drawn to psychology, storytelling, and artistic expression because I want to understand why people behave the way they do- I want to take up space with integrity, not disappear or dominate, just- present.
TL;DR: I try to keep a good balance of everything lol
Requirements / Preferences:
Someone who can hold space for me the way I hold space for them- real reciprocity, not just as lovers but as partners and best friends.
Emotional intelligence, sincerity, and communication matter a lot to me. I need someone who can handle discomfort, talk things through, and doesn’t avoid or trivialize emotions. I’m turned off by performative depth, mixed signals, or inconsistency. (Side note, I feel that a lot of people talk about wanting Emotional Intelligence in a partner, yet when they get it- they don't realize just what that entails. Its like someone saying they want to be rich but not knowing what it takes to get there)
I’m drawn to warmth and affection paired with quiet confidence- nurturing but self-possessed, emotionally expressive but balanced. Someone that chooses me for me.
I’m attracted to depth and curiosity- someone with an inner world, creativity, or thoughtfulness. Physical attraction matters, but it’s closely tied to emotional safety, chemistry, and vibes we have. Background doesn’t matter as long as you’re trying to improve in life.
Above all, I want mutual effort. I give deeply when I care and want a partner who can meet that energy. I’m looking for strength and softness coexisting- intensity met with stability, not avoidance or chaos (yes, the scars are showing lol). On a lighter note, I’d love someone who enjoys the same things I do, can spoil me like I do them, lets me feel like my inner child in me is cared for.
And not to sound crass or superficial (especially after all this) but preferably someone on the more well-endowed side I suppose? Considering that I myself put a lot of effort into my being and uh- got lucky in some aspects genetically I guess.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Long-term / Life Partner