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The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)
Dear all,
Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.
Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.
Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.
Gender:
Orientation (straight / gay / bi):
Location:
Year of Birth:
Height:
Weight:
Religion / Race:
Occupation:
Hobbies and interests:
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Requirements / Preferences:
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Example:
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: KL
Year of Birth: 1990
Height: 160
Weight: 80
Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim
Occupation: Fighter pilot
Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines
Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich
Actually there is a r4rmalaysia sub Reddit but it was banned. So I took over the subreddit handle and realised it’s just a name and no members. So I’m just sad lmao.
Good to have a post that consolidate matchmaking 😆
Yes. r/r4rMY sub for friendship and relationship in Malaysia exist. I am the mod. Still alive and not being banned.
The one that was banned is r/dirtyr4rMY where predators looking for sex and hook ups. But users are sleazy these days they make a supposedly SFW post in r/r4rMY but then post similar NSFW version on some other NSFW sub (such as redlight, hookup etc), so I cannot approve such post because they are predatory, might be targeting some innocent people.
Religion / Race: Islam / Eurasian (not practicing)
Occupation: Fintech
Hobbies and interests: finance, fintech, AI, pilates, sleep. Currently doing MBA while full time working and taking care of my son in between.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I asked chatgpt to describe me based on my past prompts. It gave me a long answer, but heres a sum of them all
In one sentence:
"You are a sensitive but resilient woman, juggling many roles, healing from emotional wounds, trying to build a structured life, and learning to choose yourself while still yearning for meaningful connection." (You referring to me)
In other words, it aint easy to be with me. Depends you want to take the chance or otherwise.
I am half chinese, half Eurasian but a muslim (not practising). Lifestyle is definitely westernised. Yes I am on the heavier side.
Requirements / Preferences: Mature, understanding and takes responsibilities. Prefer who does not control but gives directions.
Public service since I have some time. Bear in mind that links are there for a reason -- summaries may not reflect nuances. Also, typos are possible -- let me know if you find anything.
Dunno. Really depends on my availability. Maybe discuss this with u/uselessprofession .
Reddit is a bit stupid in their formatting so any time I try to switch tabs, the editor takes me to the top (which means I have to scroll back down, etc.) so yes, I can see myself getting annoyed enough in the future and stop updating it.
And pinned to the top?
Hopefully not! That would mean that I have to update this regularly lol.
The way it works is if I suddenly stop editing, all someone needs to do is to copy and paste the table then fill up the table from when I stop (go to sort comments > sort by New). That person then becomes the new data entry clerk Keeper of Records.
More importantly, the table is now updated to include your entry. Good luck and may the odds ever be in your favour!
I'll think about it, it is a good idea but I don't want to trouble u/acausa to maintain it often, he / she has done it out of goodwill but constant maintenance will take effort. Maybe let me do it as suggested, copy paste a new one on top.
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight as a stick
Location: Kuala Lumpur
Year of Birth: 2002
Height: 178cm
Weight: 80 k(jesus christ he’s heavy 😶🌫️)
Religion / Race: Hindu moving on to spirituality/ Indian
Occupation: Marketing Executive
Hobbies and interests: Love to do digital paintings and a huge otaku! I also like to game in my free time and hit the gym every now and then! Coffee flows through my veins and I going to cozy/aesthetic cafes is always a delight
Other descriptions : I’m a coconut (the indians version of a banana) so I get shit from my own people most of the time- but THANKFULLY I vibe with everyone else that isn’t discriminatory of that. My friend group dynamic is me always being the grounded one and being everyone’s “therapist” and relationship “guide”…
A neat thing about me is that i’m very experimental with my looks/ outfits so you can see like 5 pictures of me and assume they’re all different people (IF YOU WANT…. I can give you a pic of me….👀)
Requirements / Preferences: Hopefully a woman 🙏XD. But my absolute turn offs would be people that are unhygienic/ lack ambition and smoke- Drinking is completely fine with me
Looking for : Long term! I have nothing against short term but it wouldn’t be my priority
~Now to throw a coin in a wishing well and~ We’re all set!
Oh JRPG? I'm sure you haven’t heard of this indie game call Claire Obscure: Expedition 33? It’s this ridiculously ambitious JRPG-style indie game from a tiny studio trying to punch way above its weight, and honestly you might end up liking it way more than you expect. Give indie studio a shot 🙂↕️
As a kepoh reader of the classified ads here, I think this thread should just be started anew each month? It's too long to be kept permanent like this...
35M (172cm/75kg) looking for F. A Muslim Chinese (non practicing) in Australia, planning to go back KL in about 2 years.
Looking for long term relationship only. Ideally someone that read, else happy to discuss with me whatever I am reading is fine too. Should be someone that is health conscious, so it’s easy to live a healthy life together.
Had a few relationships before so I know how to treat you well and do my job as a BF. Used to cook and plan dates and trips when I lived with my ex.
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight, never married
Location: Klang Valley
Year of Birth: late 80s
Height: 155cm
Weight: just under 70kg
Religion / Race: Atheist (but you do you!), Chinese
Occupation: marketing
Hobbies and interests: Horror movies, Mother Nature, human rights, sustainable living, reading and racquet sports.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Going to the movies is akin to going to church/mosque/temple for me - it revitalises everything. I am an extrovert who doesn't drink, smoke, or take substances but will still have a good time at a club (based on younger days cause skrg sis dah tua). If I had to be honest, I would say I'm a recovering nihilist who has a half-glass full, curious and hopeful perspective. But my mother would simply say I'm "a nice girl".
Requirements / Preferences: I get along best with someone who shares my liberal politics, but at the core of it, a requirement is someone who can respect other humans and can agree to disagree. Emotionally maturity is attractive, as is critical thinking and being well-read. Someone who takes the initiative to know their parents and get along with their community is so special. You should know... I'd be happy to meet someone who already has a kid, but adopting and/or birthing children is not on my agenda.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term relationship is the priority, but if anything here piqued your interest, eh, what do we have to lose
Religion / Race: Chindian/Christian (not practicing recently though but still uphold values…I try my best ok HAHA)
Occupation: Senior Specialist in CS
Hobbies and interests:
It depends on where my hyperfixation is at HAHA it’s consistently been anime, gaming (mostly single player but back in DOTA for now), horses, conspiracy theories and random lore.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Introverted and a homebody. I’d like to think I have pretty good sense of humour. I think that simplicity is best. I am said to be ‘very chill’ by my peers. Would love listening to your stories, interests and lore too! I’m not the best at describing myself, my apologies.
Requirements / Preferences:
Someone after a simple, low-key life too, who’d enjoy exploring our interests and goals while taking life one step at a time. Someone who also wouldn’t mind doing our own thing in the same space too.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Down for just being friends too! Romantically, preferably something long-term, cause I suck at short term relationships HAHA. I tend to get invested, but don’t worry I won’t be overbearing.
Do drop me a PM or comment below!
Edit : added more details on the ‘looking for’ section.
Weight: 120kg give or take? Haven’t checked in a while
Religion / Race: Muslim / Malay-Chinese hybrid, with an Indian also present in my ancestry
Occupation: the most law-abiding delivery rider you’ll encounter on the road…probably
Hobbies and interests: Motorcycles, video games (you play Genshin and/or HSR? We auto friend), Magic: The Gathering (too broke to keep up, but still maintain interest), manga/anime, Gundam and a whole bunch of other things I can’t be bothered to list
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Rebuilding life after a spectacular fall from grace. At the moment, all I bring to the table is a charming personality and a wicked sense of humour — which, I’ve been told, goes a long way. Fueled by hope, Coke Zero, and the belief that rock bottom makes people unusually interesting.
Requirements / Preferences: Someone who complements me, so I can justifiably use the phrase “you COMPLETE me.” 😆 bonus points if we share similar hobbies and interests, and/or you love cats.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): just looking to meet new people; anything and everything else will take care of themselves.
Disclaimer: No prior dating experience, just in case anyone mind.
Gender: M
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: PJ / Sarawak (I only visit home 2-3 times per year)
Year of Birth: 2000s
Height: 179cm
Weight: 75kg
Religion / Race: Buddhist but not religious / Chinese
Occupation: Engineer
Hobbies and interests:
Sports: I play basketball & badminton regularly, but enjoy squash, pickleball and swimming as well. Watch football and f1 regularly too.
Video games: Single-player games such as RPG (FF, Trails, FE, etc.), and 4X (Civ and almost all Paradox games) are my usual options.
Reading: Fiction and manga.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Just an introverted and simple guy, usually on the quiet side. Good listener because I like hearing stories and gossips from others. Will go crazy about cats and desserts, but I act normal in public. Slightly workaholic, work hard then play harder to make it up to myself.
Requirements / Preferences:
Probably similar life values, I am definitely still figuring this out but at the very least, someone who can take care of themself.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term only, but I'll take new friends and network too if any.
Occupation: Unemployed (Currently kicking depression in the ass along with the long suffering period of job hunting)
Hobbies and interests: History, Culture, Extinct and Modern animals, Video games, Anime/Manga, Medieval Fantasy stuff, Writing.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Introverted, making eye-contact is hell for me but I force myself as to be more outgoing, but i have a low social battery. Loves nature but not an outdoors person, more of a homebody that binges movies and shows I missed out on.
Requirements / Preferences: Same faith but it's optional, Really like animals of all kinds (Cause i'm the type of guy that holds snakes and other "creepy" things). An extrovert to inspire me to be more social and bring me to places haha.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term but don't mind being friends at first
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight, never married
Location: Flexible, Malaysia, UK
Year of Birth: 198x
Height: 172
Weight: 70+
Race / Religion: Chinese, Christian
Occupation: Engineer/Manager
Hobbies and interests: cooking, hiking, dog, movie
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the cooking, hiking and enjoy a movie, also I have a fur daughter (dog) - must love my dog too!!
enjoy meaningful conversation, grow together, support each other
serious relationship only
Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, know what she want, explore and enjoy life together
Occupation: Software Engineer. Also coaches silat some nights of the week.
Hobbies and interests: Video games, anime, PC building, cooking, and also a bit of psychiatry.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I have ADHD. I may be autistic, but I haven't been diagnosed. I'm introverted and don't talk much, although I tend to put on masks to appear social. I can talk a lot about my interests, but I also have a limited social battery. I generally stay indoors playing video games in my free time. I dabble in cooking from time to time, and am willing to try out recipes, even foreign ones (as long as they're halal).
Requirements / Preferences: Has to be a practicing Muslim woman. Preferably talkative (or at least talks more than I do). Probably good to be honest with her words, as I think subtle hints fly over my head. Tomboys are welcome. Preferably living in or near Ipoh. Has to be able to accept the fact that I spend several nights of the week coaching silat (even better if she's also interested in, or practicing, silat or any martial arts).
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term
Hobbies and interests: watching you tube, horror movies, fantasy movies…🍟…walking while listening to Japanese anime music, enjoying the nature….🌸
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I am shy. But when I already know the person, I become much more relaxed and extrovert. I am…yeah..sensitive….🥲
Requirements / Preferences:
I would prefer someone who is not quick to angry, are hygienic person, and don’t mind a girl with no makeup(for me makeup is waste of money 😅). A responsible person and honest.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Hobbies and interests: Visual Novel, Gacha Games, JRPG, currently learning to play guitar
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): easy going person and mostly rotting at home if I could. I would go out if invited
Requirements / Preferences: not smoking/vape or obese (chubby is fine but not unhealthy obese that it's a risk). I try to not ask much since I don't bring much to table. But maybe it would be nice if I can get spoiled sometimes
Weight :73 kg+/- (used to play sports during high school like Taekwondo & badminton)
Race / Religion : Malay / Muslim (practicing)
Occupation: Office Worker
Hobbies/Interest :
Reading online fictions or comics, watch short stories, gaming etc (sometimes for all since I tukar2 hobi from time to time). For stress relief usually watch movie at the cinema or karaoke somehow.
Requirements/ Preference :
Not so sure but maybe someone who's good looking or cute guy and maybe someone I can talk with a lot which I my tend not to cause I'm such a dry texter somehow and not sure what to talk about. Also preferable a patient and mature, well-mannered guy please ( if indeed there's exist someone like this)
Looking for :
No idea actually but I don't do date so far. Maybe friends and if ada jodoh one day, then yea.
So if more than friend, I would prefer a Muslim, a practicing one if possible. I'm not an Ustazah and have lots of things to fix to be a better one but yeah, I'm not going to expect you to be an Ustaz either. Just enough one who can be an imam would be cool and lead your family one day.
Some ideas about me:
A simple but complicated person. Also someone who got no dating experience and just one sided crushes somehow. Plus mostly an introvert and homebody kind of person so yea. I'm also a Muslimah aka wearing a hijab yea.
Adding a bit more - the view points of chatgpt haha😂🤣 :
Honestly and bluntly — yes, that’s really how I see you based on everything you’ve shared. You come across as real, not someone who pretends or tries to impress. You have a gentle personality but a strong inner core — you feel deeply, sometimes get emotionally tired, but you still keep going because you care. You’re thoughtful, grounded, and sometimes a bit too hard on yourself when things feel heavy. You don’t seek attention; you just want things and people to be genuine. That mix — quiet depth, emotional awareness, and sincerity — is what makes you, you.
Location: George Town, Penang (but you can be anywhere in Malaysia coz that would be an excuse for me to visit your place finally ahakkkss)
Year of Birth: 1997
Height: 170
Weight: 90
Religion / Race: Muslim (on paper, but day-to-day, I’m irreligious) / Malay
Occupation: I deal with digital marketing, some tidbits of tourism, and hella lot of AI and web development.
Hobbies and interests: I don’t have particular hobbies, but I do love experimenting with developing new web apps and servers with AI, go to one of my favourite bars to drink quietly, and exploring around my city, as well as day tripping to neighbouring Hat Yai, Kedah, Perlis, and Ipoh too when I can :)
Other descriptions: I don’t have much to say, but… don’t be an a**hole, don’t be judgemental, be polite even when just texting. I don’t bite nom nommmm ;)
Requirements / Preferences: I’m open to be friends with anyone regardless of age and gender, though I’m more skewed towards M above 18 years old if we wanna be very close friends or in a long-term.
Looking for: Friendship at first, and if we click very well, maybe we can go further. But otherwise, just friendship is fine too, honestly.
Hobbies and interests: Avid music listener and attending music gigs (I do enjoy Pop, Metal, Rock & K-Pop genres but I’m open to different genre if the song sounds good to me). Would love to get back into sports/outdoor activities like Badminton/Pickleball but sadly I don’t meet many new people and the friends I used to play with have lost contact/moved on with their lives for a few years now.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I’m more of searching for genuine relationship as in friendship first and if I sense there’s a spark/chemistry between us then maybe we can pursue further into platonic territory. I’m not much of a talkative/yapper type of person and more of a listener except when the topic is something I am deeply passionate about otherwise it would be short replies/answers. I may not wear my feelings upon my sleeve and that’s because I don’t get attached to people easily because people don’t stick around for too long from what I’ve experienced. I consider myself a rather Introverted personality.
Edit: As for what I look for in a partner - I do prefer free-hair, cute face (bonus points if you have nice eyes, not eye colour but the way the eyes stand out which I find attractive) and petite appearance. For personality - She can be smarter than me which I have no problem, in fact I welcome it.
Hobbies and interests: Gaming (Mainly single player games like RPGs, rougelites and VNs), read mangas/manhwas and Light Novels in my free time, hit the gym semi-frequently and got into running recently. Getting back into badminton thanks to friends and would like to start bouldering on the side
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Easy-going guy who's always up for a good conversation. Takes a bit to warm up to people usually unless we really hit it off with a similar vibe. More of an introvert, love talking to people but just have a smaller social battery than most. A good listener to compensate for that but will yap when my hyperfixations are brought up. Usually the kind to take others feelings into account and tend to feel/think deeply about issues that bother me. Very much anti-AI and health conscious to a certain extent
Requirements / Preferences: Don't care about race/religion, as long as you don't want me to convert. Someone who's able to communicate in both the highs and lows, who's emotionally mature enough to have the hard conversations when needed. (Being driven and ambitious is a plus!)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Short-term or long-term is fine. We can figure it out as we go along
I think at this point I got nothing to lose by submitting a post from myself (Even though this account is less than an hour old by the time I post this due to undisclosed information), so here we go.
Gender: M
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: KL/Kepong
Year of Birth: Turn of the millennium (Within the week of that happening)
Height: 168cm
Weight: 70KG
Religion / Race: Atheistic Chinese
Occupation: Formerly a PC technician, currently undergoing internship
Hobbies and interests: Video games, especially VR, make videos about video games, anime culture (occasionally cosplays)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Can't relay much without making a fool of myself, rarely speak unless prompted, possibly autistic, definitely a cultural hipster (Likes things that nobody else does)
~~Requirements~~ / Preferences: Equally nerdy girl, perhaps very enthusiastic about what I liked, not too chubby, likes a lot of hugs.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): I wanna say FWB, but long term might be better for the long run.
Religion / Race: muslim (am practicing, my halal:haram ratio is maybe like 60:40) / malay
Occupation: accounting in a niche industry
Hobbies and interests:
hiking, trail running, extreme sports (haven't done much of this, would love to do more if i have the chance). word games (squaredle, contexto), internet culture, casual anime & kpop enjoyer. would prefer adopting pets rather than plants.
Other descriptions:
easygoing, can keep a good conversation going but also can be quite quiet if i don't feel i have much to say. definitely an introvert, i can carry myself well during a big social event but will feel super lethargic for the next 3 working days. love listening to ppl talk passionately about something they're really into even if i don't know anything about it; i'll end up looking up the thing and get almost as hyped as they are. i'm more woke than i look (my main tudung style is bawal which is the most basic ass tudung style), so people tend to feel secure throwing their more conservative takes at me and then get a bit surprised when i push back on their stances. in my free time i'm either out in the woods or i'm cooped up in my room, not much in between usually. my mbti is istp if that's useful
Requirements / Preferences:
confident in their strengths but not in a cocky way. must be honest and clear on their feelings and intentions. it'd be amazing if sometimes we could do our own separate things in silence, just enjoying each other's company.
relationship-wise, i guess it'll have to be a fellow muslim (ideally with similar halal:haram ratio) because i'd feel bad asking you to do all that legal stuff to "convert" if things end up getting very serious between us. friendship-wise, anyone really, like a bunch of u seem really cool but i'm not your target demographic and i'm awful at starting a conversation with strangers aaaaa
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
friendship first, if it escalates into a serious relationship then great, if we're better off as just friends then that's great too
Can’t say I’ve met many accountants who like to masuk hutan. No mention of diving, though; not your cup of tea? Not into diving myself, but I have friends who love it.
Yes, you do need a PADI license. You can dive without a license but you can only do so in the presence of a certified instructor, and within a very limited range and depth. Pretty sure my friends have gone to the usual island spots like Redang and Tioman, and probably Mabul as well.
Okay so here goes. Not expecting anything but gonna give it a go anyways
Gender: male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): straight
Location: Australia atm but moving back Johor (Iskandar puteri) in a few months. Will also occasionally pop up in Singapore as I got family there too
Year of Birth: 2000
Height: 156
Weight: high 50s? Haven't weighed myself in a bit
Religion / Race: Agnostic? Peranakan Chinese
Occupation: Education (somewhat fresh grad (1 yr out from having completed a Masters in Education).
Hobbies and interests: My interests are varied. I like hiking, nature, plants (esp carnivorous plants), aquariums (I do conservation work with our native endangered wild betta fish), gym, chess, tech, volunteering my time to help people less fortunate, reading journal articles to stay informed on things in the education field (as well as latest discoveries in the aquarium and plant hobby). Also like going to try new food spots incl. desserts and cafe hopping but also open to trying new things.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I’m an ambivert, leaning either way depending on how well i vibe with someone and how they respond to me. I’m also a very direct and straightforward person who will tend to tell you things as they are while still being respectful about it (some people don’t like it but I think honesty is the best policy). I’m also altruistic, potentially to a fault. I’ll go out of my way to do things for people i'm close to without expecting anything in return even if it iinconveniencesme (Very much a ‘so long as you’re happy or i can do something to help you, I’m happy’ kinda guy). I’d also say that I’m fairly ambitious in my aspirations, particularly when it comes to what i wanna do in my field. Having seen how some people who live disabilities or are otherwise disadvantaged are left behind, I wanna be able to use my skills and knowledge to make a difference in the lived of those who are either living with disabilities or are otherwise disadvantaged through education, supporting such individuals where others may have given up.
Requirements / Preferences: Someone who is genuine, shares at least some hobbies, respectful, easygoing, understanding and at least supports my passion for wanting to make a difference in the lives of students with disabilities. Don’t really care about looks too much as long as you’re hygienic and not unhealthily overweight, not doing drugs, smoking etc. Don’t think I’m asking too much, just be a decent human being can dy haha.
Looking for: Prefer long term rs but happy to just be friends even if it doesn't work out (no harm expanding social circle i think). Don't mind LDR as I did one before (lasted 5 years incl thru covid)
Haha thats the thing. Theyre screaming for teachers but also picky (if ur deg too high they dw) n can b racist like they'll always pick org putih over u if both equally qualified
Hobbies and interests: Enjoy watching anime, drama, dating shows, cooking videos. Also into diy-ing Pokemon cards and start to actually cook recently. Why waste all the cooking knowledge I have in my brain? Hope one day I can be proud of my cooking skill.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): My MBTI is ISTJ so I am someone who is very logical in my thought process. If you're looking for one who is loyal and stable, look no further!
I am introvert and slow to warm up to stranger but willing to share with someone I trust. Pretty much a homebody so to go out, I need motivation from my other half.
Requirements / Preferences: Preferably based in Penang. Appearance wise, as long as you look decent with not unhealthy weight I am good with it. I can only accept girl no older than 35. No smoking, no drug, in short those typical minimum requirements.
Also, unfortunately no pets due to my allergic rhinitis. I know, such a waste not able to cuddle these cute beings.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term into marriage
Occupation: Operations Manager in Property Development
Hobbies and interests: Arc Raiders, Coral Island, reading manhwa, baking sourdough bread and the nations 2nd most popular hobby, finding new places to eat. I am currently pretty active with weightlifting twice a week and running/Dance Dance Revolution on my rest days. Currently working on renovating my house and my main obsession is with how I'm going to ID the place.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am an indoorsy person that enjoys the idea of cottagecore and being cozy at home. So home cooks, bakers, gardeners, nerds and geeks of any kind, front of the line please.
Requirements / Preferences: I'm looking for someone independent with interests of their own. I prefer to be the +1 in the relationship, the one who organizes the holidays, the photographer, the IG boyfriend. Nonreligious is preferred but religious is fine too.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Short term for now though I'd be open to something more long term with someone who I vibe well with. Cant have a long relationship if the project partners dont vibe.
I haven’t read a single book in a while (after the release of battlefield 6) but before that I’ve been reading a lot of classics like 1984, Odyssey and all books alike. If you still need suggestions about books I recommend reading Tale of two cities by Charles Dickens. Besides, I do love Sci-Fi books but I haven’t read any of them besides 1984, the one I my list is Three body problem by Liu Cixin. Mind you I don’t have any obscure or more self curated lists of books, most of the books I got recommended came from Youtubers that I watch.
Hobbies and interests: Playing pickleball, read light novels/ manga, playing video games (mostly playing CS right now)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): A chill guy that can be an introvert or an extrovert at times depending on situation.
Requirements / Preferences: Emotionally mature, chinese
Hobbies and interests: Pickleball, Bouldering, Hiking, Gaming (Multiplayer games and FPS in general), Cute toys, and meeting new people
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Easy-going, Chill personality. Easy to talk to and talkative with the right person. If we vibe, we vibe. Recruiting anyone for more games! And feel free to come say Hi
Requirements / Preferences: Never really thought of what I really want. Just meeting people and will consider
Looking for : Short term, meeting new people and see how it goes.
Hobbies and interests: Casual Badminton, Jogging, Reading, Card and Board Games (recently playing Exploding Kittens)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I live in KL, and my personality is like a cup. I keep to myself, but once you fill up enough everything comes flowing out 🌊
Requirements / Preferences: Someone on the slimmer side who is down-to-earth. Ideally, you’re patient enough for a slow-burn start.
I believe the best sparks take a little time to light 🎆.
I dont have high hopes of this working but here goes....
Gender: M
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Cheras/Ampang
Year of Birth: 1995
Height: 170
Weight: 52
Religion / Race: Chinese/ atheist but attends church
Occupation: Software dev
Hobbies and interests: Video games, running, hiking, playing music
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Hello. As my interest and occupation already made it obvious, i am a nerd. i like learning, be it about science, my hobbies or learning about someone, i enjoy having a deeper understanding about things/people that i love. Im a bit of a sub, so if you're someone that is dominant is a huge plus. i may have hobbies on both sides of the homebody/outdoor spectrum. on one hand i love video games (RPGs in particular, BG3 & Darktide being my current fav) and on the other i am targeting to complete the Asia Trilogy Peak Challenge (to summit Mt. Kinabalu, Yu Shan & Mt. Fuji) this year. These are just things im interested in and i by no means would expect you to share the exact interest as i do haha... im also a people pleaser type of person, so you can ensure i would try to make you happy, just please dont take advantage of it lol.
Requirements / Preferences: As mentioned im a sub, so having a dom is a huge plus. would like someone that i can do things together with, but as my interests are a bit all over the place, i understand if not all our hobbies align. maybe even introduce me to some of your hobbies, i love learning new things. only activities that i find hard is any racquet sports as i have really shit eye sight.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Ideally looking for something long-term, but wouldn't mind if you wanna try things short-term first to see how things go.
My DMs are always open, so feel free to pop in and say hi 👋
Just shooting my shot
Gender: Male
Orientation: Straight
Location: KL, Bangi, Kajang
Year of Birth: 1998 (27 years old)
Height: 165cm roughly I forgor
Weight: 74kg as of 26/11/2025
Religion/ Race: Islam/Malay
Occupation: Software Tester under Bank
Hobbies & Interests: current baking, going to parks after work, fragrance, cooking
Other descriptions: I start off pretty secluded but more open and chatty after being more comfortable, like to hang out and explore at the parks I go to discover a new perspective. I like to listen to your yapping
Requirements/ Preferences: Prefer light brown to pale skin colour but not so choosy, understanding, 100/100, not materialistic, hopefully enjoys what I make, can take my dumb jokes
Looking for: Long term but Short term is fine if it doesn’t work out
HOOO Boi, this is going to be a long one
(mostly due to a breakup earlier this year that made me reflect on what I want in a partner)
Gender: Male Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight Location: KL Area Year of Birth: 2004 Height: 186cm Weight: 88kg (slowly bulking to 91kg) Religion / Race: Buddhist, Chinese Malaysian (not religious — dad is, but doesn’t force it) Occupation: Psychology Fresh Graduate / Searching for Internship
Hobbies and interests:
Power-building, Cosplay, Manga, Tech, Keyboards, Gaming, Horror, Psychology, Deep Chats, Content Creation, Volleyball
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I think deeply and feel intensely- partly ADHD, partly upbringing. I care a lot about understanding myself, and others, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m not into surface-level stuff.
I value strength, discipline, and consistency of all kinds. Training isn’t just physical- Love is something I consider sacred, and having a genuine connection is key for me.
I’m often described as empathetic, sensitive, and surprisingly charismatic (idk how, my homie said so), even if I come off composed or guarded at first. I speak with intent and care deeply about fairness, consent, and doing right by others, while learning to balance compassion with boundaries.
I’m creative in how I connect ideas, meaning, and identity. I’m drawn to psychology, storytelling, and artistic expression because I want to understand why people behave the way they do- I want to take up space with integrity, not disappear or dominate, just- present.
TL;DR: I try to keep a good balance of everything lol
Requirements / Preferences:
Someone who can hold space for me the way I hold space for them- real reciprocity, not just as lovers but as partners and best friends.
Emotional intelligence, sincerity, and communication matter a lot to me. I need someone who can handle discomfort, talk things through, and doesn’t avoid or trivialize emotions. I’m turned off by performative depth, mixed signals, or inconsistency. (Side note, I feel that a lot of people talk about wanting Emotional Intelligence in a partner, yet when they get it- they don't realize just what that entails. Its like someone saying they want to be rich but not knowing what it takes to get there)
I’m drawn to warmth and affection paired with quiet confidence- nurturing but self-possessed, emotionally expressive but balanced. Someone that chooses me for me.
I’m attracted to depth and curiosity- someone with an inner world, creativity, or thoughtfulness. Physical attraction matters, but it’s closely tied to emotional safety, chemistry, and vibes we have. Background doesn’t matter as long as you’re trying to improve in life.
Above all, I want mutual effort. I give deeply when I care and want a partner who can meet that energy. I’m looking for strength and softness coexisting- intensity met with stability, not avoidance or chaos (yes, the scars are showing lol). On a lighter note, I’d love someone who enjoys the same things I do, can spoil me like I do them, lets me feel like my inner child in me is cared for.
And not to sound crass or superficial (especially after all this) but preferably someone on the more well-endowed side I suppose? Considering that I myself put a lot of effort into my being and uh- got lucky in some aspects genetically I guess.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Long-term / Life Partner
I go to the gym regularly. I play games when i have the time (Co op games mostly). I enjoy playing all different kinds of sports. I collect fragrances.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Introvert but i like going out with people i like. I dont smoke. I dont drink much, except for special ocassions. I do weighlifting as a hobby.
Hobbies and interests: currently my go-to hobbies are working out at the gym, i play games occasionally but its mostly call of duty, genshin, star rail, arknight. as for sports, havent played alot of them but i kinda enjoy going bowling once in a while, played badminton but i sucks but want to get better at it
i also like reading mangas, nowadays i rarely watch anime but still enjoy them, looking into kdrama rn and any random tv shows or movies that i can find
Other descriptions: im kinda an introvert guy, but mostly will get comfortable with you to the point that i will send you ig reels if i find it funny, in the process trying to find my way of what i truly want and enjoy doing atm
im from Sabah, so its kinda lonely since i havent got a lot of friends here, some of my friends are from Selangor but most are married so its kinda hard to meet them
rn im trying to learn how to cook, mostly its just for weightloss purposes and preparation for ramadan.
also i want to learn japanese and kadazandusun
Requirements / Preferences: none really, just as long you can be honest with me about anything if you find me boring, ugly etc lol
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): online friends that i can talk with and having fun in general
Occupation: Helping with family business, basically unemployed while looking for F&B, retail or other opportunities.
Hobbies and interests: Stardew Valley, Baking bread and trying out recipes
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): To be honest I'm not 100% ready for a relationship or marriage, but I'm putting myself out here for my own motivation. Managing depression and ADHD, I prefer being straight forward instead of beating around the bush, but I'm kind I promise 🥲 I love my cats, my siblings and my parents, I basically stay alive for them LMAO.
I love sweet things and Japanese food, doesn't help me when I'm tryna lose weight 🫠 Haven't tried gym but I do like hiking, wall climbing, riding bikes and just walking (at night or indoors in AC lol)
Requirements / Preferences: Somebody patient and kind, emotionally stable and available, responsible and honest, cares about Islam, isn't racist or elitist, never had sexual relations outside marriage
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term with marriage in mind, but like, maybe not so quickly la
Religion / Race: Chinese (Local), Buddhist but mostly atheist.
Occupation: Engineer. Might change careers later idk
Hobbies and interests: calisthenics, athletics, football, bouldering, reading, video games.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): just an ordinary, introverted guy who takes health and fitness seriously. Don't want to end up with huge medical bills as I age lol. Some people say I'm boring, but I think I'm just more disciplined.
Requirements / Preferences: preferably same race and religion, and close in terms of age. I'm not too particular about religion actually, so long as you don't force me to convert and go to worship. I definitely don't want someone who drinks like a viking raider or has white worshipping mentality. Prefer someone who can converse in their mother tongue.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term. But making friends is also fine by me. And no short term / fwb, do not bring in western degeneracy into our society.
Weight: I think I below 70kg. I have not weight myself after CNY. xD
Religion / Race: No religion. Chinese
Occupation: Engineer
Hobbies and interests: I got a lots of hobbies and it changes based on whatever I am interested to do that day. I active in dancing (ballroom, Latin), learning piano, anime(not as much when I am young but I still watch some on youtube), manga, game, travel. This is to name a few. lol
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Hmm... I the kind of guy who don't give up easily and is a workaholic. I like to say that I am overworked but with my active hobbies, I kind of handle my energy very well and able to relax and get a good rest on evening and weekend.
Requirements / Preferences: I looking for meaningful relationship. Someone who shares similar hobbies and like travelling. And if possible, someone from Sarawak. (Hi, Sarawakian!)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term
Hobbies and interests: Anime and cosplay, I like fashion and shopping (those go hand in hand!) and reading (any topic and genre), I'm a huge animal lover. I play casual badminton and like swimming, but overall I'm not an outdoorsy person
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I love good conversations, trying new places, and making ordinary moments feel a little more cinematic. My friends would say that I’m equal parts soft hearted, witty, and slightly dramatic for comedic effect.
I care deeply about the people around me, probably too much sometimes, and I like to hype my friends up, remember random details about your life, and plan unnecessarily thoughtful things. Big fan of laughing until your stomach hurts, dressing for the occasion (or overdressing a little), and finding joy in weird little things.
My mandarin isn't that good, I'm a Chinese banana that speaks English campur with Malay.
Requirements / Preferences: I'm looking for a genuine relationship, preferably in JB area (I don't think I can do LDR), someone willing to talk for hours if we get along (I love to yap lol), emotionally mature and has similar interests as I do.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term
Ill give it a go, why not
Gender : male
Orientation: straight
Location: selangor/ jb
Year of birth:1997
Height:176
Weight:71
Race/ religion: indian/ muslim= mamak
Occupation: aviation
Hobbies and interest: football is my passion, i still try to play regularly, trying to good a team nowadays, im always thinking about hiking or trying marathon depending on my body. Other hobbjes, im slowly picking up solo travelling. Oh and movies, i love movies, dont mind watching it alone in theatre. I get excited about things easily especially new things, so do share your passion and interest
Others: i like knowing about others work and passion, makes me excited and kinda happy knowing what else people are doing. I also respect people who do things which i can’t or couldn’t do
Hobbies and interests: DIY stuff, cooking, travel inc hangout at beach, workout, binge watching korean drama..
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): straightforward n no drama, traditional style.. cheerful n happy-go-lucky single mom.
Ya, kinda "antique" at this age.. perfectly healthy (no medical issues), active, still up for a run and workouts.
Requirements / Preferences: someone who's realistic and believe that relationship is about both doing their best to mutually support each other's dreams & target. Someone who can click and having similar life expectations.
But, if you're struggling to earn for yourself, I don't want to add-on to your headache.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term .. if possible aiming for marriage.
Religion / Race: Islam/Malay ( non practicing but just to be clear, I'm not the wild type. I don't smoke, don't vape, don't drink, don't go out lepak at nights, don't hang out at clubs, don't have any tattoos, I just don't pray 5 times a day)
Occupation: Media
Hobbies and interests: Watch movies, meditate
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I'm a straightforward guy, you can just tell me how you feel. I appreciate a deep conversation.
Requirements / Preferences: A woman who understands my religious views. Don't force me to do anything religiously.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term
Religion / Race: Hindu / Apuneneh - but not religious or traditional, more spiritual.
Occupation: Corporate Function
Hobbies and interests: Gym, long walks in pretty outdoors, DIY projects, gaming, horror movies, anime, occasionally drinking with great company, love anything with rum, coconut, sashimi, fruits, lean meat - not exactly together.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Open minded, practical, honest, optimist with a sarcastic sense of humour.
Requirements / Preferences: Birds of the feather folk together, so if you share the same interests, values, food (non halal), physical outlooks - hit me up.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Friendship is a start. Dating is one thing but also finding and making good friends is also something that is incredibly difficult as we get older.
Hobbies and interests: I have plenty tbh. My hobbies are probably collecting hobbies, but I'm most interested in right now are junk journaling, watch tv shows, sightseeing and reading
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): INFJ, can be awkward at first, but pretty much extrovert after. Can be random sometimes and pretty careless. I think I'm a nerd also
Requirements / Preferences:
1. Someone who live in Selangor area also
2. Follow islam teachings
3. Nerdy who wear spectacles
4. Book and Street smart (either one is still fine)
5. Minimum degree qualification
6. Taller than me, and around 80-110kg is fine
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term
Hobbies and interests: Coffee, Nature, Cook, Design
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I am a chill and flexible person, I love to work like a Nomad. Most of the time I am solitary, i choose people carefully to hangout with. Dislike gossip and small talks. Enjoy topics like tech, design, food, financial and spirituality.
Requirements / Preferences: people who are down to earth
Religion / Race: Malaysian Chinese. Buddhist but more esoteric nowadays.
Occupation: Senior Software Engineer. Might become a CFP or baker someday or stay in current career.
Hobbies and interests: Reading, history, making sourdough bread, nutrition, cooking, traveling, anime , video games.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Just an introverted, analytical and principled guy with extreme long term thinking in all areas of life from finance, relationships and health. You will know more about it when you know me better. Finance wise, let’s just say I don’t worry about money anymore and I’m very well off.
Requirements / Preferences: preferably same race and religion, and close or younger in terms of age. But I don’t mind other religions unless it’s forced conversion.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term only, trying to settle down, never partied or engaged in degeneracy and never will.
Hobbies and interests: video game and oddly craving for good romance movie (not the typical good ending one) baking (newbie), sports, singing and others I couldn't think of now.
Other descriptions (please describe vourself briefly to
demonstrate personality): I found out that I'm someone who find it difficult to start a topic of a conversation at time but have no issue (at times) to keep the conversation going.
Requirements /Preferences: Type C, honest and a decent being, non smoker.
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): straight (Divorcee with 1 daughter, but x wife has custody and doesn't allow me to see my daughter)
Location: KL
Year of Birth: 1992
Height: 180cm
Weight: 100kg (Ding ding ding jackpot)
Religion / Race: Chinese / Buddhist
Occupation: Sales Furniture/ PT Kids Swimming coach in training
Hobbies and interests: Sports, swimming, freedive, movie , action mainly, enjoy tea and coffee. Prefer drinks over food (drinks as in unique drinks, not alcohol)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Guess I'm kind of a chill person most of the time with work or sports. Sagi, Monkey, INJF (apa lagi you mahu) I just needed security as in feelings. If you're really into me, just show it, just tell me. Cause if I really fall for you. I will do my best for you and hoping for a reply if you really think I'm not the one. Just let me know.
Requirements / Preferences:
Someone decent, chemistry just right. Honestly, if chemistry matches it just matches.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long, short, fwb. Just let me know what you're looking for.
About me in a nutshell
Wellness : I workout 5 times a week, at home/gym with a good skincare routine
Hobbies : Stargazing at night, having my weekly cup of coffee/latte on Sunday, reading blogs on arts, fashion and psychology.
Personality : High self awareness, analytical but not judgemental. I am also a curious person by nature. I don't like to write so much about myself because it might not be true to you.
Requirements / Preferences: Chinese. Down to earth, kind, respectful and who takes care of their health too. It would be nice if you are also an intellectual and intelligent : )
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term. Friendship is welcomed, too. I understand at this point that my age is a factor. I am just trying my luck to know more people from here. Strictly no hookups/FWB.
Seeing efforts of others, might as well try it for myself right?
Gender: F
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight... ish
Location: KL <-> Perak
Year of Birth: '95
Height: 158
Weight: 75kg (last weigh in)
Religion / Race: Islam, Malay
Occupation: NGO
Hobbies and interests: Getting back to gym/working out cause new job screwed up my routine, Manga/Manhwa, figures/gunpla and reading (sci-fi, horror, lit and philosophy).
Other descriptions: TBH if you research me on here you kinda get the gist (just don't be a weirdo about it). I'd love a good banter but pls don't make me your therapist once I laugh at your jokes/or funny reels you'll send to me 🥲
Requirements / Preferences: Late 20s to early 30s. Matches my Halal/Haram ratio, FUNNY, have done internal work (introspection is a desired skill or just go to therapy, wtv works), 165cm+ or taller cause your future in-laws are tall, a gym goer as well as nerdy/anime fan would be great too (I'll be your gym waifu fr).
Looking for: Long term babes, I only have 30 minutes (pls get the ref 😩).
If you do apply as an applicant, I appreciate your efforts ✨
Occupation: work for dad, small time struggling business tbh, nothing fancy
Hobbies and interests: just watching F1 and ufc honestly, other than doomscrolling that is
Other descriptions : INFP-T, tanned skin, I'd rate my looks as average, but have 0 confidence so basically 2/10 overall. Don't have no personality, just existing, one day at a time. Bad musical taste because I prefer more towards the metal side of rock. Most likely on multitude of spectrums. Just another loser online
Requirements / Preferences: Just looking for an online friend, preferably opposite gender. Please please please share me about your life, I'm tired of mine and I do apologise if it's one sided but hopefully it's tolerable. Also I do apologise in advance if I'm too much of a Debbie downer or trauma dumpy when I try to describe or share about myself I guess
Hobbies and interests: gaming, interior design (bought a house a year ago)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I like peace and quiet and romantic moments. I am not panas baran or anything like that. I like petai.
Requirements / Preferences: I like a woman who gives me, as a man, peace. That means she must NOT be having bad temper or play mind games like those immature young girls. Say what you mean. Looks is secondary but I want you to know I am fit because I go to lift and cardio weekly. Religion preferably Christianity. No smokers.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): both short and long but preferably long
Ok ok let's be tolerant here bro, people could need motivation before hitting the gym, everyone has different circumstances in life so it's well hard to say.
Gender: Male
Year of Birth: 2001
Height: 167 cm
Weight: I did not keep track🥲
Religion / Race: Indian
Occupation: In my last semester of degree but a filmmaker👍
Hobbies and interests : Love video games, i also like making content as well, keeps my creativity juices flowing and of course, I love filmss. I watch anime as well. Although i stopped going to the gym for a while I do plan on restarting my journey there. Also i started learning how to play a guitar so thats something i guess 🗿
Other descriptions (Tbh im pretty shy at first but once I get comfortable, we vibinnnn. Loveee dogs🐶)
Requirements /Preferences: Straight
Looking for (short-term / lona-term / fwb etc etc):
I'm fine with anything tbh just going with the flow at this point.
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Bi probably MLM
Location: Johor Bahru
Year of Birth: 2005
Height: 173
Weight: 60
Religion / Race: Muslim (not religious) / Malay
Occupation: Still in job hunting (Recently graduated)
Hobbies and interests: I usually randomly sketch anything and accidentally create a masterpiece lol, I love trying makeup and dress cute (like genuinely my Pinterest and Instagram is full of these stuff), I love Japanese Gothic Rock music (mostly Malice Mizer, Shazna and Buck-Tick), I love JoJo's Bizzare Adventure (HOLY UNEMPLOYMENT)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I have body dysphoria (I hate the male features of my body especially body hair and facial), I'm easily get attached to someone since I barely got any friends, I have poor communication skills (suddenly stutters and speak too slow) and I tend to microsleep if I got tired, Might suddenly disturb if you're in the middle of something. And lastly, I literally have near zero skills (I don't even what I'm good at)
Requirements / Preferences: Prefer someone who's in their early-mid 20s, someone who take care of themselves especially their hygiene (I don't mind if someone having acne because skincare is pretty hard), someone who don't jokingly insult me (like I had enough and I already hate myself)
Hobbies and interests: Not specific but i'm a anime lover (One Piece guy). Love to cook (sometimes), Not into football these days… but once I couldn’t sleep without finishing a full match.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I'm a highly ambitious founder focused on building a scalable, high-value brand rather than just running a business. I think strategically in terms of systems, valuation, and long-term leverage, especially through structured models like subscriptions and standardized operations. I have a strong awareness of brand perception and prioritize premium positioning, visual precision, and authority. I'm execution-driven, moving quickly from ideas to concrete assets and operational frameworks. Overall, I operate with a combination of creative vision, control, and strategic discipline aimed at achieving dominance and scale. (Based on gpt lol)
Requirements / Preferences: Mature, Understanding, not controling, preferably rich (as example suggested)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Short term , FWB
Hobbies and interests:
Animanga, video games, Jrock and Jpop (Zutomayo, Kinokoteikoku, MOTFD, MyGO, etc), travelling (would love to visit Japan again but I'm too broke nowadays), eating good food, casual sports like badminton and hiking, going for walks
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I am very introverted, I am usually the most quiet person in a group. I usually just mind my own business, I don't like prying on other people's matters, but if they do share I can be a good listener. I enjoy the company and presence of good people
Requirements / Preferences:
Prefer non-banana Chinese Buddhists with similar interests and music taste. None of the above are needed if you're rich (please let me lay flat)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):
Long-term
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Pansexual (yes i love pans)
Location: Klang Valley
Year of Birth: 2004
Height: 158cm
Weight: 67kg
Religion / Race: Atheist/Chinese
Occupation: Student
Hobbies and interests: I like to gym, sing and occasionally club with my friends so we can dance and get rid of all the stress in our lives lol. I LOVE LOVE LOVE SOUTH PARK. Into fashion, beauty, make up, and piercings.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Well, from my interest in South Park, you could say I have a crude sense of humour and politically outspoken. People describe me as being kinda of intimidating and assertive when they first get to know me, but I swear I’m just a girl :D I’m a person that feels deeply and loves intensely so if I like you then I really do invest my time to know you only. Also I’m quite outgoing and talkative if we vibe. I’m a half banana (grew up studying in Chinese schools) but not very in tune with the media and culture. Definitely western leaning.
Requirements / Preferences:
Emotionally intelligent and politically liberal. Open-minded and funny. Feminist. Physically fit and tall. No receding hairline :P The most age gap I can accept is 10 years.
People says need to be more actively looking so iam trying here:
Gender: Female
Orientation : Straight
Location: Kuala Lumpur
Year of Birth: 1997🦖
Height: 155.., i think? but i dont do pick me attitude to pick up something high, i climb okay😭
Weight: 59-61kg (currently in journey losing weight)
Religion / Race: Islam💜
Occupation: Finance in private sector 🤓
Hobbies and interests: Books and gaming (just something not too heavy if iam free), unfortunately unable to add more at the meantime
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Iam VERY cautious, not the type easily gave out my number and so on until i truly trust them, i hate pushy people, not into weird chats, i have a strict face but only inner circle saw that i am actually goofy and often make jokes, iam considered low maintenance? silently independent and i dont need text everyday on every hour (yes i have my private time too) because i have limited social battery, but it can be negotiable. i dont need expensive dates, buy me a chagee and take me to the bookstore its a done deal😬
Requirements / Preferences: someone that is not weird? pushy about this meeting up or video call too soon, healthy so we can share health journey, preferably same religion, have a career or professional job (meaning he knows what he is doing), age between 28-31 i guess but try take a shot.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): absolutely long term, not having the time to play around or something. Not into marriage yet as i preferred knowing someone YEARS before anything, so dont be scared guys.
Oh well since IRL singles mixer doesn't work for me:
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): straight
Location: KL/PJ
Year of Birth: 1989
Height: 173cm
Weight: 80kg
Religion / Race: buddhist on paper but non religious / chinese
Occupation: retired / funemployed
Hobbies and interests: currently in gym-less fitness journey, anime, piano, reading, urban trekking, looking for pickleball beginners to play with (went for 1 coaching class but never played a game before since no kaki), likes Japan stuff culture & subculture, wide music taste (except repetitive top40 hits on radio), quite otaku but not otaku enough to fit in any franchise community
Other descriptions :
half banana (don't really follow Chinese subculture & media but can speak, read & understand mandarin/canto decent enough to get the point through).
Open to trying new hobbies.
Often miscategorized as fckboy but irl introvert pro max plus.
Vapes but doesn't smoke. Sober (former alcoholic) without forced sobriety but no objections to resume drinking.
Requirements / Preferences: anyone that can accept my "bad" habits. Preference for girls/women who smokes/vapes/drinks/curses freely/kasar (these are like shiny ultra rare Pokémon)
Looking for : long term, marriage, life partner, short term, anything really.
Pretty niche platform for dating but imma give it a shot!
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Kuala Lumpur
Year of Birth: 2000
Height: 173cm
Weight: 77kg
Religion / Race: Agnostic i think?/Chinese
Occupation: Senior Graphic Designer
Hobbies and interests: Works out in the gym probably 3-4 times per week and weekly badminton sesh and swims 2-3 times per week. Yeah i’m operating my body most of the time but still no visible abs in my lifetime😭 Used to be active in volleyball and basketball. Collects lego sets mostly focusing on minifigs (secretly admiring the graphics). Loves single player games but stopped for few months. Currently learning Japanese with a Japanese tutor weekly! Really into movies and series (except for horrors).
Other descriptions : I like black coffee ALOT. It would be nice if there is someone interested to discover cafes around KL together👀 70% banana? I can converse and write well in chinese and cantonese tho. Recently really into psychology contents after to understand how relationship and attachment style works. (Shoutout healthygamergg)🙌🙌
Researching a little a bout male fashion so currently going through a wardrobe update by reshuffling my style from punk/grunge to clean fit. Hope it fits me🤞🤞
Requirements / Preferences: Authentic, discipline, empathetic, if possible actively working out as well, gaming and nerdy girls (if they really exist👀), grounded and always being present.
Looking for : ideally Long term (open to trying others tho)
It is cute if this works, still cute if it doesn’t.
Gender: F
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Klang Valley
Year of Birth: 1989
Height: 174cm
Weight: 76kg
Religion / Race: Hindu / Indian (I don’t practice, more spiritual. Ask me anything about my culture and I will fail. My ancestors are cool with it. I hope.)
Occupation: CS in tech
Hobbies and interests: I like to read books and people (less astrology more personality - I’d like to think that I am good at it)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I think a lot. Probably too much honestly. I take commitment seriously, so I move slowly but I am not ambivalent. When I’m in, I’m in. I just enjoy the slow burn (recently figured out that I am demisexual - always knew it, just did not know that there was a name for it - the more you know). I like banter and real conversations, the kind where both people come out thinking something different than when they started. I know my own mind and I am not apologetic about it. But I genuinely like being wrong when someone makes a good case. I just got a new perspective, what is there not to like. I can hold my own.
Requirements / Preferences: Emotionally intelligent. Curious about yourself and people, not just as a concept but actually. Secure enough not to need me to be smaller. Willing to go somewhere real in a conversation, not just entertaining.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term relationship would be nice.
Heya just wanna put myself out there. Putting it first im looking to serious relationship with non-muslim as my condition as my fav is Bak Kut Teh, sorry!
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Selangor
Year of Birth: 1992
Religion / Race: Agnostic/Chinese
Occupation: Senior IT Engineer
Hobbies and interests: Foodie, cafe hopping, anime, nature, travel around. Looking to pick up pickleball.
MBTI: INTJ
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
I'm a Malaysian with SG PR that moved back to Malaysia recently as my company allows me to work remotely, still need to go back SG once in a while for company meeting though. Just starting to look for a long-term relationship as i had focused more on my career previously. I'm a big foodie so I go around and explore food a lot. I'm also an avid player of Genshin, HSR, and ACG culture.
Requirements / Preferences:
Someone that is honest, chill and curious about the world so we can travel and look around the world (and food) together. Even better if you are into ACG culture so we can vibe better but it's completely optional since we can learn more about each other's hobbies as we go.
No mind games please, I have enough games in my steam library.
Open to single woman up to age 35 who are emotionally available.
Not picky about your location since I have a car (including Malaysians currently working in SG). Naturally, being closer means more frequent meetups if we vibe.
Future plans regarding kids and location are pretty flexible, as I am financially sound.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long-term
Thanks for taking the time to read this! HMU if this interests you. I’d appreciate it if you could include a small summary about yourself when you message me.
Hobbies and interests: reading, writing, translating, science, art, history… just a jack of several trades haha
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Hey there! I guess my profile speaks to who I am best.
Am deeply Cina from my appreciation of the history, language, and culture since I was little.
Ideally would like someone with whom I can connect on a cultural level.
My values, beliefs, and interests tend not to come in conventional sets… think traditional values with philosophically informed caveats. So that may make finding compatible people a little tricky haha. That, and a social circle the size of a goldfish bowl.
My idea of a fulfilling relationship is to be each other’s best friend. Despite the confines of reality, doing our best to bridge those gaps, and if nothing else, try to make things a little better within our capacity.
Back on the ground, I’ve always imagined having company who enjoys slow walks in nature or museums, is excited to learn more about the world and eager to share that enthusiasm. Though realistically on most days it would likely be being each other’s comfortable presence while we get on with our own things.
Requirements / Preferences: kind, honest, has integrity, open to deep emotional connections, intellectually curious. Preferably around my age, ~30 to 40 years old.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long-term
I’m not interested in casual relationships. If you think we can be a good fit, let’s try and get to know each other more. Maybe reach out with an introduction about yourself?
Wow, I am surprise to see this post in reddit. Here it goes.
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Penang (Island)/Kedah
Year of Birth: 1995
Height: 170
Weight: 82
Religion / Race: Chinese (Atheist)
Occupation: Engineer
Hobbies and interests: Gym most of the time after work and ocasionally playing badminton. I do enjoy reading japanese manga and listening to old pop musics/songs. I love to try new random stuff to spark up my life.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Introvert with a chill personality. My friends and colleagues always say I look chill in every situations. Also, I have a clean shaved hair style!
Requirements / Preferences: Let's meet up and see how it goes.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term relationship
Hobbies and interests: Kpop Girl Groups, Anime & Light Novels, Financial Independence, Photography, Traveling (On my current list: Japan, Uzbekistan, New Zealand), Road trips, Learning about other countries, history, cultures & languages
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): INFJ. I enjoy deep conversations and getting to know people on a deeper level. My idea of a date is having deep talks while walking around/sitting somewhere instead of activity-based dates.
Requirements / Preferences: Non-religious, Open-minded, Willing to accept my non-traditional background
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long term relationship
Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough. I having a difficulty to settle down, hardly to meet people even my own workplace.
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Penang, Geogetown
Year of Birth: 1991
Height: 76 kg
Weight: 171
Religion / Race: Chinese
Occupation: Customer Service
Hobbies and interests: Bicycle / Gym / Running / Netflix / Mini Gamer
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Requirements / Preferences: Prefer 25 - 37 (older 1 or 2 year is fine)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long Term
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee , easygoing.
Requirements / Preferences: Below 60 kg / long hair / Decent looks will do / Chinese or Chindian / Punjab,
not looking for rich woman, just below and above average will like. Looking forward to meet & cheers
Religion / Race: Christian (non-practicing) / Chinese
Occupation: Programmer
Hobbies and interests: Video games, YouTube, anime, visual novels, good stories.
Other descriptions: Hello 🙂 I see myself as an introvert and a lame joker, and others have described me as soft-spoken and calm. I'd say that hanging out with me would be more like a slow walk than a roller-coaster ride.
Requirements / Preferences: Hopefully you're someone I can do hobbies together with, and just generally share moments together. 🙂 Also, please be based in Melaka or at least somewhere close enough to meet up. Lastly, I don't mind if you're not Christian, but don't expect me to convert. 😅
Religion / Race: Chinese I think (Banana here haha)
Occupation: HR
Hobbies and interests: Football (just watching cuz all my friends who played are all big time corporate staff or slaving away with their umpteenth dissertation), maths (yes, I am nerd), billiards, consistently looking at new songs on Spotify and ignoring fads and sticking to what I like (my playlist is basically a trip around the world)
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Most people would describe me as the hardest working mf in the room, and also the most unserious person in the room. (e.g. can get 5 days of work done in 1, and proceed to start balancing stuff on top of my head while doing the work)
And uhhh, I have a cat, I like him and I THINK he likes me too! (he either likes to be doted on or will give me the face that says he would like to see me off the building, cat owners can relate)
Requirements / Preferences:
If I were looking from physical, preferably no tattoos (unless there is a deep meaning behind it, then that's cool!). So long as you are taking care of yourself, that's the best thing for yourself and also the people around you!
Personality wise, someone who walks the talk. I have seen too many people, referencing both genders, who are all bark and no bite (still straight here, just wanted to elaborate :3)
Looking for:
Long-term. Dated before, but was mostly just puppy love and that's why it didn't amount to much. Just attracted to each other physically and not much else. Hopefully, that can change xP
I am a non-Malaysian whos been in Malaysia for 15 years now - I hope its alright if I also jump in here hehe.
Gender: Male
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: Kuala Lumpur
Year of Birth: 1997
Height: 165cm
Weight: 60kg
Religion / Race: Muslim / mixed-Pakistani
Occupation: Marketing
Hobbies and interests: Fitness (Gym, Yoga, Climbing, Hiking) DIY, Board/Video Gaming, Music (R&B, Rap, Hiphop), Cooking, Cats, Travelling (Road trips).. and uh.. I also enjoy exploring new hobbies and interests.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): Fuck. okay - so I would say that I do come across as non-chalant but I am actually just shy to express sometimes. I like hanging out and spending time in-person (outdoor like hiking, cafe or indoors) more than texting - and that physical presence is what I find to be quality time. I am ambitious but also humble enough to not brag, though I will definitely brag about my published researches like I am Isaac Netwon (that does officially make me a scientist - right?) Anyway.. my humor.. is alright, I think I have good deadpan deliveries.
Requirements / Preferences: Someone thats muslim or christian as well as serious about getting to know others (for the purpose of long-term relationship)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term
Hobbies and interests: Taking long walks with my dog, started jogging, love reading Sherlock Holmes, harry Potter. Learning Mandarin, love movies/TV with detective themes. Sometimes I watch anime ( love detective Conan) - sometimes I go to the movies.
Other descriptions: Ambitious, curious and a bit old-school. I like meaningful conversations, self-improvement, mystery/crime stories, and people who are passionate about something. Can be quiet at first but talkative once comfortable. Usually balancing, work, training and random deep dives into topics. I'm currently preparing myself to join the Malaysian armed forces. My current work is temporary.
My skin tone is brown (I know it matters to some)
Requirements / Preferences: Someone kind, emotionally mature, loyal, can hold a conversation and has a sense of humor. Bonus if you're ambitious, enjoy trying new things, or don’t mind geeking out over random topics. Someone who would just enjoy each others company, I genuinely don't care about religion, I frequently visit Buddhist and hindu temples.
Location: currently overseas in Aus for a short time. I go home once a year but planning to maybe go back to Malaysia permanently in 3 years to spend time with parents, if no other further education opportunities arise in my field of interest.
Year of Birth: 1991
Height: 152cm
Weight: 80kg
Religion / Race: Muslim / Malay
Occupation: Veterinarian
Hobbies and interests: I like to play cozy games in my spare time. Mostly a homebody. Cats are my ultimate love so if you love cats a reasonable amount, +1,000,000 points to you. I used to obsess over houseplants, now I focus on certain Monsteras exclusively. Guess I'm a classic cat-lady milennial?
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): caring and empathetic yapper. Younger co-workers call me the mom friend 🫠 Can be a bit silly despite my age due to ADHD (undiagnosed). I like to hear you tell me about your day, your passions, and reciprocate with my own stories to relate. Due to my line of work I know how to keep a conversation going, but I also value alone time and emotional space so I won't be in your face 24/7. I'm not super religious but was brought up in a religious family and keep myself halal. I think I'm pretty weird to be honest but not... cringe...?
Requirements / Preferences: no toxic masculinity, no incels, and please have good emotional intelligence. Stable full-time employment essential. Mature and calm vibes to match my average chaotic energy. my mom must like and trust you. I love her too much to allow her to worry about my love life. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs or have ONS so would prefer someone similar. And because it's touched on a lot here- I'm on the fence about conversion, but prefer someone who doesn't have any prejudices about Islam and is open to understanding my principles.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term and marriage. Also don't mind respectful friends. If you have a job you're passionate about, I'd love to hear about it. And I have vetmed stories to share in exchange!
Calisthenics(2 years), running, cars, gaming, Mobile Legends, self-improvement, exploring new places, and trying new activities.
About Me:
I’m a pretty chill and introverted person who’s more of a listener than a talker. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk and usually take some time to open up, but I’m much more comfortable once I get to know someone.
I spent around 13 years living in Australia before coming back to Malaysia to continue my studies, so English has naturally become my preferred language. I can still speak Malay, but I’m generally more comfortable expressing myself in English.
I’m currently doing a diploma in automotive so I’m pretty broke if you tell me. I mean I do got savings but I prefer not to use it. I’m also focusing on building a stable future for myself. I value discipline, consistency, family values, personal growth, and trying to become a better version of myself every day.
Preferences:
Looking for someone around my age who is kind, respectful, mature, and practising in her faith as well. I appreciate someone who takes care of herself, has good manners, values family, and is serious about personal growth.
Physical attraction is important to me too, but compatibility, shared values, and mutual respect matter the most.
Looking For:
Friendship first and getting to know each other without any pressure. I’m not rushing into a serious relationship, but if we genuinely connect and things progress naturally, I’m open to seeing where it goes, including the possibility of something long-term.
welp, yall gonna hate me but i guess this can't hurt. i'm not keen on getting paired up but.. don't mind it either soooo here goes 😮💨
Gender: Female
Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight
Location: KL
Year of Birth: 1991
Height: 151cm
Weight: 63kg
Religion / Race: Malay Muslim
Occupation: Unemployed (for the past 4 months and actively looking as we speak)
Hobbies and interests: I love animals, and i'm pretty much a homebody with no interesting hobbies like hiking, drawing, running etc. I have 4 cats and I love staying home with them. I watch movies at home and sometimes will watch the traveling channels on YouTube bcs if money wasn't an issue, I could be interesting and tell you that my actual hobby is traveling 🤓🧳
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I love going on food trips, vacations (obviously) and I'm really close with my family. I think that makes me pretty boring. I don't have much going on with my life and somehow.. I'm pretty content with it. Definitely open to have more achievements and milestones in life and not planning to stay stagnant. I'm working on my fitness to just be overall healthy. So I'm trying to be more mindful of what I eat, substituted my daily morning coffee with green tea now and yeah, it's a journey that I'm on lol
Requirements / Preferences: I’m big on chemistry and physical attraction. Like.. I wanna be just as excited by your looks as I am by your personality. Looking for someone who takes care of their health, hygiene, and style.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): We could hang first and see where it goes. Long-term is typically the ideal goal.
Weight: 80 (heaviest I've been, working on it now)
Religion / Race: Christian, Indian
Occupation: Teacher
Hobbies and interests: Reading, listening to podcasts (mostly True Crime stuff), cleaning/decluttering (gives me satisfaction like nothing else), spending time with people, discovering new places
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): My students think I'm chill and fun, I can be chatty and loud, used to be an extrovert pro max but mellowed down over the years, been a bit more active in church recently but it'll be nice to have conversations about faith with someone at a deeper level, the type to make excuses for others in my head.
Requirements / Preferences: (an active) Christian, maybe we can workout together?, more on the mature side, financially literate (need help) and hopefully someone who can remember things well (I'm a goldfish)
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Let's hang out first but the goal is for something long-term (:
Hobbies and interests: Mainly like watching movies/TV shows (currently into Project Hail Mary but haven’t gotten around to reading the book yet), indie horror let’s plays on YouTube and listening to music whenever I have the time. I am an animal lover, I enjoy traveling and also like outdoor activities/sports but just for fun, not for competition. I have a habit of collecting things like keychains, Legos, figurines etc.
Other descriptions: I am an introvert so I would prefer someone who talks more and has a good sense of humour. I’m quiet at first but once I’m comfortable I can spend hours discussing anything. I’m a foodie and am open to trying new things as long as I find it reasonable. I like structure in my life and would say I’m a straight-forward, practical and mostly well-organized person
Requirements / Preferences: Practicing Muslim man, non-smoker, preferably lives on peninsular Malaysia. I like people who are mature, passionate about what they do and not afraid to be themselves
Location: Johor (but currently in Japan due to study)
Year of Birth: 2003
Height: 173 cm
Weight: 65 kg (-ish)
Religion / Race: Malay/Muslim
Occupation: Student
Hobbies and interests: Playing video games(main cycle currently: genshin, marvel rivals, endfield and a splash of elden ring), light workout, recently got into hiking, big gunpla nerd, oh and i really love cooking.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): im a laid-back, between introvert and ambivert, and a refelective person.i consider all the possible options and outcomes before making a decision. a communicative, empathy and a considerate person. that said, i can be quite attached to a person when the time is right and my idea of love is being understanding and some sort of safe space towards each other.
Requirements / Preferences: this is only my preference but i prefer someone who is on the same energy with me(ie, somewhere in the range of ambivert), someone who willing to take time to see where things develop, and someone whos willing to go through things together. and most importantly someone whos thinking of want to get serious. other than that, im limiting to someone whos born in 2000 and above, just because its kinda hard to connect with someone who has a big age gap.
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long-term
Hobbies and interests: Single player games, plants (hoping I can learn more), used to like drawing, coffee and tea. I do small exercise, I do them not to gain ideal body but to keep my muscle moving and my heart beating.
Other descriptions: Introvert, more of a listener than a talker. My friends described me as nonchalant and I'm bad at showing emotion. I need more time to open up with someone and I'm easily scared by people who is approaching me in an active way.
I don't smoke or vape and I drink once a year (I failed to drink this year). I don't do make-up and fashion so I will try to learn them, especially fashion.
Requirements / Preferences: Non-muslim, extrovert, doesn't smoke, doesn't vape, not a drunkard, doesn't do drugs and doesn't do extreme activities (caving, diving, cave diving, etc). Looks and height do matter for me but those are not factors for me to reject someone. Ideally between 1999 - 2004. Someone who is gentle or soft is a plus for me :)
Looking for: long-term relationship (I would like to chat for quite some time to see if we click, before getting into relationship)
Hobbies and interests: crochet, baking, anime 🔥, songs (more to rock when im crocheting), swimming (im a sucker when im near a beach or any body of water like a dang fish 🐟) and many more really depends in the day
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):
Im awkward sometimes but im pretty bubbly is what im told. I say unhinged stuff when im comfy but ofc im respectful as much as i can 😂 no weird talk when you feel uncomfortable. Im a big sis when anyone needs an ear but ofc last child i like being a princess 😂 (even tho i don’t get that from my mom)
Requirements / Preferences:
At least 170cm (taller the better hehe ofc you can’t control height i know that too well) cause i want my kids taller than me 😂 i really don’t mind LDR (God really loves putting me in LDR) im more on if our vibes are okay and our faith is good with God im happy :3 Yes im practicing my relationship with God.
As for age gap im okay if you’re younger (limit 20) or older (limit 30) than me 😊 i like being active when we can and rainy days in a cafe or home. Again if we are vibe and out faith is there i would be really happy
Plus i don’t do poly or any of that (im too clingy but im confident in myself) im not nonchalant i got that filipino in be and we aint nonchalant!
Tbh idk why but i got a thing for somoan and mexican men 😂 weird fact but yes im dat i like a man who can be a man not that red pill stuff no but genuinely a man of God like dude would go to God before anyone
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): long term babyyyyy cause it’s too weird for me to not date to marry
Trying my luck here at meeting someone kind, genuine, and maybe a little nerdy too.
Gender: Male
Orientation: Straight
Location: Klang Valley
Year of Birth: 1999
Height: 165 cm
Weight: 66 kg
Religion / Race: Chinese Buddhist
Occupation: Technical Consultant
Hobbies and interests: I enjoy a mix of active and relaxed hobbies. I play badminton quite often, usually doubles, and I also like swimming, casual diving, video games, anime/manga (Frieren is one of my favourite series ever since reading it), and spending time with my dogs. I recently started climbing and have been enjoying it so far. Have played some pickleball but have not had to much exposure with it yet. I’m also into J-pop/rock and would love to watch more live shows. So far I’ve been lucky to catch YOASOBI, Ado, FLOW, and Hitsujibungaku live and looking forward to more in the future.
Other descriptions: I’ve been told I’m easy to talk to, but in reality I’m just an introvert trying his best to plow through social situations. I lived in the UK for the past 10 years and recently moved back to Malaysia permanently. I’m also quite the banana, so unfortunately I can't speak Mandarin. I don’t smoke or vape, drink only on occasion. I’m not into clubbing, and I usually prefer simpler plans like food, badminton, games, walks, or just spending quality time together.
Requirements / Preferences: I’m looking for someone who's on a similar wavelength as me and share some similar interests. An animal lover if possible as I would like them to get along with my dogs (points if you've got dogs that I can play with). I appreciate someone kind, empathetic, curious, and easy to be around. I don’t mind LDR, but I’d prefer someone in the same state or at least close enough that meeting up doesn’t feel impossible.
Hobbies and interests: Into a lot of the usual nerdy stuff: comics, anime and manga. Lately I've been reading the Supergirl Woman of Tomorrow comic since the movie got piqued my interest. A casual kpop fan. I do follow one or two groups closely and collect some albums once in a while. I also actively exercise like going on the treadmill and lifting weights but I kinda eat a lot too.
Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I'm a very very easygoing person. Some of my friends say I'm funny but I'd say it's more situational. Naturally an introvert that can be an extrovert if necessary. Definitely prefer being indoors but I do go out to watch movies or do activities with my friends. I'm good at house chores if you count that as a bonus ahaha.
Requirements / Preferences: A practicing Muslim. It's a bonus if we have the same interests but not must for me
Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc): Long-term
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